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I have been, and always shall be, your friend.
I WOULD PAY TEN TIMES AS MUCH FOR CHOCOLATE IF IT MEANT REDUCING THE AMOUNT OF SLAVES IN THE WORLD? HOW IS THIS ANY KIND OF PROBLEM.Â
good news, you can! the companyâs called Tonyâs Chocolonely and their entire purpose is to make slave-free chocolate and reform the chocolate industry.
https://tonyschocolonely.com/us/en
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Tony%27s_Chocolonely
Whole Foods carries it. If you donât want to support an Amazon-owned company, World Market carries it. You can also buy it directly from the company.Â
Itâs the best chocolate Iâve ever had and itâs 100% slave free. Tonyâs Chocolonely works really hard to push for transparency within the chocolate industry and actually has and is following an action plan to eliminate slavery within cocoa production. Theyâre good people who make good chocolate.
A list of slavery-free chocolate companies:
Aldi
Aloha Feels Chocolate
Alma Chocolate
Alter Eco Chocolate
Amano Chocolate
Askinoise Chocolate
The Beach Chocolate Factory
Belicious
Black Mountain Chocolate
Cacaoteca
Caribeans Chocolate
Castronovo Chocolate
Charm School Chocolates
Chocolate Cartel
Chocolat Celeste
Chocolate Tree
Chocolate Troubadour
Choconat
Coco Chocolate
Compartes Chocolates
Dandelion Chocolate
Dark Forest Chocolate
Denman Island Chocolate
Divine Chocolate Co.
Eating Evolved
Eat Your Hat
El Ceibo
The Endangered Species
Equal Exchange
Fairafric
Forever Cocoa
Fresco Chocolate
Fruition Chocolate
Gayleenâs Decadence
GEPA Chocolate
Giddy Yo Yo
Grenada Chocolate Company
Grocerâs Daughter Chocolate
Guittard
Habitual Chocolate
Hagensborg Chocolates
Health by Chocolate
Hilo Shark Chocolate
HNINA Gourmet
Honest Artisan Chocolate
Hooray  Tuffles
Ithaca Fine Chocolates
L.A. Burdick Chocolates
La Iguana Chocolate
Lake Champlain Chocolates
La Siembra Cooperative
Lillie Belle Farms
Madecasse
Malagasy
Maverick Chocolate Company
Max Havelaar
Mayan Monkey
Mayordomo
Mia Chocolate
Montezumaâs Chocolates
Nayah Amazon Chocolates
Newmanâs Own Organics
Purdyâs Chocolate
Omanahene Cocoa Bean Company
Ombar
OpuLux Fair Trade Chocolate
Original Hawaiian Chocolate
Parliament Chocolate
Montevérgine
Patric Chocolate
Plamil Organic Chocolate
Potomac Chocolate
Pure Lovinâ Chocolate
Rain Republic
Rapunzel Pure Organics
Ritual Chocolate
Samaritan Xocolata
Sappho Chocolates
Seed & Bean Chocolate
Shaman Chocolates
SibĂș Chocolate
Solkiki Chocolate
Sweet Earth Chocolates
Sweet Impact Fudge
Sweet Riot
Sun Eaters Organics
Taza Chocolate
Terra Nostra Organic
Terroir Chocolate
TCHO
The Chocolate Wave
Theo Chocolate
The Original Chocolate Bar (Houston, TX)
Tobago Estate Chocolate
TONYâS CHOCOLONELY
Vivani Chocolate
Vosges
Wei of Chocolate
Xocolatl Chocolate
Zotter
Taza chocolate is really goodÂ
This is super important! Slave child labor is used in many many cocoa farms from big name companies like Nestle and Dove. Here is a good link discussing it:Â http://www.foodispower.org/slavery-chocolate/Â .
 And here is an easy score card to see who the worst offenders are/who to avoid most: https://www.greenamerica.org/end-child-labor-cocoa/chocolate-scorecardÂ
I like Divine.
my family wasn't this strict, but in some sects of buddhism you're not allowed to eat the "five pungent vegetables", onions garlic shallots leeks and umm chives i think, really any of those kind of vegetables. probably some monk ages ago was tired of onion farts stinking up the temple. anyways, one time my brother made a soup using all five of them. he said, "one sip of this, and you'll be reincarnated as a flea."
My favorite genre of humor is picking on the French.
