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[monebutterfly]

esmé, it/its. this blog may contain nsfw content; please do not interact if you are under the age of 20.

i like romance and cute, pretty, beautiful things. cinderella stories are a particular favorite, especially with soft and sad damsels in distress who get their happily ever afters. i nearly exclusively ship m/f.

other than romance, my interests (which i often engage with through the lens of romance) range from k-pop to sports to fairy tales and mythology, among many more. i can shift focus rather rapidly, but i'm always welcome to talk about current and less immediate pursuits, though i may have social difficulties.

[monebutterfly]

idc for femDom in my m/f ships ngl

[langernameohnebedeutung]

"Oh, all the straight women with their xreader posts", "oh all the straight women with their m/f omegaverse stories", "oh, all the straight women with their-

You're on fucking tumblr.

You know it's not just straight women doing the thing you dislike.

You know it's not just women doing the thing you dislike.

[star-anise]

When I was younger and more abled, I was so fucking on board with the fantasy genre’s subversion of traditional femininity. We weren’t just fainting maidens locked up in towers; we could do anything men could do, be as strong or as physical or as violent. I got into western martial arts and learned to fight with a rapier, fell in love with the longsword.

But since I’ve gotten too disabled to fight anymore, I… find myself coming back to that maiden in a tower. It’s that funny thing, where subverting femininity is powerful for the people who have always been forced into it… but for the people who have always been excluded, the powerful thing can be embracing it.

As I’m disabled, as I say to groups of friends, “I can’t walk that far,” as I’m in too much pain to keep partying, I find myself worrying: I’m boring, too quiet, too stationary, irrelevant. The message sent to the disabled is: You’re out of the narrative, you’re secondary, you’re a burden.

The remarkable thing about the maiden in her tower is not her immobility; it’s common for disabled people to be abandoned, set adrift, waiting at bus stops or watching out the windows, forgotten in institutions or stranded in our houses. The remarkable thing is that she’s like a beacon, turning her tower into a lighthouse; people want to come to her, she’s important, she inspires through her appearance and words and craftwork.  In medieval romances she gives gifts, write letters, sends messengers, and summons lovers; she plays chess, commissions ballads, composes music, commands knights. She is her household’s moral centre in a castle under siege. She is a castle unto herself, and the integrity of her body matters.

That can be so revolutionary to those of us stuck in our towers who fall prey to thinking: Nobody would want to visit; nobody would want to listen; nobody would want to stay.

[shieldmaidenofsherwood]

#it’s so so important to remember that representation is not one-size-fits-all#what is empowering to one person might be exhausting and oppressive to someone else#some people need stories about having the strength to save themselves#some people need stories about being considered worthy of being saved#some people need inspiration for their independence while others need validation that they don’t have to be able to do everything themselves#before you lash out against something PLEASE stop to consider:#is this inadequate and/or damaging representation?#or is it just something I don’t personally relate to? [X]

[hobipowers]

one more night 💜

[minyoonjin]

they say there are seven wonders in the world, and I am so happy that my heart found them all...💜

May you always walk together, til the end of times..💜

[max1461]

Disgust has absolutely no ethical weight. If you are basing your ethical positions on the emotion of disgust you should stop, it is entirely unjustified and leads to a huge amount of harm.

[word-for-today]

Word for today: wisdom of repugnance

The logical fallacy that because something disgusts you it must be bad

[obscenicon-deactivated20231123]

this is probably the funniest example of a tumblr user simply not reading the post theyre reblogging at all

[steelblue8]

Reblog if you are a freak who is justifying their gross actions

[depressedcatgirl]

fighting the war on straight omegaverse on the side of straight omegaverse.

[depressedcatgirl]

"why is straight omegaverse even a thing it doesn't make sense" It's smut it doesn't need to make sense it just needs to be hot to someone.

[ateezhub]

[🎬] ATEEZ(에이티즈) GOLDEN HOUR : Part.5 Preview

2026. 06. 26 1PM RELEASE

http://youtu.be/i7B6lefO93Y

#ATEEZ #에이티즈

#GOLDENHOUR #GOLDENHOUR_Part5 #BAD

[mitrakats]

happy valentine’s day 💖💖💖💖prints of this r available on my etsy :D

[spiderbitesandvampirevenom]

can we bring back the term "fair-weather friend" bc I feel like if fair-weather friends got called that more this whole argument about whether or not you should be there for your friends when it's inconvenient/at what point of personal inconvenience it's ok to bail on your friends would kinda fall apart bc like. we literally have a word for "friend who's only there when you don't need something from them" because the baseline expectation is that a friend should be there even when it sucks. like we used to make fun of people for bailing on their friends.

[courtmartialme]

i know everyone is tired of hearing it from me but i'll never be free from how people think you can only ship a het ship WOKELY if the man is a pathetic useless idiot and the girl babysits and pegs him and has the personality of a door. i promise you won't get your woke card revoked if you spend five minutes of your time to consider the girl has a personality and the guy might be a competent person. and maybe she likes getting dicked down and is a little pathetic too. have you considered also liking the girl and maybe wanting her to be a spoiled baby too? also I'll Kill You

[thevagabondbard]

MORE PHOTS IN MUH REBLOG

Psst. Don't tell the jolkein rolkein rolkein estate, but this is amazing. DO consider buying a print from the extraordinary artist responsible:

https://www.inprnt.com/gallery/leiaham/

Original Twitter thread with the artist's thoughts and commentary:

[thevagabondbard]

[ateezhub]

[📷] ATEEZ(에이티즈) GOLDEN HOUR : Part.5 Concept Photo 2

#JONGHO #종호

2026. 06. 26 1PM RELEASE

📎Pre-save/add: http://ateez.sng.to/golden-hour-part-5

#ATEEZ #에이티즈

#GOLDENHOUR #GOLDENHOUR_Part5 #BAD

[titsay]

[naga-noia]

as a person under the agender/nonbinary umbrella I actually think the recently increased focus on a nonbinary person’s agab is insanely fucking uncomfortable and blatantly exorsexist. Stop trying to sort NB people into boxes of amab vs afab, transfem vs transmasc, tma vs tme, etc etc. It is not praxis or activism to keep attempting to binarize people whose entire identities are built around the fact that they DO NOT ADHERE to a binary. You are just being a fucking tar pit #sorry

[roycohn]

there's an old anne rice interview circulating on twitter rn that i remember reading ages ago where she makes a pretty salient point about how submissive men who have bdsm fantasies etc will go to a sex worker and basically order the ala carte version of their fantasy to be performed in real life but women don't really have that same option and certainly not at the same point of availability so they read her horny books instead. and honestly that argument has been in the back of my mind every time people get on their high horses about the popularity of booktok romantasy novels or heated rivalry or whatever the "women are horny and we're upset about that" cultural property du jour is ever since. women, especially straight women, have so few outlets for their sexual desires, especially if they have a partner who doesn't share them, and i will never understand why "someone ELSE'S private sexual fantasy makes me uncomfortable and therefore they should not be allowed to engage with it, even if i am in no way being affected by it or even aware of it at all" is such a popular party line among allegedly progressive young people.