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I'm so fucking sick of the never give up attitude.
Let me give up.
Let other people give up.
ITS NOT UP TO YOU!
the fascinating thing about being abused is that years later youre gonna be there sitting around going "okay so what now". cause like theres no instruction manual is there
youre gonna be buying groceries and then youre gonna remember you went through all that for literally no good reason and youre gonna go Oh Okay and put paper towels in your bag or whatever
Woke up to people talking about proship this morning.
Someone was defending it with all the usual "but that's censorship!!!" argument which is old and tired.
But then someone did the ol "it helped me with my trauma" which I've talked about being a bullshit excuse as well.
The person who brought that up, was in fact doing the usual "reliving it is so helpful to my brain tho" and me and someone else explained that no, all you are doing is desensitizing yourself which we could all use LESS of in life.
This persons take was so typical too. Very "too bad, so sad, life sucks, deal with it" kind of attitude. Such a shitty take too. I even told them, like what is the point of living if you view the world that way? like if it sucks, why even fucking be here if its impossible to change.
But that's the thing. Its possible TO CHANGE. It can be done. Believe it or not, you can actually fucking grow past reading incest rape pedo porn. Your life may even improve without it!!
There's plenty of examples out there of people who improved their lives when they dropped that kind of garbage.
There was also another person saying it helped with their trauma. But their argument was a little different. Still a serious problem, however.
They said reading proship type content helped them identify their own abuse.
I didn't say anything to that person because they're a system and overly sensitive about most things from what I've seen.
But you also don't need fucking transgressive subversive porn to help you identify abuse. WHAT YOU NEED IS COMMUNITY. What you need is to have people in your life who could also easily identify what that shit is.
The idea that this garbage HAS to exist or else we won't know is jackassery. There are plenty of people who know exactly what incest, rape, and pedophile abuse looks like. It doesn't have to exist for us to know because it already previously fucking existed.
Getting rid of it, doesn't change us knowing. Getting rid of it, changes our view and lets us know that it is harmful to others which is why we shouldn't be looking for ways to engage with it. Pretend or not.
why the fuck are people going out of their way to defend this trash?
if it truly doesn't matter - why have it at all?
funny how people who are sex repulsed seem to be wound very tightly.
not even remotely asexual but I fucking hate those sexy text posts that people make that are like "then you rub her clit and watch her moan"
I fucking hate when people try to write about sex. It always comes off cornball as fuck and reads embarrassing more than anything else.
yall rly came out SWINGING...
Is everyone missing the part where the OP’s name is FLORIDA BOY?
OP’s pussy isn’t a desert, OP’s pussy is a penis. He’s just excited to be wearing lady’s underwear at work for the first time and wanted to share with us all, like a proper little pervert, and I think that’s beautiful.
I'm almost certain this is a man making fun of women for having wet pussies and lauding these pair of panties as belonging to a woman who doesn't get wet down there as somehow "better" than someone who does get wet.
UNPOPULAR OPINION: A lot of "mental health issues" disappear when bills are paid, rent is secure, and the fridge is full. Peace is expensive. And pretending money doesn't affect mental health is privilege.
some of you would be a lot happier if you didn't use 4chan words
first of all- why the fuck was I following this.
second of all - why? Why is it okay to take the romance out of sex?
I just had some massive idiot telling me "Kissing is too intimate" but apparently a dick in a mouth, is what, like a hand shake?
I can't imagine defending physical sexual activity that much. This is just a group of people who think that being extra proud of being sexual makes them special. It doesn't.
This whole "romance is icky" reeks of being 14 in the 90s. It always comes off reactionary.
No wonder everyone is so emotionally detached and has trouble socializing. Its like everyone wants to suck the passion out of everything. Like, lets all just be mentally sterilized but as long as we still hump each other, its what, fine??
No wonder people are constantly clinging to kink and defending it at every cost. Sex is just a physical activity they're doing with their buddies, after all!
It feels like they all want to turn sex into something that doesn't require boundaries. You already can't criticize kink. You already can't criticize people who straight up hate romance. And all romance too. Not just trad shit.
Like this would be one thing if it was just a preference. Like sure, you don't like long walks on the beach. Not everyone does. But like, you hate romance including things like kissing or holding hands or just looking at someone longingly?? Kissing is too intimate and considered icky but mashing genitals together is totally a casual fun thing?? And you should be able to mash genitals together without regard, or compassion, or emotion surrounding the other person you are mashing your genitals with??
And these people are demanding respect... for what exactly? For being able to fuck someone and feel nothing? Why even fuck.
sometimes I think about how far we still have to go with consent
my worst relatives try to sneak meat or meat products into my food despite the fact that I'm a vegetarian
my ex's brother gave his mother an edible without her knowledge and when she got freaked out and paranoid they laughed, and people I've told that go "yeah that's shitty but it's just weed"
when I go to the doctor and ask them to describe what they are going to do before touching me they get frustrated
when I ask a friends of a friend who is a small influencer to keep me out of frame in videos they film for social media in public they look at me like I've pissed in their cereal
idk man, we've got a long way to go.
imagine being homeless and still not needing a faith to cling to.
there's a lot I don't like about the increase of people feeling the need to offer kneejerk diagnoses of moral OCD on here, but one of the biggest flaws in it to me is that it feels so dismissive and incurious. if you can write off any troubling belief as the result of a disorder (as if people with compulsions and disordered thinking form their ideas in a bubble, without any outside influence) then you never have to actually engage with those beliefs or try to understand how a person might arrive at such a conclusion, you can just sweep it under the rug of nebulous discrediting mental illness. I wouldn't go so far as to call it a silencing tactic, although it does have shades of trying to politely call someone crazy, but I think it's a real easy out for people who have a knee jerk negative response to a very polarized take and don't want an immediate way to strip it of any potential validity.
to cite the example most salient to me and my educational practice, a lot of people, especially young people, have extremely regressive and conservative ideas about sex right now. even those who aren't trying to enforce bioessentialism and restrict human autonomy display reactionary tendencies towards the sexual expression of others and high levels of anxiety around their own sexual appetites. this is a very widespread trend, and I see it wash up in my own inbox with some frequency. and let me tell you it! seeing someone in the replies rushing to write off askers by saying "oh you have moral OCD, get help" is not helpful, ever. and trying to dismiss an generational attitude shift as Mental Illness(TM) (the kind you can ignore because it's not a cute aesthetic identity marker) rather than seriously scrutinizing the forces at play to make people think this way is sticking your head in the sand about it as best
saw someone say their aro/ace awakening was when they kissed a girl and found it disgusting.
its absolutely wild that these people are allowed to be disgusted by others behavior but no one is allowed to be disgusted with them for being this way.
You know what they never tell you in therapy?
How to navigate the world once you've dealt with all your trauma.
Its like any other medicine where they have no interest in curing you of anything. They just want to make sure you keep coming back.
I dealt with all my trauma on my own. and now I have to fucking sit back and watch other people not know how to deal with their own. so I'm constantly being bombarded with people who seem like they're doing horribly but in reality - they just aren't to where I am yet.
but there seems to be no one where I am.
the Stranger in your House
