So many girls, So little time...

Gwenaël.le, 30+ - / - Agender (plural They/Them, neutral terms); Aromantic, Asexual, Afamilial, Demiplatonic; Pan & Polyam - / - Pro-ship, always - / - This blog runs on a queue (13 posts 7h-19h CET) unless tagged #not-queued

[erikag59]

[hudconvent]

when i reblog something for a mutual and they reblog it from somewhere else #WELCOMEHOMECHEATER

[rq1nzorr]

'the girls the gays and the theys' is a wonderful phrase because it:

1. implies that queers are allied with every single woman, which keeps the phrase as is meant to be: made by nonqueer women for nonqueer women. (because, of course, queerness is only safe in its existence when nonqueer women don't feel threatened by it, being included at all times.)

2. implies men can only be there when they're gay (despite the fact that 'theys' is included and clearly meant to speak to transgender people alone), which immediately is both trans male erasure and "nonqueer guys don't belong at pride" rhetoric.

3. excludes gq/nonbinary people who use it/its and neopronouns/no pronouns, or people who use more than one pronoun set.

4. refers to the gq/nonbinary people who are included with their pronouns rather than their identities.

5. very noncoincidentally refers to girls, gays (presumed effeminate men) and 'theys' (presumed 'afabs') specifically. which could mean nothing.

truly just the pinnacle of pop feminist queer activism. we've done it folks. everyone pack up and go home now. have a good weekend with the nuclear family.

[feralsorcerer]

I keep seeing people saying that peter and frank have a "father/son dynamic" or a "uncle/nephew dynamic" but you are all wrong. They have the dynamic of the older coworker that you are way to close with when you're in your 20s. We've all had that coworker. Thats your best friend kinda. But it only works in a work setting

[virginwithasthma]

"Modern retelling" and it's a blatant misinterpretation of the original text

[cuppydogshane]

all the rights that come with marriage you should be able to have without marriage btw. you should be able to designate a person who can visit you in the hospital regardless of your relationship to that person.

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

"Not dating or having sex isn't even a source of discrimination in real life-" How many rights and benefits are tied up in marriage contracts though? How much of our economic and societal structure is built with the clear expectation that people couple up and support each other? Where's the security nets and affordable options for people who will never have a partner/spouse to take care of them? How many people save serious commitment only for people they have a romantic and sexual relationship with? How many people will unquestionably prioritize their sexual and romantic relationship above all other social connections in their lives? And where does that leave the people who don't want that at all, ever?

[ivy-michaels]

Tumblr did not “Goncharov” Poob. Poob is Glupp Shittoing Tubi/Pluto/Roku Channel/Hulu/etc.

[gender-luster]

none of these words are in the bible. or the dictionary, for that matter.

[hugintheraven]

#While this is a joke#For the etymologists out there#Tumblr did not “goncharov” poob#translation: Tumblr is not making a fictitious thing called poob that we insist is real#Poob is glup shittoing (streaming services)#Translation: Poob is now a generic name for whatever streaming platform is out there when you don't feel like naming something specifically

[cushfuddled]

I read this aloud to my roommate and he thought I was having a stroke

[darkspaceboytoy]

White people will watch some idiot’s ugly cartoon and then commit a hate crime if you aren’t into it

[bobdylanyaoi]

“Subverting” Catholic art? Oh, okay. I see, you think this has nothing to do with you. You log onto the internet and you post about how “Wound of Christ” from Psalter and Prayer Book of Bonne de Luxembourg, attributed to Jean le Noir, c.1349, for instance, looks like a vulva because you're trying to tell the world that you enjoy Catholic art and imagery in an alternative, queer, risqué way that challenges Christian beliefs. But what you don't know is that that stigma isn’t just a vulva. It's not just a mandorla. It's not just yonic. It's actually intentionally erotic. And you're also blithely unaware of the fact that around 1297, Saint Angela of Foligno experienced a vision of Christ himself, who called her to put her mouth to the wound in his side and lick the freshly flowing blood. And then I think it was Saint Catherine of Siena who drank blood and a clear liquid from the wound before receiving a ring made from Christ’s foreskin? And then graphically erotic encounters with the side wound of Christ quickly showed up in the writings of eight different mystics. And then the yonic interpretation of the stigmata filtered down through the illuminated manuscripts and then trickled on down into some pseudo-intellectual corner of the internet…where you, no doubt, fished it out of some Pinterest board. However, that interpretation represents hundreds of years and countless visions of religious ecstasy. And it's sort of comical how you think that you've come up with an idea that exempts you from Christian theology when, in fact…you're posting an image that was sexualized for you by the very Medieval saints you think you’re so different than…from “subverted” Catholic art.

[femmefangirl]

the theme of spiderman: brand new day being about non romantic love!! the ongoing throughline being that peter needs to not be so alone, that he needs friends. the way jean's story was about her sister. the way frank cried for peter, was soft with him like that, apologised like that because he cared about peter. the way mj's boyfriend doesn't matter at all because what matters is that she's ned's friend. the way the first person who remembered peter was his best friend, his oldest friend because of their special handshake. the way peter being bruce's friend was enough to snap him back from being hulk. the way peter being jean's friend so that she's not so alone is the entire reason we have an ending as happy as we do.

the way these non-romantic relationships are so important to the story.

[oghotonghoton-potiushi]

Tears in my eyes

[madilik]

my moroccan friend is stuck in the deportation center (hard to talk abt so dont ask me) and we're trying 2 get them out but at the same time theyre trying to organize help for a libyan queer person they met in there lol i really admire this kind of person like using their limited time on the phone to also try to arrange help for someone else. id like to think i would act the same way if i were ever imprisoned but who knows. hoping to not find out but you know how life is

[thewarmvoid]

“how many actual trans women do you know with facial hair/beards”

a lot actually but the majority of them have been bullied / shamed out of labeling themselves as trans women because of people like you and the rhetoric you spread that no “actual” trans woman could ever want to keep her facial hair. so.

[thewarmvoid]

imagine pretending a certain type of trans woman just doesn’t exist because their existence is rhetorically inconvenient to you. it makes total sense that since “a trans woman who does/has x doesnt really exist” has become the normal accepted attitude, those trans women would just stop identifying themselves that way since you clearly have such an investment in defining them out of that category.

[lucy-vanpelts]

when someone calls me their friend my heart skips a beat it’s like i won at being myself

[vampire-scripture]

Anne Rice on being a woman, the fear of walking alone at night, and some examples of how vampirism is her world affected that.

[nurseleonedeactivated-deactivat]

i think ppl would be a lot happier and better-adjusted on here if they realized that being online on a website is like being in any other casual public space full of people. if u walk into walmart u dont immediately think to yourself “i have to be friends with everyone in this walmart and if not everyone likes me i’m a failure” and u really shouldn’t feel that way online either. likewise if there’s a guy in the walmart parking lot shouting obscenities u probably wouldn’t answer him and that’s literally an exact equivalent to some of the weird stuff that people on here seem to feel they’re obligated to respond to.

[mihai-florescu]

Languages tend to peak at their word for butterfly. Never seen 2 that are the same, either. Papillon. Mariposa. Borboleta. Fluture. Vlinder. Schmetterling. Pillangó. Babochka. Farfalla. Sommerfugl. Perhonen. Farasha. Titali. Chōchō. Nabi. Húdié. Buom buom. Great job guys, i really mean it.