aphobia is not just harmful to asexual people. it hurts everyone when society tells people they are not complete without a romantic partner. that they are arenāt a whole person if they arenāt in love and sexually desirable. people spend some of the most fulfilling parts of their lives feeling like theyāre wasting that time because they arenāt in a relationship. they spend so much time looking for āthe oneā. time that could be spent learning, travelling, building a found family. they miss out on meaningful relationships, on soulmates, because they are told that person canāt be the most important person in their life. it devalues the support thatās found in community, it devalues the love found in friendships, it devalues the importance for living for oneself.




