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I live in Kyiv, Ukraine so I guessed telling about my personal experience with the blackouts might be interesting to people!
In autumn russia began targeting our power plants during air raids to create a humanitarian disaster in Kyiv, region around the city and many many other big cities and towns in Ukraine. Along with electricity they planned to destroy our water systems and central heating, so that they could sway civilians to despair. If you can't win the war on the frontline, target the people in the back.
So since autumn there have been scheduled blackouts in my city and many cities all over Ukraine. In Kyiv that meant all buildings were separated in 12 groups and each group had its time with and without electricity. Good weather and less attacks meant more electricity, cold and air raids meant less electricity.
Since the temperatures dropped to -20°C russians began attacking the power plants even more. Since early January there's over 4000 buildings in my city without central heating. That means freezing temperatures inside apartments. Our workers are fixing the power plants in record times but it's hard work bordering on overworking.
Then there's the electricity. The situation is so bad, there are no more schedules for it, and we get electricity when there's the least amount of demand for it. That means that we get it at 12 am and it dissappears at 8 am, and there's little you can predict about it.
Our oven only works from electricity, so there's no cooking unless at nighttime. Our warm water is broken too, and nobody is really rushing to fix it (understandably, there are buildings without water at all) and so not-freezing-cold water is only available from an electric boiler.
But good news, my family bought an ecoflow (a huge expensive battery) and it powers our light and wifi! You can see our apartment from outside when there's a blackout, since we're one of the only windows still bright. The battery charges from the main powergrid and then pours the electricity back into it when we turn it on. Sometimes we even turn on the kettle or the microwave with it's power!
Among those things you get used to when the electricity is back on is preparing some boiling water to pour into thermoses, charging the ecoflow battery and cooking whatever is urgently needed. Then you get to do what elsetime would take the precious electricity from your battery: using the pc, charging the less important devices etc. You can even use the elevators!
We're lucky enough to have a pretty good central heating situation! Sure, you don't want to get out from your blankets, but it's still warm enough to only need one sweater. My cousin had no electricity, water nor central heating before the city got to fixing her building. My friend has the same situation with electricity as us, but his ecoflow is weaker.
Our universities sent the students back to their homes (or the dorm if it's any better) so that they could get a better chance with finding electricity to study. I don't even want to think about my thesis. I'll do it when the power gets better, yeah. Definitely not procrastinating.
The city is dark. I thought I could snap a picture but it would be hard to understand what is what in the darkness. There are no street lights working, and the buildings are dark too. The only light you can see comes from cars, flashlights the people are carrying, and from stores that have manual electricity generators. Those are very loud too, you can barely hear a thing while passing by them.
Our neighbor ran out of power and asked in the group chat for some help. We gave her our powerbank and she told us to call her up if we ever need some gas cans for a gas stove. Yay community!
People are allowed to go outside during curfew to get to a city confirmed location with electricity to charge their devices or to warm up a bit. Those are called "the unbreakable points", pretty cool, right? But most people charge up or work with their laptops at the local cafes. Just buy some food and enjoy the complimentary electricity!
I may be forgetting something else but that's okay. Please reblog to spread awareness! And for the last part, here's a picture of our dog with his personal flashlight! He's afraid of the dark stairs we have to climb without electricity, so we got him one to feel less scared! It's strapped to his neck like a collar and turns him into the most adorable horror game protagonist during walks!
Thank you for sharing! Are there groups we can donate to that get ecoflow batteries to people?
There is a Polish fundraiser for generators and power stations for Kyiv, itâs called âWarmth from Poland to Kyivâ, they have raised about half of the amount by now
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This is a really comprehensive explanation of what we are going through.
The hardest winter for us civilians in Kyiv so far.
It feels taboo as a childfree person to admit this but I actually do have concerns about who is going to take care of me when I'm old. The elder care system in our nation relies A LOT on the unpaid care labor of adult children. I just don't think that's a good reason to have kids.
"But you'll have more money!" does not completely put this to rest for me. Neither does "Buy care insurance!" Even if I can afford direct personal care, who is going to advocate for me to get it? Who is going to navigate bureaucracy for me when I'm 80?
"If you do have kids, there's no GUARANTEE that they'll take care of you when your old!" That's true, but doesn't solve my problem.
