gender affirming fang surgery

basil 🐀 buffy enjoyer 🏳️‍⚧️ they/it 🧃 20s

[drchucktingle]

it is so dang funny to me that there is this cultural pressure for artists to be modest about their art. 'you cant say your own book is five stars' WHAT AM I SUPPOSED TO DO RATE IT FOUR? buckaroo if you create ANYTHING from your heart it has all the grand cosmic uniqueness you do. CELEBRATE YOURSELF

[paperpuzzles]

I will always be obsessed with you Cordelia Chase

[lesbianmarrow]

DESPERATELY wishing for a spuffy / cangel double date. nightmare blunt rotation 5000. there’s no way they leave without one dead three injured

true true nightmare date. spike slips up and mentions how he and angel used to hatefuck. buffy turns to spike and angrily says you never told me that! then she turns to angel and says and YOU never told me that either! cordelia says wait you can have sex with someone you hate? that's a thing you can do? she turns to buffy and says then how come WE never hatefucked? meanwhile angel's sad and brooding cause he's thinking, should i let cordy have sex with other ppl since she can't have sex with me? is that what a good boyfriend would do? should i tell buffy to fuck cordy for me since i can't do it myself? and he's pondering getting cucked by his ex-girlfriend. during all of this spike is sneaking mozzarella sticks into buffy's purse to give to dawn later. 4 bisexuals locked in the torture labyrinth together <3 yay <3

[dragonpyre]

Ever look at a character and “man, I wish the writers didn’t hate you”

[lessnowon]

he/him lesbian spike is needed (by me), wanted (by me), and, indeed, deserved (also by me)

[touhouweed]

i like it when trans people are happy

[starscreamingg]

My surgeons telling my stoned ass where my boobs went

[vampireslikebaseball]

The Cullen house in The Sims 4

[baddreamland]

Saul Steinberg, Country Noises.

[borderlinereminders]

People don’t owe you their downtime! And I don’t mean this in a harsh way, but in a “quit breaking your own heart” way.

It’s so easy to see a friend “active” and reblogging on tumblr, or maybe making a status update on Facebook and feel hurt they haven’t replied to our messages.

Different things take different energy. And someone being “online” but not actively talking to you does not mean they no longer love or care about you.

[stargirl1714]

twilight season

[leonardcohenofficial]

truly not to sound defeatist or cynical but it really does blow my mind how little love people choose to extend to black people lmao

[leonardcohenofficial]

do you have black friends or family or partners? do you show love to the black people in your lives? how? do you listen to black music, watch black movies, go to see black plays, read black authors? do you engage with our critical interventions, support our politics? do you show up when the black people in your lives are facing antiblack racism? do you appreciate our cultures or do you appropriate them for your own benefit? do you view blackness as a multitudinous expression beyond the myth of the monolith? do you walk the walk of being a true ally/co-conspirator? do you take the time to learn our histories? how do you demonstrate tangible love and support? and most importantly, if this very simple post makes you mad or makes you feel threatened, have you questioned why?

[dgalerab]

current fan creation landscape is kinda like if you went to a party with a homemade cake and everyone takes a slice and silently thumbs up at you with no attempt to start a conversation except for occasionally some guy sits in the corner with a tape recorder critiquing the cake as though he was a restaurant critic and another guy is handing the cake to an uber driver like "yeah i need you to find a restaurant that makes cake like this so i can have more of it" and the only person that's talked to you in 30 minutes is a very sweet little guy who was like "hey i liked your cake" and then ran away apologizing for bothering you the moment you said thank you.

[dgalerab]

someone brought a cake analysis robot to feed the cake into to determine the exact ingredients and supposedly it can spit out the exact same cake. and if you're like dude. what. then they're like well if it bothers you you should have made more cake. i'm hungry and i deserve cake. and you're like dude we're at a party.

[sainamoonshine]

Three months later you find out that fifty people locked themselves in a room to discuss how much they loved your cake and how they wished you made more. None of them ever told you.

[dear-ao3]

so for the love of god. please tell people you liked their cake and don’t feel embarrassed about it. because then they will make more cake.

