Fight for Rights

Straight forward, but gay as hell.

[brianttran-deactivated20120224]

Reblog or your mom will die in 928 seconds.

[ovod0se]

I love my mom.

I am risking nothing

I AM SORRY FOLLOWERS, I LOVE MY MOMMY

Will not risk.

sorry followers :(

[whatgracelikes-deactivated20190]

omg im so glad to se so many people love their mummy

[ameriagrae]

Why’re you being mean to my mum?

[larryismyhallelujah-blog]

goddamn it

[lollie-pond-deactivated20150728]

Nope. Googled it. 15 minuets. Nope. Not taking any chances

[steampoweredplayer]

Koop

[twirliest]

This has 1.2 million reblogs … Ps not riskin it

[nathanvj]

1.4 almost ps not risking it

[queenprotein-deactivated2016012]

Fuck this post

[i-likethesummer-rain]

2.5 million notes I hate myself

[froot-lupul]

I reblogged this twice now

[insidethe99-blog]

I’m so sorry this isn’t b99 related and this isn’t real but I can’t not skip this I’m sorry

[mayannaise-hart-deactivated2021]

Not taking a fucking chance

[lethamber]

Sorry, guys, but Im not taking a chance

[celestialkeyprincess]

No chances… She’s out… And she must be protected.

[bitchwithwifivevo]

How dare you

[riarkling]

Whatcha doin to me Farkle!

[chillyclarke-deactivated2018010]

i can’t risk it

sorry babes my moms just my favorite person ever

[prettylittleliarsfan901-deactiv]

Sorry I can’t risk it

[missprincessdancingsunshine]

Fuck sorry guys  I love my mom

[incoherentlyblogging]

Omg I hate these things but I am paranoid. So sorry guys.

[feels-ships-lunars]

2.8 million notes

CANT RISK IT

[trapbvby]

Sorry guys

[desolves]

sorry 😩

[mexicanthighs-deactivated201605]

IM NOT RISKING IT

[pollo-v]

NOT RISKING

[tiredtenatiousteen-blog]

Merf

[celebsland]

Me neither.

[camren-unicorns-and-dragons]

NOT RIIIIISKING

[sorrysnape]

Sorry guyssss

[fierce-little-red]

3.5Mill notes. Not gonna risk it.

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

Fuck u all

[molliartytho]

okay but just think about this…

Jim wanting to get a pet, because Molly has one so why can’t he? but instead of going out and getting a hamster or a puppy or something he goes out and comes hoME WITH A TIGER

and Molly just freaks out when he walks in with a huge grin and a freAKING TIGER BEHIND HIM 

“WHERE DID YOU EVEN GET THAT?!”

“The zoo was closed and Sebastian knew a guy who helped us get in!”

“YOU HAVE TO TAKE IT BACK RIGHT NOW.”

“But Jim Jr. will get lonely!”

“Jim!”

“I NEVER GET TO KEEP ANYTHING I WANT.”

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

Help 😂

[hockeythighs]

View this post on Instagram

OK I try not to post about the same team twice in two days, but this video of Matt Murray with a fluffy puppy is extremely important.

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

Omg two puppies together at last!

[shannon-posts]

Reblog if you still love the Sherlock series

Too many people are throwing so much hate around I want to know that even after that last season people still love the tv show.

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

Yes, the whole series. Just not the one we don't talk about...

[thehipster-pikachu]

THIS ONES GOT MORE STAMINA BUT HE'S LESS CARING IN THE AFTERGLOW

My aesthetic is gay moriarty

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

Same

[citruspocket]

why the fuck #103823: why the fuck was euros pretending to be 3 people and flirting with john and pretending to be faith and pretending to be john’s therapist

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

Duh, it was so she could do an "epic" reveal to john, trank him and then, go back to prison?!?

