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"the inherent divinity of" bro what inherent divinity 😭😭😭 everythings freaking normal
in my experience of current social media discourse this is often just used to essentialize, universalize, and deify categories. the «inherent divinity of» girlhood or womanhood, for example, is used to create the impression that there is some secret magic force tying all girls’ and women’s experiences together, and hence that there is some intangible essence that inevitably and exclusively makes girls girls and women women.
not only is the possibility of such an essence very questionable across cultures, religions, material and class relations, sexuality, and so on and so forth - it also far too often serves to disguise the experiences and aesthetics of privileged women (wealthy, conformist, imperial core, white, cis, heterosexual, etc) as the universal standard of all women and girls.
in this way, performance of femininity (while punitive across the board) becomes a classing and segregating act - not all women and girls have the same capacity to adhere to the standard. and not only are they seen as deviant, substandard, when they fail to do so: it puts into question their very femininity, the validity of their gender. and because gender is a deeply internalized and static part of most people’s innermost identity, this is an immensely powerful generator of conscious and subconscious shame.
and that is how calling things like girlhood and womanhood «inherently divine» contributes to a strict and highly efficient self enforcement of binary gender roles - a well-greased panopticon, if you’re feeling so inclined.
one of the things that I honestly find most compelling about Shane Hollander is his comphet and the way he navigates this space as he begins to accept not just his desire for men but also his lack thereof for women
Like, when I think of book!Shane especially, he’s been with women, even before Rose. He’s not a total shut-in. It’s very occasional and rare, but he does hook up sometimes and it’s like… rote. He’s doing it because he thinks he should and he thinks he ought to enjoy it and he thinks he ought to enjoy women. There’s one point in HR where he mulls over not understanding why some guys like eating girls out because it’s just, like, not doing it for him.
And! I think it’s also crucial to remember! Shane never DENIES that he likes men. His comphet does not actually feature denial of his desire for men — the reason he tries to deny his desire for Ilya isn’t because he’s a man, it’s because he’s Rozanov and because there’s the fear of feelings. Not cuz he’s a dude.
No, Shane’s arc is so interesting to me because it’s not a story of realizing or discovering his queerness. He’s not, like, figuring out that he likes men. He’s figuring out that he doesn’t like women.
And I think that’s so interesting! Shane Hollander, golden boy of hockey, forcing himself to fit the mold and also go above and beyond, he thinks for a long time “okay, I want to fuck men and that’s fine, whatever, but I’ll find a nice girl and settle down someday” and he thinks it’s the first part that is making him feel trapped and panicky and scared, but NO! It’s the second! It’s the trappings (literally) of heteronormativity that has him reeling! He’s convinced himself it’s an option, just like it’s hypothetically an option for Ilya, and the tuna melt scene emotional overflow scares him because he’s thinking oh fuck, I have these options and I might choose the “wrong” (re: not straight) one
The moment he realizes “I don’t want to fuck women,” when Rose makes him confront that he’s gay and not bi?? That’s when he’s like “oh. That doesn’t have to be the choice I make. That doesn’t have to be an option for me. I don’t have to like women”
It’s liberating for him. It lets him open up, lets him let the feelings in.
Shane’s sexuality arc is SO fascinating because it’s not actually a story of discovery — it’s a story of letting go
Shane’s comphet is especially fascinating because comphet is more often discussed as a lesbian experience - connected to the construction of womanhood as absence of and accessory to masculinity, affirmed by masculine desire.
obviously the gender binary is mutually constitutive. so it goes both ways. but I think it speaks to the intensity of the subconscious and conscious pressure Shane is under in the hockey environment, especially as an Asian man, to perform his manhood with a conviction and internalization more frequently expected from - and seen in - women.
it’s a romance novel this it’s a romance novel that. Ilya was born the year of the USSR’s dissolution. He met shane only months after Russia’s invasion of Georgia, and the fallout between them after Sochi Olympics happened as Russia invaded and occupied Crimea. The full scale invasion would have happened some time after Ilya had established himself as a Canadian citizen and Shane’s husband.
We know very little about Grigori and Alexei except that they are both police. And you expect me to believe that this only translates to domestic matters such as their response to queerness? Russia is a police state; the epicenter of an empire whose repression of its citizens is directly tied to its colonial violence abroad. Ilya’s closest family would have been - at least - strongly opinionated and actively enforcing a web of anti-Western propaganda supporting expansionist violence.
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3.5 stars. the thinking man's 5 stars
Googled something about quick hydration and it suggested big jug of water, couple tbsp pickle juice, dash of lime juice.
Its surprisingly tasty????
Pleased to report that after a day of this i am not longer craving caper brine and my mouth is not dry as usual. There's some good suggestions in the notes too that I want to try.
-ancient roman posca: water, red or white wine vinegar, honey, salt, herbs (coriander, mint, thyme)
-switchel: water, ginger, vinegar, sweetener, lemon, salt
-ayran: yogurt, water, salt, mint
-Agua pepino: water, cucumbers, lime, sugar, optional mint.
I have been reminded of:
-shrub: vinegar, sida water, elderberry (or other berry), sugar.
I have now been informed of
-sekanjabin: honey, vinegar, mint, water.
"Wow, I wonder why this post was popular this week."
-sees the reports of the heatwave in Europe-
"... ah."
The reason why the criticism of the NHL and its many flaws falls so flat in the game changers series is because Rachel Reid refuses to examine the role that race plays in your experience of hockey and hockey culture in Canada, which is honestly very in line with the Canadian, “well, we barely have racism up here!” even though people of color, especially Black and South Asian immigrants and First Nations people of color will tell you otherwise.
