why is it that whenever i tell someone that i’m asexual the first thing they say is, “well if you’ve never been with someone how do you know? you should go out and try.”
i’m really tired of this.
People are like that with anything that falls out of the norm, and even when you play into their spectations or just had because life is a journey, they trap you all the same.
How can you be ace when you haven't been with somebody? How can you be ace when you have been with somebody?
















