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18, they/them or ask, Genderfluid w/ ever changing interests. No proship. Free Palestine 🇵🇸, Free Sudan 🇸🇩, Free Haiti, Free Congo🇨🇩

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the buddie scene at the bar ? when eddie fights the homophobe ? i think we are way too focused on the fact that buddie got assumed gay and not on the fact that eddie, much like when he immediately jumped to action after one of the nepo babies pushed buck, was protecting buck

i dont think he would've cared as much or got so mad if he was on his own, he gets mad for buck, because he is actually queer and this dude is being a homophobe ???? to his best friend ???? nah

nobody touches buck on his watch and i think thats very hot and sexy of him,

deepfriedshrimpgirly

Every single Ryan Guzman interview makes me realize that he’s actually got a really deep understanding of the character and also what the fans want from the show and writers are just screwing him over by giving Eddie like nothing to work with

At this point just put Ryan in the writers room

weirdly-specific-but-ok

yes, India made legal gender change impossible but the doctor down the street who gives me my T shots in a clinic so small that it's just two rooms was excited for me when she said my voice had dropped yes, India made legal gender change impossible but the receptionist who could see that I was a man didn't bat an eyelash when I asked to see the gynecologist and called me sir when he asked how I wanted to pay yes, India made legal gender change impossible but the barber cuts my hair exactly how I want it and never gave me strange looks for being in a men's salon not even back when I didn't pass as one

yes, India made legal gender change impossible but my friends have always gendered me correctly and stick to it even when it confuses other people and my friend's little sibling calls me older brother in Kannada yes, India made legal gender change impossible but my dog learned my new name quicker than the humans and she runs to give me a kiss when she's told to without being confused about who's being referred to

yes, India made legal gender change impossible but I can feel the Adam's apple growing in my throat and my muscles getting stronger, and my smile more real and I'm growing a beard, and I talk more freely

yes, India made legal gender change impossible but I'm here, and I'm alive, and so are you and there are good people, people who care and don't let them make you forget that-- you are not alone.

Knowing it was Maddie that called Eddie about Bobby, do we think the reason Eddie wanted Buck to ask what it was like because for a split second he thought it was Buck?

makingqueerhistory

A 13-year-old boy in Russia has been registered as a juvenile offender on charges of ‘LGBT propaganda’ and displaying extremist symbols.

A 13-year-old boy in Russia has been registered as a juvenile offender on charges of ‘LGBT propaganda’ and displaying extremist symbols after allegedly showing a video to classmates. As reported by Russian news outlet Mediazona, a case was opened against the 13-year-old, whose details were withheld to protect his identity, after his classmates’ parents raised a complaint with police about the video. The content of the video is unknown, but it was alleged that it contained a symbol designated as “extremist”. Because under Russian law responsibility for administrative offences can only be held by people aged 16 or older, the boy’s case was transferred to a regional Juvenile Affairs Commission. Charging the boy under Russia’s ‘LGBT propaganda’ law, the Commission suggested that the boy be removed from his school and transferred to a “special education institute” where he will be “treated by psychologists.”

May 26, 2026

Eddie putting Buck in his will in the context of Eddie begins makes me want to lie down on the floor. The flashbacks show us that Eddie has a real problem committing to things when someone else can hold him responsible for his faults. He can’t commit to being a husband, or a father, until he literally has no choice. Now, he’ll hold himself responsible until the sun goes supernova, obviously, but he can’t stomach the idea of sharing the burden (martyr complex hello) and possibly someone bearing witness to his fuck ups.

But the will. The will is committing to Buck. Specifically, it’s committing his failure as a father to Buck. Buck gets Chris if Eddie dies—never mind that they’re partners on the job, that if Eddie dies and Buck doesn’t, it’ll haunt him for the rest of his life—that’s Eddie’s failure to bear. And he’s letting Buck see it. Buck sees at as the ultimate gesture of trust that it is, but it’s not just Eddie making sure Chris will have the best care, it’s Eddie saying: you get to see the aftermath. I’ll let you be around when I fail. I’ll let you pick up the pieces.

And then Buck does, and Eddie doesn’t even have to die for it.

feeling tender about the way Buddie approach each other's relationship with their parents.

