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michellezhuli

only the essentials

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superrisu

Those abs tho

#ow #overwatch

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this was worse than getting rick rolled

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jaubaius

Hummingbird mom with her babies

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I know the size of the chicks SHOULDN’T surprise me, given the size of the adults, but by God it still does.

mathiemarsz

Revisiting old birds🕊️

#GOOD!!!!#GREAT!!!!!#art

autoneurotic

do u ever remember all the horrible offensve things u said when u were like 15 and u literally feel ur soul detach and turn 2 dust

icbiwf

your fave is problematic: yourself

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Basically, yeah. That’s kind of the point – you always have to look back on yourself and be mortified and resolve to be better. Shit, the stuff I said just five YEARS ago (and I’m almost 33) makes me cringe like a motherfucker. Burn in mortification. Rise from the ashes and be better. Lather, rinse, repeat for the rest of your life.

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This is why purity culture doesn’t work!!! We’re all shit! We can all grow and do better!

likorys-shimenawa

But on the other hand - do you remember any ‘horrid embarrassing stuff’ that other people did from years before?

You don’t! [Maybe a few truly bad ones.] So don’t torture yourself over every little thing because most of the time, nobody else remembers it either. :)

brutereason

I find it fascinating that people who choose not to have children are generally assumed to feel really strongly about not having children (or even to feel really strongly against children, anyone’s children, in general). I am probably not going to have children, not because I REALLY REALLY HATE the idea of having children, but because I don’t really really love it. Out of all the major decisions I will make in my life, this one is the only irreversible one. I can sell a house, quit a job, divorce a spouse, whatever. I cannot unhave a child. I cannot opt out of being a parent once I become a parent. I can’t even take a step back for the sake of self-care or whatever, or else my child will suffer.

So for me, having children is fuck yes or not at all. The default will be to remain childfree. Having children should be an opt-in decision, not an opt-out one. Until/unless I develop really strong feelings about wanting to have children, I won’t have them, even if that means I never end up having them at all.