LGBT+ Safe Haven

Welcome to lgbt-safe-haven, a place for any and all LGBT+ people to come for advice or company. We’re here to answer any LGBT+ related questions you may have and to give support to anyone who needs it. Feel free to ask us anything! (Make sure to check the FAQ )

[icycurious]

Pronouns matter! If you have any more questions, text “TUMBLR” to  57890 and we will get back to you within 24 hours!

Below is an additional resource:

http://www.transstudent.org/pronouns101

[outforhealth]

For anyone who knows someone who still needs this little grammar lesson.

[izziegs]

Anyways

@ ace teens: you are wonderful and valid.

You aren’t sexualizing yourself by calling yourself ace.

You aren’t sexualizing other teens by calling yourself ace.

You aren’t being homophobic by calling yourself ace.

If you feel like ace works for you, use it.

It doesn’t matter if it doesn’t fit later on or others think you’re too young or whatever.

Only you have the ability to label yourself, and whatever label you choose is totally valid.

[mioxenoblade]

It’s ok for trans people to want to date other trans people. It’s easier to be with people you can relate to, to be with people who understand some of the things you experience. You’re not fetishistic for wanting a relationship with someone like you.

[lgbt-aesthetics]

Questioning Transgender + Candy and Flowers Aesthetic

~Requested by snowmoon123~

[galaxyboy-deactivated20230213]

[thisiswhatmakeusboys]

💕🙌

[quitebisexual]

[cartoon-deactivated20220930]

If someone asks you if your “a Gay/Lesbian/etc” in That Tone™, its okay to say no, especially if saying yes is potentially endangering to you and puts you at risk for ridicule and humiliation.

You’re not denying yourself or misrepresenting the community, you’re protecting yourself and that’s your number one priority.

Don’t feel guilty for keeping yourself safe.

[nb-stuff-blog]

If you’re nonbinary and your identity sometimes/partially aligns with your “assigned gender” and you’re worried it makes you less valid, don’t worry!! You are still nonbinary and your gender should absolutely be respected!

[interqueerlove-blog]

Some pride wallpapers I guess. They definitely aren’t perfect and some aren’t 100% the correct size but oh well Please like/reblog if you use ^^

[lgbt-moodboards]

Bisexual Demiboy Space Aesthetic Moodboard for Anonymous

[crepuscuule]

Never doubt of that.

[gtgcya-archive]

honestly women havin deep voices needs to be normalised nd accepted nd celebrated more..this goes double for women of colour and trans women

[anarchofairy]

So I made some pride art based on me and my friends and had HEAPS of fun with watercolours!

[blankdeleted]

Is there a sexuality for being Greysexual, but when you can have sex/feel sexual pleasure, it's intense, and lasts a few days at that same intensity, then just, dies like that....Also...I don't know much about Greysexual within itself, other than "between asexual and sexual" and being able to feel sexual pleasure only sometimes/under certain circumstances.

That, by my understanding, is the exact definition of greysexuality! Obviously it will vary a little from person to person, but if that’s how you experience it then by all means own it!

- Em

[lgbt-safe-haven]

You may also want to look into the term acespike, which means exactly what you described almost word for word. -Mod Brynn/Bo

[repotting]

unpopular lesbian opinion

fat butch women aren’t ‘a stereotype to avoid’, they’re a wildly under- and misrepresented demographic inordinately targeted by the ‘predatory lesbian’ trope

and they deserve better

[paladyke-deactivated20181212]

I’m not interested in math or heterosexuality

[theythem-devon-deactivated20221]

No amount of gender dysphoria is required to be trans!

If you are trans and experience a lot of gender dysphoria, your gender is valid! - I hope that you find an inexpensive piece of gender affirming clothing this week, or can get that haircut that you’ve been wanting.

If you are trans and your gender dysphoria fluctuates, your gender is valid! - I hope that today you don’t have strong dysphoria. If you do, you will make it through!

If you are trans and you don’t experience any gender dysphoria, your gender is valid! - I hope no one tells you that your transness is fake. They’re wrong!

(Cisgender/non-trans people can reblog!)