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been thinkin about this lately and i think i want a small life. not a BAD life n not an ISOLATED life n not a CLOSED life but just. small. with defined boundaries. i want a job that will sustain me that doesn't require exhaustion to survive. i want a place to live that's big enough for me to choose every part of it; just enough shelf for mugs i love, just enough cabinet for a neat set of paints, just enough closet for clothes i actually like wearing not just ones i tolerate. i want to do little routines and make small batches of things and be a regular somewhere. i just want to have something contained and clear that's mine, mine, mine
There is a new Chrome extension that detects if a video youâre streaming has a strobe in it, will freeze the video and stick this warning up there until you approve it.
WHERE THE HELL HAS THIS BEEN ALL MY LIFE????
[image description: a screencap of the chrome web store, showing an extension called âseizsafe - epilepsy alert for youtubeâ and an example image of the extension, showing a blocked video with the text âwarning: the following content may potentially trigger seizures for people with photosensitive epilepsy.â there is a toggle with an option reading: âdonât warn me again during this video. click here or hit spacebar to continue watching đâ. end image description.]
chrome webstore link:
Prevent Photosensitive-Epileptic seizures while watching YouTubeâą videos. We'll warn you before you see any flashy videos.
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hello again everyone! the terfs keep finding this so let me make myself crystal fucking clear!
this post is about trans lesbians. this post is about butch trans lesbians. this post is about gender nonconforming lesbians. this post is about lesbians who do not fit cisnormative body standards. this post is about he/him lesbians. it was ALWAYS written with these people in mind.
this post is NOT about lesbians who are gender critical or radfem or whatever you fucking call yourselves these days. if you run in these circles you are not included in this post and you are certainly not included in our community.
trans and nonbinary and gnc and genderweird lesbians, I love you. lesbians with bodies that cisnormative society views as âmasculine,â I love you. this post is a celebration of your beauty.
Today's my birthday. I should've been dead by now, but my sister, best friend, and boyfriend keep me alive.
I hate pms bc I get more fatigued than usual and lose my appetite, which makes me not want to eat, which makes me more exhausted.
if your brain generates those random sentences that make no sense right before you fall asleep, reblog and put in the tags your favorite one
As an asthmatic, this was critical advice. It can also be helpful to splash cold water on the back of your neck or forehead, which helps distract you from the panic.Â
If you are having issues with what it feels like breathing in a mask, practice in a calm environment where you feel relaxed, and if you canât get it to be ok, try different masks.
yeah it's absolutely important that we talk about how masks can make people feel like they can't breathe, and that is itself difficult. my mom has straight up developed some sort of agoraphobia during the pandemic and has had to skip out on events because she can't be in a crowded room with a mask.
good idea to check in with your body and what you're feeling, what exactly is it that's causing that suffocating feeling? is it contact with the material or the way it traps warmth near your face? try different fits and materials
That's why I stick to surgical masks since they became available.
Also it is possible to get dizzy/nauseous from the heat buildup inside the mask. I find chewing mint gum can help.
reblog and put in the tags your favorite ben and jerrys flavor
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Inktober Day 17 - Collide
Home is the smell of snowflakes & raw meat & the sound of a mother crying with all she has left & dead birds & boomboxes & bibles & oatmeal cookies out the package & stray dogs & bee stings & grits & body glitter & the boys next door & my knees on the floor & empty grocery stores & vanilla lip gloss & tight jeans & please love me please love me please love me
loved the age where you could look up paranormal stuff and have no gauge of whatâs real/fake so youâre just like âoh my god âŠ. a ghost caught on tape and no one is talking about thisâ
ten year old me after seeing the grainiest picture imaginable of a figure in a cemetery:
donât know what parent of an autistic child needs to hear this but as long as theyâre not harming anyone your kidâs stimming is not a âproblem behaviourâ
in our house we have a few categories of stimming behavior.
1. the no category. this is for things that are unsafe. hurting self (head banging, scratching), hurting others, chewing on choking hazards. i know this is excluded in OPâs post, but iâm putting it on my list because if you parent an autistic child and deal with this, you have to be aware that a key to off-limits stimming is redirection. stimming satisfies an important physical and neurological need for the autistic brain, and that behavior is sensory-seeking. if you must say no, please also offer options or help redirecting to appropriate outlets for pressure, motion, rhythm, chewing, etc.
2. the shared space category. listen, i get that a lot of people are assholes about things that arenât hurting them. thatâs not what this category is for. but we have a household with multiple autistic individuals and a work from home situation. âshared spaceâ is the code phrase we use for âplease take this stimming to a different location.â sometimes, aural stims like repetitive noises or physical stims like pacing can be legitimately distracting to other people in a room (or car!). in the case of other autistic people, it might even feel painful or mentally consuming. this category is no-judgment âplease move to another location to continue stimming this way.â itâs not bad, itâs not wrong, you arenât being shamedâ just do your best to respect others and their needs or comfort, and leave the communal area or lower your volume.
3. the you do you category. it doesnât matter that nobody else is doing this to feel comfortable or happyâ you arenât hurting anyone else, you arenât being disruptive in a space other people are using together. go for it.
and in every single category, anger has no place in redirecting a stim. not even the no category. stimming isnât malicious, thereâs no actual moral requirement to be âless weirdâ or âlike everyone else.â even reminders like âyou arenât the only person in this room and thatâs very loudâ donât need anger. stims arenât done at anyone. theyâre just the body expressing a kind of neurological hunger, and whether the answer is âenjoy that!â or âthis isnât safe for you to eat (ie, do)â fury doesnât help.
oh shit this is a REALLY helpful way to conceptualize stimming and competing needs.
I love this so much.
Fun lilâ childhood trauma things!
Being angry at your younger self for not disclosing the trauma
Fantasizing about going back in time and telling someone
Petty jealousy towards kids that did disclose and got help
All the self-blame all the time!
Did that happen or is it just a bitterly twisted false memory?
Random anger at adults around you for NOT NOTICING WHEN IT WAS SO FUCKING OBVIOUSÂ
Feel free to add your personal faves to this list!