melonbunnie

click the donut Life is either a great adventure or nothing. Helen Keller

[thelittlewanderingwitch]

[riverspecter]

[hollowedskin]

why is this goat so pretty?? it’s like a fairy? what kind of goat is this???

[powerfulwizard]

It’s called a Gulabi, and if you want to see something even better, the adults look like this.  

[whatthehellhappenedtoyou]

that escalated quickly

[femaleshits]

[tastefullyoffensive]

by Loryn Brantz

[linda-belcher]

remember when you used to go over to your friend’s house and you’d go down to the “computer room” to the dad’s old shitty desktop computer and sit on the giant black leather computer chair and your friend would show you charlie the unicorn and epic rap battles of history type of stuff on youtube while their younger siblings bugged you for a turn to use the computer

[awkwardrandomteen]

Sweater Weather by The Neighbourhood on a Harp “‘Cause it’s too cold for you here”

This sounds beautiful

[constantneverland]

This is the most soothing thing I have ever experience.

[thewitchdoctor]

[uranian97]

1) they expensive bruh 2) none of us kno the dif btwn a fucking diamond and some fancy ass glass ur capitalist rock hierarchy has no control over us

[a-chicago-sunflower]

3) mostly mined with slave labor

[everkings]

4) we get excited when our date buys us an appetizer, we don’t even comprehend people buying us rocks that would force us into debt for ten years

[wildhaunt]

5) They aren’t actually that rare and the price is artificially inflated. 

[ariaste]

Pro tip from a former Jared’s salesperson: You want a sparkly white rock that will look like a diamond to the untrained eye and will literally cost the price of a nice dinner for two? Created white sapphire. They’re lab grown and cost *pennies* to make, so you can get a 1 or 2 carat white sapphire for like… $30-80 probably. You can get one as huge as you like, perfectly clear, perfectly flawless. And no one will ever be able to tell the difference except a professional appraiser. Also, sapphires are the second-hardest gemstone (right after diamonds) so they are very durable! Very unlikely that they’ll chip or crack. Get that bitch set in sterling silver and you are GOOD TO GO. Whole thing should cost you less than $200 unless you get a fancy band with a lot of extra stones. Of course, created sapphires come in every color of the rainbow, so if you want something more exciting than plain white, you TOTALLY CAN. 

Created sapphires and silver: The poor Millennial’s engagement ring. 

[everythingcanadian-archive]

THANK YOU EX-JARED’S BASED GOD. 

[dxisybuchanan]

engagement rings: HACKED

[amanda-fior]

American Horror Story: Sims

[radioh]

i love her…

[thegoldenmisfits]

Honestly how is it that Barbie handled this topic better than my own therapist did…

[weklwejrwaejflasfkraewl-deactiv]

what the fuck why is this so real???

[dreamgrl1998-deactivated2022072]

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Stop Being a People Pleaser

1. Trying to please people all the time leaves you open to constantly being taken advantage of. Some telltale signs that you’re too entwined in the lives of others include you are either passive or aggressive, with little or no give and take in between; you never seem to be having any fun; or you are constantly controlling or being controlled.

2. Evaluate your boundaries. Think about what is acceptable, and unacceptable, behaviour. Ask yourself: Are your boundaries the same as other peoples’ boundaries? Do you tolerate the intolerable? Normalize the abnormal? Accept the unacceptable? Do you know what it feels like to be treated with dignity and respect? Learn how to identify and label unacceptable treatment, and how to set limits on any behaviour which violates your boundaries.

3. Consider the source. Many people pleasers were raised in environments wherein their needs and feelings were pushed aside, not considered, or even belittled. Being able to identify and understand the source allows us to better understand ourselves, and to better eliminate our tendency to be a people pleaser.

3. Stop basing your self-worth on how much you do for other people. It’s noble that you want to help others, but it’s something you should do because you want to, not because you feel you have to. The willingness to help others should come after you know how to help yourself. In fact, the greatest acts of kindness are those done by choice, not out of fear or guilt.

4. Never think that the world around you will collapse if you fail to please a person. There are always new friends to find, and if the “friend” you were trying to please leaves you because you did not please him or her, he or she is not your friend - so it’s good that he or she left.

5. Be persistent. If this is a lifelong habit, it will not be easy to overcome. Maintain enough self-awareness so that you realize when you are being a “pleaser,” and can put the brakes on it, when you see it happening.

Source: http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Being-a-People-Pleaser (Adapted)

[hara-kiri]

mood

[lonniiii-deactivated20170829]

Don’t introduce me to your parents unless you plan on marrying me bc they’re going to love me & ask about me for the rest of your life lol

[actualdogvines]

[drtanner]

salmonking:

eyebrowgod:

*inhale* arf

[mercible]

quality content

[exmosuggestion]

the things they did to you are not your fault. you are not a chewed up piece of gum, a licked cupcake, or any other adjective they can come up with. you do not need to atone for the sins of other people. you do not need to relive the trauma in order to prove to them that you didn’t provoke it.

[weloveshortvideos]

[aka-maggie]

I was searching for a picture of Queen Elizabeth II with her corgis but I found this and I just think it’s the best