Eddie doesn't try to get mad on Buck's behalf when Buck was venting after the disastrous dinner in s4, he doesn't add fuel to the already frantic frustration that Buck was feeling, but he does stay grounded that Buck doesn't need to apologize for speaking his feelings and truth to his parents. then when the Daniel reveal is done, Eddie once again says it's not Buck's fault that his parents decided what they did, but only after Buck shares that it's how he feels. and when the Buckley parents do come to the firehouse, it's implied that he told them good things about Buck (along with the team) but also waited to give Buck a heads-up so he could take a minute to decide what he wanted to do next. it's all simple and clear, and it's important that at no point was Eddie stirring Buck up more because he didn't need that. Buck didn't need someone to get mad on his behalf, in this scenario, Maddie already had that handled against their parents. what he needed was a place safe where he could pour out his frustrations and feelings and have some perimeter so it didn't flow out in a way he could gather himself back. Eddie becomes the calm shore that reminds Buck that the only option isn't a stormy sea.

In contrast, Eddie didn't have anyone getting mad on his behalf in s8. he was accepting forced calm as the only option, and Buck reminded him of the courage he needed to swim back out. because Buck doesn't tell Eddie not to be scared when Eddie talks about not having the job secured or Chris finding out about the Uber or missing out the chess tournament or the doubt of his cooking matching his mom's. instead, he tells him to do what he went there to do, go after what he actually wants, because courage isn't the absence of fear after all. it's choosing something above it. whether it's telling Eddie to Dad Up, assuring that a slow cooker recipe won't fail, laying out the facts that being able to face the consequences is less of a nightmare than Chris leaving, or challenging Eddie's parents' notion of not wanting to disrupt. do the damage and take the risk, Buck says, because Buck believes in Eddie's ability to figure it out once he meets the fear head-on. he doesn't just listen and sigh alongside Eddie, doesn't nod along and say he understands the dilemma. he offers action, tangible and unavoidable truth like a line back onto the ship that Eddie was doubting he'd drag down. Buck becomes the unrelenting wave that reminds Eddie that his ship just needed him to steer again.

eddie watching theo while buck runs errands, chris is eating candy and theo asks if he can have some so chris says "i don't know, go ask my dad" so theo starts running looking for eddie and yelling "MY DAD, CAN I HAVE CANDY? MY DAAAAAAD" because that's what chris calls him!

pagingdr-iverson

I shouldn’t have cackled so H A R D at this but seriously I can totally see Theo doing that! Can you even imagine how much amusement people would likely get in the world of 911 because there is literally a tiny BUCK running around there kicking up trouble like it’s going outta style?! I can just see Eddie chasing this kid around exhausted but loving it! 🤣😂🤣

'you're exhausting' and 'she sees me' are two sides of the same coin and that coin is 'shit these characters absolutely are not still agonizing about years later despite looming disproportionately large in the fandom consciousness'

they could’ve had way more fun with the eddie uber driver thing post return to la if everything else didn’t happen. the whole team are on a night out and when it’s time to leave buck is like i think i’ll just book an uber home and gets his phone out smiling to himself. two minutes later eddie’s phone goes off and it’s a venmo notification from buck for $5 and a note with his address on and an obnoxious smiley face :))))). eddie’s just like get in the damn car. he drives buck to bedford street though. obviously.

bi-and-bewildered

— yes & no // natalie wee

oh okay didn’t even care about having a good day anyway. It’s okay to be sad today. It’s okay to think about this all day

weirdplutoprince

Nothing more painful than when a kind stranger tells you about some random AI feature in a way that is clearly meant to be helpful and you have to choose between nodding along in despair or turning wokezilla 3000 on them

i know folks are gonna call me a pedo for this one, but i grew up seeing my mom and grandma naked. they had health issues and at times needed care and help showering. and i truly think more kids need to be shown the nonsexual reality of naked women at a young age. there is nothing sexual about my grandmothers breasts, they were simply body parts. more women die of heart attacks because people are too afraid of breasts to do real chest compressions, because they are scared to touch their breasts. the sexualization of our bodies literally kills us. i need people to be more normal about naked bodies and i'm 100% serious.

happy pride month to Hen and Karen Wilson

This pride month, if you have free time and like to draw, maybe consider (not forced) contributing to the intersex visual guide that will be getting officially published on October 16th (intersex awareness day!)

Even just a single drawing would do wonders for this project! There are dozens of prompts still open!

More details can be found here [link]! Traditional artists are accepted too! And you don't need to be intersex yourself to contribute!

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