Do As You Will

Madison | 23 | she/they pfp by @dualityflipped

[acreaturecalledgreed]

the concept and idea of “you can always start trying to be a better person” is extremely important to me both in media and irl and i continue to be deeply deeply disturbed by the trend on this site pushing that these ideas in media are bad writing or even morally reprehensible

because theyd rather someone stay terrible or just straight up die than become a better person 

from a compassionate point of view it’s deeply distressing and from a pragmatic point of view it’s outright frustrating

it’s fucked up. 

[falliblefabrial]

What is the most important step a man can take?

The next.

[inklesspen]

[babblingfishes]

I think part of the pushback about this is the idea that, to “redeem” bad people, their victims must first forgive them for unforgivable acts.

This is false. No one is obligated to forgive you. You can learn from your mistakes and become the best, kindest person on earth, and the people you’ve hurt still won’t forgive you, and you’ll have to accept that. And that doesn’t mean you aren’t allowed to grow. Because we aren’t just “pure” or “sinful”, we’re complex.

[starjasmines]

i love how it's the most low effort #feminism thing for women to just Be In things like to have a female character in a show or game or something and men still manage to get mad about that

[sackboys-moved]

[buttercupart]

be my wholesome magic sweetheart

[maidofvoid413]

hello ! artist of ur pfp here! can you please credit me in your bio if youre gonna use my art as a pfp?

Can do! I hope I didn’t come across as inconsiderate by not having done so sooner. I just figured it was okay since your original post said it wasn’t needed. But I will get right on that!

[mxwormie]

raine whispers i love you so

[popsunner]

Was just informed by my mom that I do in fact have ADHD and the reason I thought I didn’t was because ever since I was seven whenever I got super energetic my mom would have me go chop wood so now when I’m feeling The ADHD I go chop wood and I thought it was just some sort of routine I started when I was little and wanted to blow off steam

[popsunner]

I’d also like to point out that my sister has a really hard time staying present (I can’t remember the term because we’ve always called it Tethered at my house) and whenever she’s feeling Untethered my mom has her knead bread and make syrup because they’re repetitive and easy things to do that ground her

[popsunner]

Now that I’m thinking about it- my brother has days where he doesn’t talk and doesn’t eat unless he’s prompted, and on those days my mom sits him down in the fish pond in the backyard and plays Mozart and because he’s so used to that being his wake up he always comes back in after like an hour rambling about random things

[popsunner]

Oh yeah and when it rains my mom has a required hour where we all have to go outside and run around and whoever finds the most worms for the garden wins and then we go inside and my mom makes us tea and we watch Studio Ghibli movies

[popsunner]

Wait!!! When one of us has a bad day at school we make a fire in the backyard and roast homemade sausages and my mom tells us stories until we laugh and then she tucks is in bed like we’re five again and sings us songs

[popsunner]

Uh.... wait guys is my mom a witch raising a bunch of fae kids hold on-

[eldritch-eternity]

“I didn’t know I had adhd because my mom gave me such an effective coping mechanism” is such a high bar to clear and she soared over it like a space-plane.

[diaryofandnwoman]

#whitewomantears

[danielwaldorf]

maybe this is bc i’m from the south and not fuckin uhhhh new york or wherever the hell but like. it is still not really normalized for a man to wear makeup or nail polish. women with short hair still get offensive comments about their appearances. like even small acts of gender nonconformity can still be scary and dangerous in 2021 and i feel like so many people just live in this progressive bubble where they think that all dudes being Remotely “feminine” in some way are like homophobic tiktok e-boys doing it for clout or whatever and that’s uh. fucking stupid. like i can PROMISE you that the vast majority of gender nonconforming people are not trying to do something that’s never been done before, nor are they claiming to do so, they’re just trying to live their lives and look the way they want to look. you aren’t helping anybody by trying to police who has the right to be wearing skirts or painting their nails or doing their hair a certain way.

anyway this is ur daily reminder that gender nonconformity is not a trend and it’s gross to attack people for being gender nonconforming in a way that you think “has been done before” or “isn’t that special” or whatever the fuck. like i’m sorry but it’s just cruel and hateful! being gender nonconforming still takes bravery and courage. people still face discrimination and harassment. whose cause do you think you’re helping by attempting to be the gatekeeper of nontraditional gender expression? genuinely, who do you think benefits when you attack people for stepping outside of the bounds of traditional gender expression? who? because it certainly fucking isn’t gnc people.

[emi1y]

contrary to popular belief, you actually can enjoy 100 gecs without constantly saying "this is soooo crazy and weird i can't figure out why i like it 😂" i know this may be hard to believe, but it's entirely possible to listen to their music without leaving comments on their youtube about how objectively shitty their music is and how embarrassed you are about liking it

[imflare]

sexy short unruly hair vriska and nonexistent colouring skills the drawing

[maidofvoid413]

[cipheramnesia]

Maybe if you just transed your gender you'd calm down.

[cipheramnesia]

trans people keep winning

[lloras]

[sovietshopaholic]

motorboating your gal pal is a symptom of ADHD

[faffreux]

Because I ALWAYS assign colors to my mutuals in my head and want to know if other folks do this too I have a game:

Reblog this with the color you associate with the person you reblogged this from. 

[aritany]

sure do put a lot of emphasis on couples falling in love through mutual trust and vulnerability for someone who needs to be pried open like an oyster emotionally speaking

[butchyena]

genuinely one of the worst parts about having to work for a big corporation is how you as an individual supposed to “be the face of the company” as if a multi million dollar corporation is really gonna suffer from me telling some old dustbag to fuck off after screaming at me for a 5% discount

[butchyena]

“you represent this company” actually i represent this fat set of cock n balls here that any disagreeing customer is welcome to suck on

[sarcasmprodigy]

Updated outfits.