I think childfree people get very defensive about this question because its used as a kind of "gotcha!" against us, but I actually do not feel we can afford to be in denial about this reality. Based on current trends of more people in their 30s stating they intend to be permanently childfree, we are going to see a huge wave of childfree adults hitting the eldercare system at once in a few decades. Childfree people in their 30s should be advocating around eldercare NOW.
We desperately need to cultivate a society in which everyone, even the most bitter, unlikeable, miserably lonely person in the world, has a social safety net that they can rely on from the day they're born to the day they die, and that includes their elder care.
We are not going to achieve this meaningfully under capitalism. :')
Je ne vais pas mentir, c'est quelque chose qui me terrifie.
Je suis déjà assez seule à 31 ans. Plus seule qu'il y a quelques années quand j'allais encore à la fac. Je n'arrive pas à me faire de nouveaux amis. Je suis célibataire.
Chaque fois que je suis malade ou que je me fais mal en cuisine, ou que mon appartement est un peu trop calme un dimanche, je me dis que je pourrais crever et que personne ne s'en rendrait compte avant un moment.
Je croise, dans mon travail, beaucoup de personnes ùgées. Je me demande comment je serai à leur ùge, et si on me laissera croupir dans un coin, seule comme un chien.
But here is where intergenerational friendships come into play. One of my dearest friends is a childless woman that is 30 years older than me. I adore he and I know that I will either take care of her, either I will have to advocate for her well-being when she no longer can. I know this, I will gladly do it. I have seen her do it for her elderly friends, the last one passed just a few years before. We don't have to be related by blood for me to have her as part of my family.
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I've been thinking about this quote by Dorothy L Sayers
âGod sends nobody to Hell; only a wicked ignorance can suggest that He would do to us the very thing He died to save us from. But He has so made us that what in the end we choose, that in the end we shall have. If we enter the state called Hell, it is because we have willed to do so.â
I've also been thinking about the idea that everyone who believes in Jesus goes to heaven. If we accept that Jesus is God's love for humanity manifest, as I do, then believing in Jesus is more a question of accepting God's love.
God's love, under which there is no male or female, no east or west, no jew or greek. So for the time being I believe that what gets a person into heaven is their willingness to see the humanity in others around them, and more than that to join with them in eternal life.
Hell is the absence of God's love, which can only be found in those who reject God's love for others.
american leftists seem extremely focused on anti imperialism (good) but rarely- if at all- discuss decolonization in their own fucking country, despite acknowledging that it is a settler colonial state.
im serious about this though. as an urban indian, i definitely cant speak on this as much as a rez indian could. but i know from talking to rez friends i have and from what the american indian movement has screamed for over the years that we need land we can grow on, we need clean water, we need to allow the wildlife that once lived in this land to live here again (meaning you need to listen to us before building those high speed rails you all get so hard over).
you cant drool over the zapatistas while ignoring people in your own country who have a similar goal
silly me I never provided things to read on the topic of decolonization! I'd personally suggest the following as "beginner level" essential reading to understand decolonization:
Discourse on Colonialism (Aimé Césaire) - this is more a focus on colonization, but I feel it's a necessary read in my opinion as in order to understand decolonization I believe it's important to first understand colonization.
Wretched of the Earth (Franz Fanon)
Decolonization is Not a Metaphor (Tuck, Yang)
also an "easy to process" read, to understand landback specifically here in Turtle Island, I'd suggest reading The Red Deal (there is a pdf, I don't mean the article with the same title)
Discourse on Colonialism (PDF, ebook, mobi)
The Wretched of the Earth (PDF, ebook)
Decolonization is Not a Metaphor (PDF)
The Red Deal (PDFs of Part 1, Part 2, Part 3)
Today I spent my morning helping a very old parishioner move things into a storage unit. Another parishioner decided to rent a truck to help out. And two others decided to come and help because they didn't have to go to work that day.
I love this congregation so much and how they are family to each other in the best ways. They show up, they come together.
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Watching the âyou will excel at what you measureâ trap devour basic moral practice in real time is fascinating in a terrible kind of way
If you spend any significant amount of time studying any social science or people-related policy, youâll quickly run into the old adage âyou will excel at what you measureâ. This adage is a warning.
In order to mark progress in any area, we need a way to measure it. So we develop systems to measure complex social systems and behave accordingly. If you want to measure how effectively children are being educated, you can, for example, decide on what they should know by a given age, test them on that knowledge, and grade them in accordance to how well they do on the tests. A higher grade means a more successful student, a better teacher, a better school. Then you can tinker with what youâre testing as necessary, and with teaching methods and soforth to see how it affects scores on the tests.
