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i think there are a lot of straight women out there who have pavloved themselves into thinking they're attracted to women. it's classical conditioning meets pornbrain. like the female body is seen as a sexual object, it's inherently sexual, it's often used as a shorthand FOR sex itself and i think some wires get crossed in their brains. and that's why we've got so many "sapphics" out there who won't ever date or fuck women. bc they're not actually attracted to women
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the sandwich with no words is so uncanny. Its like its staring at me, like I was never supposed to peel back the text.
what if it was all a dream
the current situation with Paris being called a terf is a huge problem i have with āfeministsā. 1, yall hate she didnāt always cater to trans women (which isnāt her job to do) 2, yall LOVE throwing black women into problems that arenāt ours but HATE when we fucking talk. so shut the fuck up about your dumbass āintersectionalityā and ālisten to marginalized voicesā when yall are attempting to silence a black girl because she didnāt āfeminismā the way YOU think she should.
itās just crazy because she has validated them time and time again and has stated multiple times that she is pro-trans. but because her content focuses on her experience as a black woman and she doesnāt talk about them every video, she is now being labeled a horrible bigot. theyāre so used to large feminist creators bending over backwards to center them in every conversation that they lose their minds when someone doesnāt do that.
feminism has been completely hijacked by people who donāt want us to acknowledge that sex-based oppression exists, when that is the basis of female oppression. god forbid a woman centers women in feminism for a single millisecond.
Thereās a young black girl on TikTok, Paris Mwenda, who made videos speaking about the same kind of stuff that I do here- how feminism has become so watered down and neutered. Her content is strongly pro-woman and she doesnāt constantly grovel or perform the āfuck TERFs, transwomen are womanā genuflection. So of course the transvestitesā balls started itching and getting uncomfortable.
Strongly Pro woman+ critical of mainstream feminism+ no constant trans dick eating= I know sheās a terf, I just canāt prove it.
So theyāve been hounding her. Sad to watch. I think she has said ātrans rights blah blah blahā but apparently because TERFs are in her comments agreeing with her, they arenāt placated and need her to strongly denounce TERFs and do some serious dick eating and centering of trans women in order to be comfortable.
Sad to watch.
Anyway, I hope this is a mass peaking event for many young woman about how you could be literally minding your own business and speaking about womenās issues but if you donāt genuflect to the prostate havers- theyāll have a problem.
Because remember, they identify AS us, not WITH us. They donāt hear the word āwomanā and think āOh, thatās meā. They need direct acknowledgment at all times, because someone simply speaking about regular womenās issues (which they donāt relate to or gaf about) causes injury to their identity. And you have to make up for it by Identity Stroking and reassuring them that Hey, even though Iām speaking about womenās issues that youāre totally disinterested in and canāt relate to at all, youāre still sooooo valid.
COCSA is so common I wish more parents would stop leaving siblings alone together, especially older boys with younger girls :[
Iām so glad the parent is not giving her son a free pass to sexually assault people due to being autistic. That was such a prevalent issue when I was still in grade school. Boys from special ed would harass and grope their female classmates without any consequences š«©
boys are fucking demons
Bet 20 bucks that those boys were exposed to porn.
Porn rotted them at a formative age, I don't know if they can be cured, but brothers raping their sisters didn't use to be this common.
i mean i dont doubt they watched porn because its basically ubiquitous among children these days. But also this has always been common. It is an epidemic in Amish communities where they don't have access to porn. women of our grandmothers and great grandmothers generations have spoken about these things in hushed tones. the biggest difference between then and now and the amish and the average joe family is that one had/has no access to the internet to share these stories, and one does. A lot of women cling to the belief that porn is what causes all this male violence, because it means they don't have to reckon with there being a deeper problem with males than just videos on the internet. The videos are a symptom, not the cause.
Years of personal growth can be unraveled in 2 days at your parents house
what bothers me most about Fennellās adaptation of Wuthering Heights is the discourse that continues to be propagated (often by women themselves!) that because it was written by a woman, the novel must reflect the kind of relationship the author secretly dreamed of, that she was quirky, dark, perhaps secretly romantic in a morbid way. if it had been written by a man, everyone would say: āoh, the author is analyzing toxic relationships through these characters. heās criticizing them.ā it always bothered me that BrontĆ« was immediately branded as a weird lovelorn woman, when in reality there is not much in her biography to attest to that. she was just a very intelligent writer who thought about a very intelligent subject like any of her male counterparts.
the canon always sees men as universal observers and geniuses who undertake social studies, but when it comes to women, they are reduced to being mere subjective chroniclers of interiority, supposedly recording their personal romantic fantasies.
many novels contain a romantic thread. among other things, Wuthering Heights opens with one. but most of the book is about revenge, cruelty, trauma, inheritance, generational damage etc. and yet, because it was written by a woman, only the love story is treated as significant.
if Wuthering Heights had been written by, say, F. Scott Fitzgerald, critics would likely praise the ruthless anatomy of obsession. I am just so sick of this. I sure would love to see the day when The Great Gatsby is marketed as the greatest love story ever told, overflowing with loose erotic scenes, rather than the highbrow social critique itās usually presented as. the idea that women write āfrom emotionā while men write āfrom intellectā is still too deeply sedimented in how we talk about art.
