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Relationships get so bananas when you start deciphering the other person’s love language.

Like I thought I was just acquaintances with this person because they never told me details about themselves and we just talked movies and writing . But then they made time to have coffee with me and they showed up out of breath because they ran. Like. RAN to be on time for coffee with me?

And I was like “i don’t mind waiting” cause I never want to run

But they said they wanted every minute they could get because I’m so busy usually

Which is when it clicked that I didn’t get how much they considered me a friend because I just straight away didn’t see MY signs of affection in them and went “cool! Casual buds it is.” But now that I’m seeing their signs of affection, I feel a little silly for dismissing them like that even though I felt like we could be best bros.

Anyway, some people show affection through time or intensity or commitment and not vocally. I really have to remember that!

madammuffins

Fyi- just in case you didn’t know.

TOUCH got a bro that likes to give high fives? Back slaps? Are they a hugger? Do they not blink an eye at cuddles?

QUALITY TIME this bro will (as op stated) sprint to spend every minute possible with you. Every second that you guys are together is a declaration of affection.

WORDS does your bro tell you how amazing and great and fantastic and wonderful you are all the time? Guess what…?

GIFTS do they buy you coffee? Snacks, energy drinks, spot you at the restaurant? Did that one key chain remind them of you? Ding ding!

ACTS are they always doing things for you? Ie: Nah bro, I got this, I can do that, need me to get anything for you, I can help with…?

PRO TIP - The way people show love is often how they receive love as well.

the-chibster

People show love in different ways, if you make an effort to understand and appreciate them, you will find that you are so much more loved than you think.

bbold6-deactivated20200312

blood sucking parasite from another planet

Hello, you should unfollow this account. And no, I'm not trying to guilt trip anybody. This is one of my most boring blogs, I have more interesting active blogs, but I ain't telling anything becuase uuh no. Try and find my other accounts, believe me, you'll only find 1 (and you'll only find it if you stalk me so just think it twice before doing it)

Anyway, peace out folks.

yorksilk

"I only support abortion in the case of rape" is meaningless fluff, and here's why:

1. How is it possible to implement a rule like this? Most rapes go unreported. Are we saying that a pregnant person simply needs to tell the doctor they were raped in order to get an abortion? do they need to tell the police? Many people would just (understandably) lie and the rule would be meaningless.

2. Must their rapist be found guilty and convicted before they can get an abortion? Court cases are long and the parent would likely have had the baby or be late term before the option of abortion became available to them.

3. Are you going to open abortion clinics only for rape victims? Where are these victims going to find treatment if there is no funding or support for abortions? Won’t this simply put a target on their heads?

4. Pro-lifers already harass and threaten people who seek abortions and the doctors who provide them without giving a damn whether they were raped or not.

5. People who seek out abortions, including rape victims, are guilted and told they are murderers, sinners, and all sorts of terrible things for wanting abortions. If you want rape victims to have access to the care they need, you first need to address the attitude and judgement you hold towards them.

6. People should not have to disclose the details of their trauma in order to get an abortion or any other medical care. Especially not to a group of people who are openly critical of them and openly hostile towards them.

So there you go. Pro-lifers do not care about rape victims. They don’t have a solid way of implementing abortion for rape victims only, they just want to feel better about forcing victims into lives they never asked for.

axinitians

-agressively points at 4-

There have been two particular cases in my country about this specific thing which im still angry about! Trigger warning for rape, pedophilia and incest.

First case: 11 years old girl gets raped, I can’t remember by who. Doctors somehow didnt “realized” she was pregnant when she said her stomach hurts. She ends up having a caesarean operation at 6 months of being pregnant, since they didnt wanted to perform an abortion on her. Not only the baby dies days after the operation, but the girl is also terribly suicidal and wants to die (do I have to remind you she’s 11? An 11 years old wanting to die?). Pro lifers somehow blame pro choicers for this.

Second case: 10 years old (if im not wrong) gets raped by her grandfather. The mother of the girl requests an abortion. The girl desesperately wanted an abortion, as she said “i want to get rid of this thing that this old man put inside me”. Doctors lied to the mother and the girl by saying they were giving them calcium pills or vitamin pills or something along these lines, when they were giving her pills so the fetus could mature faster and then perform a caesarean operation on her. The fetus die again, and now the 10 y/o have fucking PTSD. Is worth mentioning that pro lifers said the 10 y/o had consensual sex with her granfather, as she “wanted” to have sex with him.

Pro “lifers” are pro anything except life. They dont deserve rights

cogroni

Cataleyas and Mokes relationsip summed up part 2

lordreblog

True love?????

cogroni

luckilynobody

They have a strong relationship it seems hehe

#Let him breath pls omg

falloutmuse2

Skeleton Dance