Except, if you do this, then youâve defined successful education as the ability to get high grades. You invite cheating (on the student, teacher and even school level), you invite teaching to the test rather than for general comprehension and ability, you invite boiling down the experience of education to test scores. And, of course, you invite massively increasing the inaccuracies caused by some people simply being better at taking tests than others. Someone with low to moderate comprehension whoâs good at tests might get a higher grade than someone who understands the material but has anxiety or is unable to properly intuit the meaning of vague test questions. Grades can go up and up and up, while education consistency and quality falls.
This is, as anyone whoâs worked in a school or sends their children to school knows, a known problem. âGrading systems cause huge problems in educationâ is NOT by any means a revolutionary and controversial statement. Over time, grading systems have been changed to favour testing comprehension and skill demonstrations, Individual Learning Plans and testing accommodations have become very popular to give a more accurate idea of peopleâs abilities, and soforth. A good half of my teaching degree was about compensating for the problems in this system. But you canât patch up all the holes, and the pressure from people taking letter grades way too seriously â parents, school boards, funding systems, those looking to hire teachers â are always going to cause problems, make teaching to the test a matter of survival. We measure grades, so that is what we excel at.
The same problem exists in economics. Most countries measure their health via Gross Domestic Product (GDP). This is basically a measure of how much money is swilling around in there and itâs an AWFUL yardstick. A country full of sick, desperate people going into massive medical debt has a higher GDP than an identical country not facing a health crisis, for instance. But it is the dominant model, so itâs what investors look at, itâs what other countries look at, itâs what voters look at. Itâs what you must excel at, to be considered to have a âgoodâ economy. Other models exist, and are often proposed as a better alternative, but if one of those were dominant, new problems would exist â weâd excel at what they measure, and drop in what the GDP measures, and cause new economic issues. If you boil a system down to measurements, you will excel at making those measurements go up.
You should never, ever let yourself fall into the trap of believing that they tell you anything useful about how the system is doing.
Morality and justice are social technology. Theyâre a bunch of rules and instincts that both evolution and cultural education have given us to allow us to operate in societies. Theyâre integral to societies in the same way that math is; you need math complex enough to measure the grain, you need morality complex enough to measure the social harmony. People pretend theyâre more than that, but they arenât. âGoodâ and âbadâ are concepts as real as âmillionaireâ and âstraight-A studentâ, and nothing more.
In the vast, vast majority of societies out there, the end goal is essentially the same â to minimise harm to the populace. They want everyone to have as much safety and comfort as possible. Most disagreements are about the relative value of different individuals (is one race, religion or culture more important than another? Is one sex more important than another? Is a king more important than a slave?), or about methodology (is it better for everyone to have to follow strict social norms, or for everyone to be free to express themselves how they choose; which creates more safety and harmony? What social norms are best? How much control should one have over oneâs property, or oneâs animals, or oneâs children? When somebody transgresses, what is the appropriate system for judging and metering out discipline? What is the appropriate sort of discipline?). People disagree radically on both relative individual value and on methodology, but the general goal is the same. Morality and justice are social technology, tools to be used. Law and social consequence is how their power is enacted.
People often forget this. And that is very, very dangerous.
People will decide on what is âgoodâ and âbadâ behaviour, isolate it from the system, and proceed to excel at what they measure. Theyâll decide that âgood peopleâ use certain language and have certain values and âbad peopleâ use other language and do bad things, theyâll look at harmful power dynamics and decide that the world is full of âoppressorsâ (can be ignored) and âoppressedâ (must be supported), âabusersâ (should be mocked and attacked) and âabusedâ (should be believed and coddled), and stumble blindly forward like my robovac with a dirty sensor bumping into every wall in their way. Theyâll see a complex social situation and instead of going âwhatâs the best way to reduce harm?â, immediately try to decide who involved is more oppressed and get their answer from that. Theyâll see people use language they donât like and decide that person must have nothing of value to add to a conversation, because theyâre a bad person.