[consultingwives]

the johnlock choler - a playlist for january 16th 

ironic - alanis morissette / i don’t give a fuck - boss / please please please let me get what i want - the smiths / fuck you - lily allen / you oughta know - alanis morissette / fuck you - cee lo green / salt - bad suns / bulletproof - la roux / i know it’s over - the smiths / so what - pink / i know it’s over - steven universe soundtrack / i’m not your toy - la roux / somebody that i used to know (feat. kimbra) - gotye / i don’t need a man - the pussycat dolls / tonight i’m getting over you - carly rae jepsen / bad girls - m.i.a. / i kissed a girl - katy perry / tainted love - soft cell / we r who we r - kesha / problem - ariana grande / go screw yourself (gsy) - avery / i was a fool - tegan and sara / now i’m all messed up - tegan and sara / i bet it stung - tegan and sara / proud - tegan and sara / stronger than you - steven universe soundtrack

[vitruvianwatson]

So like…Eurus can just control people’s minds? I legit do not understand. When did this become an actual superhero/supervillain show???

[just-sort-of-happened]

and yet suddenly: she can’t.  She just plays violin now.  And is totally safe to hang out with

[vitruvianwatson]

Because of “love.” I’m honestly so so upset and disgusted and disappointed.

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

This is TOO REAL!

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

I got so psyched up when Moriarty flew the fuck in, then they hit me with that “five years later” bullshit and I gave up hope for this human dog bowl filled episode. Wtf

[yo-dead-girl-walking]

I’ll seek you out Flay you alive One more word and you won’t survive And I’m not scared Of your stolen power I see right through you any hour

I won’t soothe your pain I won’t ease your strain You’ll be waiting in vain I got nothing for you to gain

I’m taking it slow Feeding my flame Shuffling the cards of your game And just in time In the right place Suddenly I will play my ace

I won’t soothe your pain I won’t ease your strain You’ll be waiting in vain I got nothing for you to gain

Eyes on fire Your spine is ablaze Felling any foe with my gaze And just in time In the right place Steadily emerging with grace

Ahh, felling any foe with my gaze Ahh, steadily emerging with grace Ahh, felling any foe with my gaze Ahh, steadily emerging with grace

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

Yup!

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

Ex-ca-use Me

Ok, ok, ok, guys.  You mean to tell me that Mycroft just kinda called up Moriarty and was like, “Hey...bro, can you come visit me at my top secret high-security prison castle lock down inescapable government fuck fortress to visit my random ass sister cause she wants a killy play date?  Trust me, it definitely isn’t a trap to get you, one of the most brilliant high-functioning psychopath who has an extraordinarily high kill rate, to lock you up at our perfectly designed especially for you psychopath genius prison but...ya know, come please we’re the government: we never lie.”

And Moriarty was kinda like “...Ok.”

WHAT THE SHIT YOU GUYS!!!

[roane72]

The thing about Tumblr that probably makes me saddest is the underlying assumption that women past a certain age (which seems to be about 25?) stop having any sort of outside interests beyond family/career/kids. Like, y’all are always so shocked that grown women have lives and can fangirl as hard as we did as teenagers.

It makes me sad not because it makes me feel old (although it does), but because these younger women are constricting their own lives–they fully expect that this will happen to them someday. Y’all deserve better. Y’all deserve to EXPECT better.

[esterbrook]

And worse than that, the idea that there’s something WRONG with a grown woman who has other interests.

[roane72]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

[goatatemynametag]

One of the biggest things I realized growing up? 

It doesn’t happen.

You expect somehow you will change when you are finally An Adult™. You’ll stop enjoying the things you enjoy now for something more “adult” or “mature.” You’ll FEEL like an adult and not like a child anymore. You’ll feel comfortable and secure and not scared and unsure and confused. You expect you will feel like you have your shit together.

But I can tell you that it doesn’t happen. You’ll still feel like the “you” you were at 15 or 17 or 19. 

You just have these…things to deal with. Like rent. And insurance. 

You have a job either because a) you like it or b) it keeps the lights and internet on. 

You’ll look up from fangirling one day and realize “Shit. I am twenty eight years old. That’s almost 30!” Or maybe it will be that you look down at the small child clasped around your legs and realize “That is my child. I have a child. A human being child.” Or maybe it will be that you have to negotiate your budget around con tickets AND a mortgage payment. 