You cannot criticize and examine hockey culture without the foundational understanding of the role that whiteness plays in the toxicity of hockey culture.
When she said that Shane doesn’t carry grief or trauma it becomes glaringly obvious that she is missing one of the core problems of the toxicity of hockey culture in Canada. Whiteness is what enables this toxic and abusive behavior to continue. Yes, the NFL, NBA, and MLB all have them problems and issues and I’m not denying that, but those leagues all have players of color who would never be allowed to get away with what NHL players do.
I mean even when it comes to the rules of their sport, you think a 6’8, 300lb Black linebacker is getting a 5 minute penalty for shoving a ref or for getting in their face and yelling at them? You think a bunch of Black athletes could be living in billet homes in small towns with a reputation of violence against little white teenage girls and it would still be a national problem? Whiteness and racism is core and central to the problems in hockey. Look at Gavin McKenna, an indigenous man, being charged with a felony by State College police because they couldn’t wait to make an example out of him.
“Shane doesn’t carry grief or trauma.”
I’ve been reading hockey player memoirs and one of them is about an “average” player in the NHL. He was by no means a super star or prodigy, just very good at his sport and he talked about how, as a 6 or 7 year old child, he was already facing bullying by adults for how good he was at hockey. Parents of other players resented him so much for scoring they would tell their kids to target him and would scream obscenities. He was even flipped off as a child and humiliated by coaches because he was good at hockey. And this was a white man.
Add in the fact that Shane is Asian Canadian and hockey is a matter of national identity and lm willing to bet that the first time Shane remembers being called a slur, it was while he was playing hockey, and it was by an adult. Because if they already hate that a child is better at hockey than their child to the point of harassing them, how much worse does it get when the parent realizes that it is Asian child who is better at hockey than their kid? Shane would’ve been punished at every level of hockey starting at 5 years old for being good at the sport and being Asian because he would make white teammates, coaches, and fans feels “threatened” because for so long hockey has been centered around their whiteness.
Not only would Shane have been called names, parents would’ve been calling for their kids to “take him out” to take cheap shots and probably screaming slurs at Shane. And I’m willing to bet the coaches and refs did nothing unless the Hollanders threatened to sue, and not Yuna, David had to go down there and flash some legal might around and also the fact that he works for the treasury board and probably knows a thing or two about hockey Canada.
But Shane would’ve been punished for being not white and being good at hockey and it would’ve been severe because whiteness is the cornerstone of this sport.
Laila Edwards has talked about experiencing misogynoir as a hockey player and has, probably in the best interest of her PWHL draft and desire not to be harassed by racist trolls, not been as outspoken on vocal as she could be.
Look at Jason Robertson’s exclusion from the Olympics roster and the handwringing of hockey podcasters who “don’t get why the coaches made the decisions they made.” It’s because the foundation of this sport and its success is whiteness and white people feel threatened when people of color succeed so they have to knock them down a peg even to their own detriment because that’s how much they hate seeing people of color succeed.
Whiteness is the foundation of this sport and racism is so imbedded that parents will scream at their 10 year old to hit a six year old just because they’re brown and good at hockey
Like Hockey Canada is struggling to recruit and retain players of colors even as Canada gets more diverse because of the racism.
Even the big book about toxic hockey culture in Canada brushes over the racism even though whiteness and the excuses we make for white men ar front and center as to why hockey culture in Canada got to be the way it is.
You cannot address the issues in hockey Canada unless you also address the fact that the reason why it was allowed to get this bad is because of a whiteness and racism.
imperial and colonial attitudes, symbols and ideas in the hr fandom are becoming more and more pronounced as the fanon grows. Russian culture and society is often criticized as hostile towards queerness. Rightly so! But it’s done in a way that a) serves the Western imperialist imaging of Russia as backwards and uncivilized (ie. in need of forcible enlightening modernization see Shane walks Ilya, either the feral beast or the incompetent manchild, like a dog) and b) obscures the vital connection between Russian colonial expansionism and state-driven cultural conservative shifts.
Rachel Reid’s choice to omit geopolitics from a romance novel universe is understandable. But as a fandom, we must understand that the resulting criticism of homophobia in Russia obscures, perpetuates and legitimizes empire both Western and Russian. In this essay I will…
i think a big part of what triggered some fannish engagement in hr for me (rather than just passively enjoying the good yaoi) is that i find some interest in the fact shane and ilya do hold power over each other across different axes of social positioning, creating a parity that isn't predicated on static sameness but on a dynamic balancing of small and big prevarications and surrenders. and this is not an ancillary part of the plot, navigating the complex terrain of both having power and being disempowered in and by the relationship is central to it. i always like stories where characters have to contend with the fact that subordination in some aspects of the social order doesn't erase their ability to hurt others. in order to say anything meaningful about this, however, the hurts must lean on this seesaw, touch on real exploitable vulnerabilities. if you don't have shane's subjectivity being shaped by his emasculating racialisation to find masochistic shame and pleasure in enjoying its reproduction during sex or shane's sheltered underestimation of ilya's isolation in rebuilding his life around shane in shane's home country, you simply don't have the story. the discomfort is the point...
Epic concept: a streaming service whose sole purpose is to pick up cancelled queer media and finish it
if you vote me for president i vow to make everything the ocean again. no more land only ocean. this will solve all of our problems and replace them with new, far more interesting problems
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I saw one Enjolras holding Gavroche like this in a bootleg and I thought it was so perfect
if something aggressively lesbian doesn't happen to me this summer i'm gonna do something drastic.
give me your eyes, i need sunshine
if i could take the fire out from the wire
i’d take you where nobody knows you
and nobody gives a damn