TW: FAMILY PROBLEMS or just scroll if you don't wanna read what's probably gonna be a long post.
So I posted a while back in my butch community about my mom and her new bf and how he wasn't a trump supporter. Well it's just gotten so much worse. It's like she's lost her fucking mind. She'd been telling my brother and I that we need to meet him soon pretty much since she told us she was going on a date. They'd apparently started "seeing each other" (talking on facebook) in February, she told us she was going on a date in like March, then moved into his trailer the week after and started telling us we had to meet him soon. They'd apparently got engaged on easter at church, which she has now started going to 4 days a week, and are planning on getting married in November. She also didn't come up to my house for Easter despite me inviting her. And this whole time she's kept arguing with me and my brother in our group chat because we're both not happy about this whole situation and she's been accusing us of not caring about her and her happiness. Well this whole time she'd been giving my dad a deadline on when he has to move out of the house that he co-owns with her (and paid off and had fixed up after getting his disability and the backpay from that) so she and her boyfriend can move back in, despite knowing good and well that our poverty stricken region has little to no housing options and the places that are for rent are $1,000 a month or more.
So my aunt that lives next to my parents house has decided to let him move in there with her and her "roommate/best friend" for a while so my brother and his wife were helping my dad pack up everything in the house (he paid for literally all new furniture and stuff because they were previously using hand me downs of hand me downs) including my brother's and my stuff out of our rooms because neither of us want them to have access to any of our stuff for them to possibly sell when they need money. So our mom decides to text us both individually and in the group chat accusing us of wanting nothing to do with her. She was downright nasty to my brother (he sent me the screenshots of what she said to him) and slightly better but still accusing to me. So we were having it out in the group chat over that today.
Every time she argues with us she rapidly cycles between accusing us of not caring about her and that we treat her like trash to saying she loves us even if we don't love her, despite the several times we've told her that we do still love her but are both just mad and hurt by how she's treating us and our dad. Especially considering our dad is a diabetic and has been an amputee for almost a decade now, the majority of which he's been having bleeding behind one of his eyes and is slowly losing his vision, it had been getting better but the stress of this has made it start back up again and worse. My mother hasn't even cared where he's been going and he hasn't told her. So for all she knows he's well and truly homeless and she's just expecting nobody in the family to care about that, including my brother and I. And it wouldn't be so terrible if my dad had any family in this country but my brother and I. And my brother is living with his wife and in-laws and I live almost 3 hours away so he would have to go through a whole process of switching doctors. She keeps saying that he's never done anything for her and that she deserves to live in that house and on the land more than he does because of it as if he didn't move to a whole other country away from his family and friends over 26 years ago at just 22 years old because they wanted to be together and she didn't wanna move. She keeps acting like she's the only one ever paid for anything for the house or did anything around the house as if my brother and I weren't helping them with bills and groceries once we started working and then minimizing our contributions to the house so she can play the victim.
At this rate I'm gonna just have a stomach full of ulcers. She's pissing me off so badly that I'm out here apologizing to my brother for being an asshole to him when we were kids (I'm autistic and it was almost always violent meltdowns that I can't even really remember anything about but the feeling of being so overwhelmed and angry) like, I kinda came out to my dad because I was telling him about something I said during one of our arguments. (He is actually very supportive of me by the way which I was kind of surprised by since he's also started going to church frequently very recently)
It's just a whole fucking mess and I needed to vent somewhere.

















