Naharie

The ramblings of an only slightly crazy girl.

[utter-queer-nightmare]

Current mood

[faroffsong]

🧭🇮🇪🌎

[naharie]

More hugs for you.

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If you ever want someone to talk to about these things or really anything, I'm always open. I've seen enough and experienced enough to truthfully say that wouldn't judge you for anything. I've also kept some secrets for more than eighteen years now, so yeah, I would never share anything without you saying to do so.

I don't want you to feel pressured, though. Just for you to know there are people willing to talk or even just let you rant/vent and empathize with you deeply. I was never given the space to talk about all the pain and suffering and confusion when I was younger, especially as a child, so now I try to be that person for others.

Of course if there are other ways I could possibly help, do let me know.

[idc0o]

I want to be the kind stranger in someone's memory

[ellakas]

reblog to thank ur mutuals for providing enrichment to ur enclosure

[howmanyholesinswisscheese]

Biggest fuck-up ever is that people have to pay to become doctors

[howmanyholesinswisscheese]

Like unironically we should be subsidising at least 50% of their educations. What do you mean we have a shortage of doctors we should have surplus. What do you mean they’re being overworked they should be treated like royalty, they can fix human bodies

[howmanyholesinswisscheese]

I don’t care if some of them are only doing it for the money. I don’t care if all of them are only doing it for the money. Intentions don’t matter to the stitches in my nana’s leg or the ten billion other lifesaving treatments we all get at a detriment to their finances and mental wellbeing. Entire cities are kept alive by just a couple thousand of them what are we DOINGGGGG

[leathersys]

a week

[lightslop]

A day

[thethirdromana]

Putting the term "Catholic guilt" on a high shelf where fandom can't reach it until everyone learns how to identify characters who are very very clearly coded as Protestant.

[vampfuneralpyre]

[naharie]

Important to note that if someone is Catholic but comes from or converted from Protestantism both can be true at the same time. I have first hand experience with that side of things unfortunately.

[shigure]

i'm sorry i never did your tag game. i love you

[frodo-of-the-nine-fingers]

childhood friends to complete strangers

[phleb0tomist]

it’s such a basic part of the reality of disabled people as a whole but it’s STILL so hard to get ppl to understand that some people will simply die without 24/7 care. their care is not for comfort, it’s not for fun, it’s literally a matter of life and death. “if their care was taken away i’m sure they’d learn to suck it up like the rest of us!” – something ive heard time and time again. no they wouldn’t, they would die. they HAVE died. they continue to die as cuts are made to welfare and health. why is this so impossible for people to grasp.

[dragon-in-a-fez]

if I see one more "why age verification is bad" post that doesn't even bother to mention that locking young people out of huge sections of the public sphere - literally the stated goal and primary impact of this shit - is wrong in and of itself I will simply start hitting people with bricks

[kayla-denker]

The issue of trans women being sent to men's prisons isn't brought up as being a monstrous thing because of the misgendering, it's monstrous because we're sent there to be legally sex trafficked.

That's what V-coding is. That is why they are so adamant about sending trans women to men's prisons, because sex trafficking trans women within the men's prison system is an essential part of that system. Being misgendered by this isn't even an issue that's on our radar!

[laceyembrace]

holy shit, to say it "keeps the violence rate down", when these women are being violently raped. aka they dont count it because they dont care when it happens to trans women.

[rhyperographer]

This is apparently a common practice in the USA prison system. That's... beyond fucked.

[rabbits-of-negative-euphoria]

"Social learning occurs throughout childhood, but there may be a sensitive period for cultural learning that spans roughly ages 9 to 15. Lessons learned and identities formed in these years are likely to imprint, or stick, more than at other ages. These are the crucial sensitive years of puberty. Unfortunately, they are also the years in which most adolescents in developed countries get their own phones and move their social lives online."

Jonathan Haidt, The Anxious Generation (2024)

[palatablepain]

WRONG unfortunately this is when most adolescents are bullied or isolated based on their peers', parents', and teachers' phobias and expectations. The anxious generation is anxious guess what not because of phones but because it is socially acceptable to say one is anxious as opposed to previous generations in which it was seen as a character failing. Now, it's just seen as a mental failing :) which you then get bullied for again as if it were a character failing :) and when you fail to grow out of it :) sociologists like this validate the people in your life to bully you more.

[alchemisedsenlinyu]

fantasizing daily about not being disabled and making the kind of money my sister does so i could travel the world like they do and maybe even move out of this g-dforsaken country

[crumbofmoon]

im not doomscrolling. im reading and learning

[punkrock-bottom]

Every day I am going insane in new ways never before imagined but I hide it so well literally no one can tell

[wedding-funeral-waitress]

Today I'm feeling: utter rage at the fact tags for transgender pride and identities are filled to the brim with porn bots that steal the likeness of trans women.