[paperpuzzles]

[a-thread-of-green]

I've spend the last two weeks speedrunning coming out as a trans woman to my coworkers, extended family, and the assorted friends I'd collected through Facebook and I've been shocked and overwhelmed by how enthusiastically supportive cis women have been in particular. After doomscrolling through TERF shit for the past year, I'd become convinced that cis women tended towards distrust of trans women, with a significant percentage actively vitriolic. But, time and time again, I've received effusive praise from the cis women I come out to. Not just progressive women either: Christian Facebook-moms from Texas have been enormously supportive. I've gotten some support from cis men too, but nothing nearly as passionate, and they've been the source of all the awkward avoidance or disgusted looks I've experienced. It makes complete sense: cis women generally like being women, and most of them like it a lot, so why wouldn't they celebrate somebody else becoming like them? This really drives home how dishonest TERFism is: they present themselves as the voice of women, but really they're just a regressive minority, distorting the issues to lead people away from their inclination towards love and acceptance.

[trans-girl-nausicaa]

That was basically my experience when I came out (in 2015)

[scifigrl47]

My father's partner attends a very liberal Christian church where the congregation does skew older and white.

Now, they have had Trans members before. This is old news. Of course they have had Trans parishners, why wouldn't they??

But for the first time, they now have a member who has come out as Trans while attending the church. In other words, for dad's partner, at least, this is her first experience with knowing someone for years as one gender, and having them come out as another.

And the way they are trying so hard to both be accepting but also NOT MAKE A BIG DEAL ABOUT THIS, is pretty funny.

Questions I, a person with more Trans friend experience, has been asked:

-Would it be insulting to compliment her makeup? (Me: most people are pleased if you say, oh, I love that lipstick shade, aren't they? You're complimenting their taste. Just don't be condescending.)

-Can we invite her to the ladies prayer group? Is it too soon? (Me: that's up to her. It's always nice to offer. She may not want to do it immediately, or she may. That's up to her. Be welcoming.)

-She always worked the grill at the summer fundraiser. Is it insulting to change her job? (Me: she may LIKE grilling. And I know other ladies in the congregation help at the grill. Ask her what she wants to do.)

But it's been sweet to watch them try, so hard, to get it right. To respect her and make sure she's welcome. It's just.

Nice.

[cricketcat9]

👏👏👏👏👏

[mikkeneko]

[jotigerjotiger]

hey all! I was laid off last month and am trying to keep up with bills and expenses while job searching, and I've decided to open a few commission slots to help myself out and get back in touch with illustrating if i can! I gotta buy cat food too >__>

If you're interested in a commission please contact me via my ask box/tumblr dms or twitter dms with what type of piece you're interested in, as well as reference pics if available!

Under the break I'll provide a breakdown of prices and extra info. I'm very happy to provide a comm on a sliding scale! Times are hard all over and every bit helps. I appreciate you checking out my work and sharing this post, thanks so much :D <3

I'm not good at organizing images like this lol, so here's a breakdown of what I'm offering! FLAT PRICES: $15 for rough sketch, $20 for bust linework, $30 for full body linework. Colors add an additional $10 and are not available for a rough sketch. Additional characters add an additional $10 per character for bust, $15 for full color, or $5 for a rough sketch. ROUGH SKETCH: $15 for bust or full body, no additional charge for full body. +$5 for additional character, AKA a two-character sketch would be $20, three would be $25, etc. BUST: $15 for rough sketch, $20 for flat lineart, $30 for color. +$10 for additional character. FULL BODY: $15 for rough sketch, $30 for flat lineart, $40 for color. +$15 for additional character. I'm not going to do nsfw, and I'm not able to do a complex piece at this time. I'm happy to draw furry for you but it depends on the type! I'm not very experienced with drawing animals either but dm me and we can see!

I can accept payments through PayPal, CashApp or Kofi, whatever works. Typically I accept payment upfront after a sketch is sent your way! Tips very gratefully appreciated, but not necessary!

Thanks again for considering me :-9 If you're unable to commission me at this time please consider reblogging this post and spreading the word! Being an autistic 20-something without an income is mortifying as i'm sure u know, and I am so thankful for any interest. love u guys soooo much for real ilu ilu ilu

[decodezz]

Bella Swan 🍎🦢