hello ?

·she/her ·i am extremely unimpressed,,,

[spyglassrealms]

Given the Everything lately, I would like to offer you all a little moment of serenity I happened upon today:

Oh, to be a pillbug having a drink from the pond overflow with my little buddy...

[baraphalloplastyclinic]

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

[ladyfoxfire]

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

[dressedupliketheking]

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

[wingkink]

btw it's so fucking stupid you can be anxious physically in your body even after you've decided mentally you don't care. I'm supposed to be in charge here

[kuchipachi]

white flag by lucia gallipoli

[kosmogrl]

on sisters

[limerencs]

[mung-bean]

it's funny because 美女 (pronounced exactly the same way) is a way to refer to a beautiful woman

[rockabillywife]

Im Gaining my mind. Im going Sane #positivity

[redstonedust]

'being single sucks because youll be lonely' lame and untrue. 'being single sucks because a lot of groceries are portioned to make food for more than one person and you cant really take advantage of buying in bulk because it'll go bad before you use it all' this i cannot deny.

[hometoursandotherstuff]

[ellaandtheocean]

Humpback whales breaching: gorgeous, majestic, graceful, embodies all the strength and beauty of the ocean

Minke whales breaching: I will launch myself out of this ocean like a f***ing surface-to-air missile to seek and destroy my enemies

[gallusrostromegalus]

I remember an interview with a guy that did the camera work for nature documentaries and he said that baleen whales like these guys were the scariest things to shoot because “They’re the size of a train, they can suddenly appear out of nowhere in dark or murky water and they don’t make a goddamn sound. I was absolutely sure that one of them was going to hit me and well, ‘that’s all folks!’. Gave me a lot of perspective on how I handle myself when filming smaller animals now.”

[a-book-of-creatures]

Fin whales breaching: sea serpent

[fleshdyke]

levitating minke whale

[plaguedocboi]

Sperm whale breaching: wjaht the fuck

[necronatron]

I have a feeling I have already shared this, but please, take the contribution of the northern right whale dolphin.

The humble eyebrow

[tiredofyourcutelittle]

[queermasculine]

im not above eating some low hanging fruit like if theres low hanging fruit i might eat some

[papapupi]

[transiting]

don’t make other people’s decisions for them. apply for the job you don’t think you’ll get. let them decide if you have the skills they’re looking for. tell that person you like them even though you think they’re out of your league. let them decide if they like you. stop trying to predict and control everything. bring what you have to the table. let the rest go.

[wombwarriors]

I hate the pessimistic idea that not much is going to change for women in our lifetime. Just this year, they started using female crash dummy models to test car safety. 2nd wave feminists saw the birth of "ptsd" as a mental disorder capable of impacting rape victims instead of just soldiers. 2nd wave feminists saw roe v wade, the right for women to open our own bank accounts, and federal acknowledgement of domestic violence and marital rape.

Feminists worked hard for women to grow up with the rights that we do have. We can keep doing that. We can change the world. I'm so confident in this that it underscores all of my other beliefs. We can do it!

[liberate-women-now]

And it would be an incredible disservice to young girls to grow up in a world where women just gave up since "women will never be free"

keep fucking fighting

[senatortedcruz]

Commenting “AI Slop” on a high school acquaintance’s Instagram post of their newborn baby

[rslashrats]

its called “ocd” because when you realize you have it you go “ohhhh crap… damn…”