Growing up isn’t a thing that happens. 

It’s a realization that it doesn’t happen. 

[roane72]

Holy shit, y’all. There are some AMAZING responses to this post. Yes, everything alwayshometomarvel says. All that.

[eclecticmuses]

Feeling like I wasn’t ‘adult’ enough fucked me up for years. I would cry at night and feel like a total piece of shit because I was married with a kid, and yet I still did ‘not adult’ things–I played MMOs, I cosplayed and went to conventions, I drew fan art and wrote fan fic. I kept waiting for the day that I would wake up and realize that what I really needed to be doing was the laundry, cleaning the house, making dinner every night, etc. Basically, be the ‘perfect’ wife and mother.

And somewhere between then and now, I somehow managed to tell myself…fuck it. I AM an adult. I go to work every day and pay the bills and help raise my son and take care of the house. I do legit adult things. AND I play MMOs, go to conventions, and participate in fandom. And THAT’S OKAY. I’m 32 years old now and finally at peace with that part of myself. (Having a supportive husband and kid doesn’t hurt either!)

[tariqk]

@malaysianfeminist

[madamethursday]

All of this is such truth. Believing these things about growing up, and especially about being over 25? Really made it hard for me when I turned 30.

I was literally suicidal on my 30th birthday. I spent the whole day in tears. I felt like I had died and my life was now worthless and small and never going to be hopeful or full of promise or fun again. I felt like killing myself on my birthday because I bought into this lie that somewhere after your mid-twenties, you diminish as a woman because the only thing that made you alive and shiny was your youth.

I’m 31 now and I’m done with that shit. I’m over it. I don’t care if you think I’m too old for something. If I’m an old lady in Tumblr terms, then I’m past the legal age where I’m obligated to care what you think. 

So, I’m telling you girls out there right now who are in your teens and twenties, get rid of this idea of what older women are “supposed” to look like. Get rid of this idea that “soccer moms” don’t play video games or that all women over 25 should be married and contemplating kids. Get rid of the idea that fanfic and fandom and fun things are for “kids.”

Mostly, get rid of this notion that the only thing really valuable about you is your youth. Youth is part of life, but it’s not the most valuable or beautiful or exciting time of your life. I like my life at 30 about 1000% than I did at 15, 18, 20, even 25. 

[robotmango]

on her deathbed, my grandmother pulled my mom close to her and said, “i don’t feel old. i don’t know how i’m supposed to feel. but inside, i still feel seventeen.” when I was a teenager, I used to think that story was sad; sad and strange somehow, like she’d been frozen in time. but now that i am a woman in my thirties, I understand. I understand her. I am a grown woman in the ways that matter. I listen to myself more, trust my experience more. but inside? I still feel the joy and rage and mess; I am still changing. we’re not frozen in time. we are just still growing.

the more we acknowledge that modern “adulthood” is largely a concept designed to sell vacuums and sedans, and not an arbitrary total overhaul of self at age 35, the more we can admit our ongoing capacity– no, our ongoing NEED for play and playfulness and exploration. those are childish things we should never have to put away.

[lauraannegilman]

I’m heading into the last year of my 40′s.  I own a home (ok, I own a very small apartment) and I’ve held down a job in the same industry for 25+ years, in varying forms.  I do laundry and wash dishes when they need doing, and pay my bills on time (except the times I don’t, ooops).   I am, dog help us all, the more adulting adult people are always looking for.

And I wallow in fanfic and fandom, I go to concerts and dance my ass off and eat Chinese food after midnight, I have Funko Pop! figures staring down at me from the top of my fridge, I color my hair (or not) depending on whim, not expectation, and some of my closest friends and mischief-partners are in their 30′s (and some are in their 60′s).

Claim it all.  This is your birthright.

[obsessionisaperfume]

I’ll be 60 next year. I’ll also be going to SPN cons and writing meta and buying merch and flailing about Show and Destiel.

