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Kink 101 establishes as a foundation that this is sexual improv, and if that makes you feel cringe or whatever then get over it. Essentially these are agreed upon bits with certain understood risks that we all take on together because we want to. "The Heel is pretending to be a bad guy, but it's for show, see?" is ultimately true.
But Kink 202 recognizes that most people often feel as if the actor's sorrow and joy are real, even if we cognitively know we're watching a play. That's why drama and theater remain compelling since the invention of language. So, when you play-pretend the heel or slaughtered lamb or naughty child or whatever, you are borrowing the story's psyche. Not totally, not forever, not because you agree, but because the performance serves us. Often it gets us off, but it also might provide catharsis, validation, closure, etc. In that way it is "real" the way tears and laughter in response to a story are real.
Critical thinking checkpoint: how real do you think "tears and laughter in response to a story" actually are? In your experience, do you get totally absorbed in stories or is that rather difficult for you? How does that compare to your peers? How might the variation in this "realness" inform someone's risks and benefits in partaking in sexual drama?
This is all to say that at the 202 level, I don't have a prescribed answer or rule to recommend. You have to identify what works for you, what is or isn't good or safe for you, what level of damage is actually okay. Humans have the right to do things that aren't great for them! But more than that, sexual drama can be transformative and "real" if you want to make that a part of it for you.
Thank you, perverts in my notes, for reminding me of my own post. Kink can be just fucking! But also, c'mon, lemme stick my fingers in your psyche and wiggle them around in there, pleeeease please let me help reprogram you. Also Kink 303 branches into two specialization tracks: Medical Degree and Clown College. The latter is obviously more highly respected.
nsfw sideblogs r so funny. my friend we can't talk here it isn't safe.. we have to go to sex world together
Why would you hide this in the comments
there needs to be an easy way to say "i don't have an active sexual interest in you but i would love to explore your body and if you need help getting off or trying new things i'll do it with you". like i dont wanna FUCK you but i DO want to be close to you and play toys with our bodies
i think sex is a fun thing to do with friends. i think it's exciting and pleasurable and often really funny. there are a lot of people i'd have really enjoyable and fun sex with who i wouldn't necessarily say i have a carnal desire for. plus i would kill to get more casual flirting and kink in my life by any means necessary.
Mommy's going to take you out of the freezer and leave you in a room temperature environment, ok? Awww you're already dripping condensation... There's a puddle gathering at your base, my leaky little condensation slut.
can you put that on a coaster
No. I want her to see all her little circle stains on the table...
okay thats cute and all but this table was my grandmother's so i would really appreciate it if you could stop and actually consider other peoples belongings for 2 fucking seconds
But both Mommy and my little condensation slut gave our condensent so like I feel like I shouldn't have to ask for yours... I guess I could get like a new table or whatever but it's just not the same if it isn't mahogany.
okay red what the fuck do you mean "condesent"
freak in the sheets as well as in most other locations
does my wasted potential turn you on
your sense of self might be irreparably fractured but your kinks are awesome and sexy. which is what really matters
If I am not having diabolical autistic kinky transgender sex then what's the point?
it is absolutely essential to have friends you can have extremely insane pervert conversations with. this is kind of what makes life worth living
we really have to hand it to bruises for being easy to acquire, fun to touch, usually relatively harmless, and capable of turning a variety of pretty colours as they cycle through the stages of their life cycle from birth to death. they do so much for us. and even more if you're a bit of a pervert about it.
objectively hilarious that my kinks boil down to "people are nice to me and patient with me and they tell me they like me" like damn bitch what did the world do to you ????
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nsfw sideblogs r so funny. my friend we can't talk here it isn't safe.. we have to go to sex world together
When they say some really sexy/kinky shit and hit you with the ":3!" After
call me a whore but aftercare is literally my favorite. cuddling naked afterwards, kissing all over his face and neck while telling him how good he made me feel and he’s telling me how good i was for him? scratches my brain or smth idk