Today, I saw someone muse that the fact that American football causes huge amounts of brain damage that compounds over many years might contribute to why USA footballers seem to keep doing random unhinged things. Somebody else immediately attacked them because rape and domestic abuse is common among footballers (footballers being the attackers), so by suggesting a physical reason for unstable behaviour, this person was making excuses for rape. You might notice that this response has absolutely nothing to do with protecting people from rape or domestic abuse, and absolutely everything to do with making sure nobody might accidentally sympathise with a âbad personâ by suggesting that brain changes change behaviour. A focus on minimising harm would want to explore this, because removing risk factors for causing rapists means less rapists. Less rape is the goal. âRape is evilâ is the tool used to achieve it. But this person got distracted by the tool of measurement, making sure that the buck stops there.
Yesterday, I saw a post about police violence, pointing out âpolice shouldnât kill guilty people eitherâ. This was a response to how people often protest police killing innocent people, which is definitely bad, but the point is that the police shouldnât be killing anyone outside of strict self defense. The justice system is what meters out punishment, not the personal discretion of a state-sponsored gang with too many combat toys. The role of the police to to prevent violence and capture wrongdoers, not deal out extrajudicial executions. Iâm sure I donât have to explain in detail why this is so fucking important, but one set of tags on the posts made the distinction âexcept for pedophiles and rapistsâ. I have never seen anybody miss the point of a post so badly. Clearly, this person had once again gotten distracted by the system of measurement â pedophiles and rapists are evil people who do evil things, therefore they should be eliminated as expediently as possible â without considering the effect on the system. No, police randomly shooting rapists does not make a better society. If you support the death penalty for rape, thatâs a whole arse different question.
These kneejerk reactions donât just happen with pedophiles and rapists (although they are very effective for it, which is why dangerous and unsavoury elements like to call the groups they hate pedophiles). Iâve also seen people get upset at historical demonstrations of queer unity and support because the people in them called each other words they donât like and get all distracted by minutae on whoâs âallowedâ to âreclaimâ what words, preferring to condemn gay men calling lesbians âmuffdiversâ despite the massive personal risk and great benefit of the demonstration. Iâve seen people quibble over what groups of disabled people experience more ableism than others, and which queer subcommunities are more oppressed, in order to determine who the good guy in a complex situation is or who deserves their support more. Iâve seen people slip all the minorities they belong to into an argument like theyâre laying out the cards to summon Exodia (because most oppressed person is most deserving of support person and therefore most correct person), Iâve seen people distract from arguments theyâre having in order to try to trap the other person into saying something that can be interpreted as sexist or racist so they can show that their opponent is the Bad Person (and therefore theyâre the good person and therefore correct in the argument), Iâve seen people look at two people with conflicting needs (such as an autistic person who verbally stims and one who reacts badly to too much sound) and stop to decide which one is oppressing the other one to determine which one is being ableist.
This is all fucking bullshit. Itâs meaningless nonsense. The only reason any of this matters is in how it relates to causing actual real world harm. Iâd rather be called a tranny bitch by someone who votes in support of my healthcare than the most polite and up-to-date language by someone who votes against it. Iâd rather know about risk factors that make someone more likely to be an abuser or rapist than shy away from such things because I donât want to risk thinking of them as anything other than an Unknowable Evil. I donât fucking care what Problematic âą views someone holds about a cartoon and I donât care whoâs the Most Pure or the Most Oppressed or who used to say slurs online when they were fifteen if theyâre behaving appropriately now. None of that fucking matters, and itâs not justification for harassing or hurting people.
Your sense of justice and morality are social tools. Sharpen them, clean them, look after them. And use them to build with purpose, rather than blindly hacking at whateverâs in front of you. Or youâll just make a mess.
Walk In Love: Episcopal Beliefs and Practices, by Scott Gunn and Melody Wilson Shobe
The Epiphany of Our Lord is the Christian feast observed on January 6.Â
The word âepiphanyâ comes from the Greek epiphainen, a verb that means "to shine upon," "to manifest," or âto make known.â
Thus, the Feast of the Epiphany celebrates the many ways that Christ has made Himself known to the world, mainly the three events that manifested the mission and divinity of Christ:Â
the visit of the Magi (Matthew 2:1-12);
the baptism of Jesus (Mark 1:9-11);
the miracle at Cana (John 2:1-11).Â
The visit of the Magi is emphasized on Epiphany Day, and Christ's baptism is celebrated the first Sunday that follows.
Epiphany marks the end of the Christmas period and commemorates the presentation of the infant Jesus to the Magi, or three wise men.
- leonard cohen
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