When my kids were little, I wrote fanfic and published fanzines and went to fan-run cons because I needed something that was ~mine~, that wasn’t about being a mom or a wife–something that was about being ME. It’s easy to lose sight of that uniqueness when you have to worry about diapers and soccer practice and getting kids on the bus every morning, but y'all, it’s so important. SO IMPORTANT to hold onto YOU.

[absedarian]

Amen to all of this. Adult(ing)™ is what you do, not what you are.

No matter your age.

[holdbeast]

Burn down the presumption that being into fandom as an adult is somehow juvenile. 

You know who doesn’t have to deal with this shit?  Male sports fans, who are apparently entitled not to let go of the things they loved as children, while us fangirls have to suck it up.  How nice for them!!

Please, stop hating your future self.  Stop thinking that fun and frivolousness and pleasure and possibility are not for her.  Stop thinking you’re trapped.  Just stop. 

[shadokatninjakitty]

*Hits Reblog button so fast, hurt the finger..*

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

@consultingfangirl Girl you need to read this…ALL OF THIS.

[artemis-pendragon]

This is everything I never knew I needed in my life. Thank you @lefthandedanddeadinside and OP for this gift omgggg 💙💙💙

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

@consultingfangirl your welcome 😃✌

[roane72]

The thing about Tumblr that probably makes me saddest is the underlying assumption that women past a certain age (which seems to be about 25?) stop having any sort of outside interests beyond family/career/kids. Like, y’all are always so shocked that grown women have lives and can fangirl as hard as we did as teenagers.

It makes me sad not because it makes me feel old (although it does), but because these younger women are constricting their own lives–they fully expect that this will happen to them someday. Y’all deserve better. Y’all deserve to EXPECT better.

[esterbrook]

And worse than that, the idea that there’s something WRONG with a grown woman who has other interests.

[roane72]

^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^^

[goatatemynametag]

One of the biggest things I realized growing up? 

It doesn’t happen.

You expect somehow you will change when you are finally An Adult™. You’ll stop enjoying the things you enjoy now for something more “adult” or “mature.” You’ll FEEL like an adult and not like a child anymore. You’ll feel comfortable and secure and not scared and unsure and confused. You expect you will feel like you have your shit together.

But I can tell you that it doesn’t happen. You’ll still feel like the “you” you were at 15 or 17 or 19. 

You just have these…things to deal with. Like rent. And insurance. 

You have a job either because a) you like it or b) it keeps the lights and internet on. 

You’ll look up from fangirling one day and realize “Shit. I am twenty eight years old. That’s almost 30!” Or maybe it will be that you look down at the small child clasped around your legs and realize “That is my child. I have a child. A human being child.” Or maybe it will be that you have to negotiate your budget around con tickets AND a mortgage payment. 

Growing up isn’t a thing that happens. 

It’s a realization that it doesn’t happen. 

[roane72]

Holy shit, y’all. There are some AMAZING responses to this post. Yes, everything alwayshometomarvel says. All that.

[eclecticmuses]

Feeling like I wasn’t ‘adult’ enough fucked me up for years. I would cry at night and feel like a total piece of shit because I was married with a kid, and yet I still did ‘not adult’ things–I played MMOs, I cosplayed and went to conventions, I drew fan art and wrote fan fic. I kept waiting for the day that I would wake up and realize that what I really needed to be doing was the laundry, cleaning the house, making dinner every night, etc. Basically, be the ‘perfect’ wife and mother.

And somewhere between then and now, I somehow managed to tell myself…fuck it. I AM an adult. I go to work every day and pay the bills and help raise my son and take care of the house. I do legit adult things. AND I play MMOs, go to conventions, and participate in fandom. And THAT’S OKAY. I’m 32 years old now and finally at peace with that part of myself. (Having a supportive husband and kid doesn’t hurt either!)

[tariqk]

@malaysianfeminist

[madamethursday]

All of this is such truth. Believing these things about growing up, and especially about being over 25? Really made it hard for me when I turned 30.

I was literally suicidal on my 30th birthday. I spent the whole day in tears. I felt like I had died and my life was now worthless and small and never going to be hopeful or full of promise or fun again. I felt like killing myself on my birthday because I bought into this lie that somewhere after your mid-twenties, you diminish as a woman because the only thing that made you alive and shiny was your youth.