STOP HAVING A SUNK COST FALLACY ABOUT YOUR LIFE. ALL THAT IS OVER. IT STARTS FROM RIGHT NOW! DO YOU WANT IT TO BE BETTER OR NOT?
Women shouldnāt have to play sports with men if they donāt want to. This has nothing to do with the biological differences between women and men. I donāt give a fuck if you argue that not all men have biological advantages in sports. I donāt care if you argue that women can become skilled enough at sports to beat men with talent rather than brute force. I donāt care if weāre talking about sports where biology has nothing to do with it, like chess or competitive shooting or equestrian sports. None of that shit matters.
Woman should not be forced to compete with men if they donāt want to. Thatās what matters. Men treat women like absolute shit at every opportunity. Women deserve respite from male behavior. Women deserve to be able to enjoy sports without having to make sure men feel included. Women should not be forced to endure constant contact with men in every facet of our lives.
knowing how it tends to go with male authors and their wives it was probably marge who wrote the odyssey
Despite the overwhelming amount of positivity on my take about why women are often unable to choose where to eat, many people have respondedĀ āOR sheās just not picky! OR she just wants to shoot down all my ideas! OR sheās just indecisive! Itās not that deep.ā
Female socialization MAKES us more indecisive. We grow up being interrupted more. We grow up being discouraged from leading our peers for fear of being called stuck-up. We grow up with more restrictions on our movement and our activities. We grow up without the amount of attention and conversation that more disruptive boys often get from adults. We grow up with the knowledge that if we donāt defer to our friendsā preferences, we are dismissed as bossy and mean. Personally, I think that for many women, this means we have a hard time actually identifying if we have a preference at all (let alone what that preference actually is) because we are not in the habit of actually considering it. Weāre so used to automatically deferring because weāve done so all our lives, in fear of being inconsiderate or callous or bossy.
Often, when Iām asked about a preference of mine, my immediate thought isĀ āI donāt feel like defending a choice, I just want to be agreeable and have a nice time, so whatever they want is okay. I donāt want to force the other person to have something they donāt want.ā I have to literally force myself to take a second to actually thinkĀ āWait. If I could choose an optionā¦what would I actually choose? What do I feel like right now?āĀ
And sometimes I canāt even come up with one! And then I take another second and really consider each option. And I discover that I do in fact have a preference after all! If I had the choice all to myself, I know what I would pick. Iām not indecisive! I DO care!
We literally have to re-train ourselves to identify our preferences. And thatās fucked up.
Until I was in like third or fourth grade, I literally had no idea that there were types of music other than country because thatās what my dad liked and therefore thatās what the whole family had to listen to. Itās not like he was morally opposed to other genres or anything; he just had zero comprehension that we might enjoy something else. He liked it, so thatās all that mattered. Even though I found out years later that my mom doesnāt even particularly like country music, she still listened to it even when she was by herself because it was a habit and it was ājust easier.ā But as soon as my parents split up, sheād play classic rock and showtunes all the damn time because she was finally allowed to enjoy the music she actually liked. Turned out my dad complained and berated her and made fun of her taste for years before I was born, so eventually she just gave in and quietly listened to whatever he wanted.
To this day when I find myself making choices, I have to pause and think, āDo I really WANT to do this or am I just going along with it because itāll make it easier to interact with someone else? Am I the one whoās actually interested in this or was it pushed on me?ā And even with that learned self-awareness, Iām still surprised how often itās the latter.
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it's fine i don't even need to be part of social groups or friend groups anyway (giant hole appears in my chest spontaneously) ? what's that
how is everyone not a terf this shit is so ridiculous lmfaoo
This photo made my day. Solidarity with #GiselePelicot and all survivors.
just so yāall are aware, OP is a terf
This woman was drugged and raped by 80+ men for 9 years, organized by her own husband, and youāre worried about a random woman online being a terf. Just vile. We see where your priorities lie.
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hiii lesbians, if anyone is interested thereās a lesbian-only server.
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most women in it are radfem or leftist and it has a combination of casual and discussion channels. within it are also specific channels for lesbians of colour, detrans, ex-christians, and ex-muslims.
e sometimes plan meet-ups! thereās a selfie verification requirement!
https://discord.gg/KwhkhCvTXT
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