I’m 31 now and I’m done with that shit. I’m over it. I don’t care if you think I’m too old for something. If I’m an old lady in Tumblr terms, then I’m past the legal age where I’m obligated to care what you think. 

So, I’m telling you girls out there right now who are in your teens and twenties, get rid of this idea of what older women are “supposed” to look like. Get rid of this idea that “soccer moms” don’t play video games or that all women over 25 should be married and contemplating kids. Get rid of the idea that fanfic and fandom and fun things are for “kids.”

Mostly, get rid of this notion that the only thing really valuable about you is your youth. Youth is part of life, but it’s not the most valuable or beautiful or exciting time of your life. I like my life at 30 about 1000% than I did at 15, 18, 20, even 25. 

[robotmango]

on her deathbed, my grandmother pulled my mom close to her and said, “i don’t feel old. i don’t know how i’m supposed to feel. but inside, i still feel seventeen.” when I was a teenager, I used to think that story was sad; sad and strange somehow, like she’d been frozen in time. but now that i am a woman in my thirties, I understand. I understand her. I am a grown woman in the ways that matter. I listen to myself more, trust my experience more. but inside? I still feel the joy and rage and mess; I am still changing. we’re not frozen in time. we are just still growing.

the more we acknowledge that modern “adulthood” is largely a concept designed to sell vacuums and sedans, and not an arbitrary total overhaul of self at age 35, the more we can admit our ongoing capacity– no, our ongoing NEED for play and playfulness and exploration. those are childish things we should never have to put away.

[lauraannegilman]

I’m heading into the last year of my 40′s.  I own a home (ok, I own a very small apartment) and I’ve held down a job in the same industry for 25+ years, in varying forms.  I do laundry and wash dishes when they need doing, and pay my bills on time (except the times I don’t, ooops).   I am, dog help us all, the more adulting adult people are always looking for.

And I wallow in fanfic and fandom, I go to concerts and dance my ass off and eat Chinese food after midnight, I have Funko Pop! figures staring down at me from the top of my fridge, I color my hair (or not) depending on whim, not expectation, and some of my closest friends and mischief-partners are in their 30′s (and some are in their 60′s).

Claim it all.  This is your birthright.

[obsessionisaperfume]

I’ll be 60 next year. I’ll also be going to SPN cons and writing meta and buying merch and flailing about Show and Destiel.

When my kids were little, I wrote fanfic and published fanzines and went to fan-run cons because I needed something that was ~mine~, that wasn’t about being a mom or a wife–something that was about being ME. It’s easy to lose sight of that uniqueness when you have to worry about diapers and soccer practice and getting kids on the bus every morning, but y'all, it’s so important. SO IMPORTANT to hold onto YOU.

[absedarian]

Amen to all of this. Adult(ing)™ is what you do, not what you are.

No matter your age.

[holdbeast]

Burn down the presumption that being into fandom as an adult is somehow juvenile. 

You know who doesn’t have to deal with this shit?  Male sports fans, who are apparently entitled not to let go of the things they loved as children, while us fangirls have to suck it up.  How nice for them!!

Please, stop hating your future self.  Stop thinking that fun and frivolousness and pleasure and possibility are not for her.  Stop thinking you’re trapped.  Just stop. 

[shadokatninjakitty]

*Hits Reblog button so fast, hurt the finger..*

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

@consultingfangirl Girl you need to read this...ALL OF THIS.

[ashleybuttons]

Maybe if we all say 'Russell T. Davies' at the same time...

[doctorandroseinatardis]

Moffat era will be the era the never was!

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

I am so alone and wish a had a girl. I can't have a broken heart when there's nothing left to break it.

[yeezus-fish]

when a stupid slut asks if there’s going to be a swimming pool

[lefthandedanddeadinside-blog]

Moftiss: How did you like the new episode Me: AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH*breathing break* AHHHHHHHHHH…AHH..A…*cough cough* *puke