WINNER!

[namelessnow]

STANCES: pro ship ✧ pro fic ✧ pro lolisho pro kink ✧ pro para ✧ pro consang pro consent ✧ complex contact pro endo ✧ pro transid pro radqueer ✧ pro youthlib pro palestine

/ INTRO IS SLIGHTLY NSFW (not pics)

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COLLECTIVE IDs: (systemsona) que, q ✧ any pronouns 30 y/o ✧ agefluid ✧ agere indigenous american ✧ latinx ✧ jew west african ✧ northern european mixed ✧ racially ambiguous ✧ racevague fluidrace

dark brown curly hair occasionally dyed hair shitty little facial hair dark brown/black downturned eyes prominent bottom lashes permanent blush small breasts ✧ thin circumcised penis ✧ testes polytherian ✧ polykin black cat ✧ calico ✧ timber wolf snake ✧ dragon ✧ crow fallen angel ✧ starseed ✧ shapeshifter intersex ✧ transfemmasc ✧ queer butch genderfluid ✧ genderflux ✧ fagdyke abroromantic ✧ abrosexual ✧ aroaceflux aplflux ✧ fictoromantic ✧ fictosexual chronophile ✧ teratophile ✧ urophile somnophile ✧ plushophile autophile ✧ consang ✧ voyeur disabled ✧ neurodivergent hard of hearing ✧ tourette's ✧ pcos epileptic ✧ pots ✧ eds ✧ fibromyalgia ambulatory wheelchair user ✧ asl ✧ aac semiverbal ✧ sm ✧ lvl∞ autistic ✧ adhd schizospec ✧ stpd ✧ avpd ✧ bpd ✧ npd ocd ✧ cptsd ✧ did dissociative system ✧ traumagenic neurometagenic ✧ pregenic ✧ gateway

MORE IDs: (mixed bag of various alter IDs) fictive ✧ fictionkin ✧ fictionhearted svsss ✧ the mighty nein ✧ dmmd ✧ bsd hazbin hotel ✧ helluva boss ✧ tcoaal kingdom hearts ✧ ffvii ✧ demon slayer (ask about specifics) sourceasian sourcedemon ✧ sourcedemigod biastophile ✧ autobiastophile autassinophile ✧ autonecrophile emapihtophile ✧ apotemnophile apagophile ✧ autoapagophile zoophile ✧ autozoophile hierophile hematophile ✧ electrophile sadomasochist ✧ switch map ✧ automap feralplay ✧ intox transharmful transgroomer ✧ transdeadbeat sourcekiller ✧ sourcecannibal transambidextrous transspanishspeaker transparasocialsubject ✧ transfamous transsexworker ✧ transartist transperformer ✧ transdragperformer transvoiceactor sourceworshipped transplushie transanimalcaretaker transfosterparent ✧ transteacher transarcher permahigh permasleepy ✧ permadizzy perma2000s

[namelessnow]

I COULDNT MAKE A POST THE BUTTON WASNT WORKING I HAD TO LOG OUT AND LOG BACK IN

[namelessnow]

pissed off about stranger things againnn

when an ending ruins the good feelings i have about a show :(((

[namelessnow]

the truth is i love my partner but i dont want to be his primary partner. hes poly, and im like great, i wish his other partners were around but they dont live close. i can get rly jealous but i know the way things are right now isnt what i want.

i dont want him out of my life i just need more space. and im kinda thinking i prob dont ever want to live with any partner i have. im a loner and i NEED my space and alone time. if i had the means to live alone rn i would.

[namelessnow]

fuck sake my partner is so anxious when getting me edibles cuz we have to hide it from his grandmother but im like that woman doesnt know, not anything she doesnf already know. i feel like he just makes it more suspicious by suddenly whispering and being like SHHH

[namelessnow]

plssss try to understand avpd aaaaaagggghhh!!!!!

[namelessnow]

i wish i didnt need makeup to look like a girl

[oatneko]

ִ ࣪ ˖ ࣪ Legal ! ᰔ ִ ׄ

A term for a being who doesn't identify as either a "Minor" or "Adult" but as Legal

ִ ࣪ ˖ ࣪ Barely Legal ! ᰔ ִ ׄ

A term for a being who doesn't identify as either a "Minor" or "Adult" but as Barely Legal

ִ ࣪ ˖ ࣪ Almost Legal ! ᰔ ִ ׄ

A term for a being who doesn't identify as either a "Minor" or "Adult" but as Almost Legal

ִ ࣪ ˖ ࣪ Illegal ! ᰔ ִ ׄ

A term for a being who doesn't identify as either a "Minor" or "Adult" but as Illegal

(You can't still identify as either a minor or adult and use these terms, I won't stop you lmfao)

[namelessnow]

fuc k theres something so freeing about knowing youre right in an argument

coming from someone who is constantly doubting themself

[namelessnow]

my alter weed ummy

[namelessnow]

im having an argument with my partner and im laughing for some reason

[namelessnow]

URGGGGHH it hurts when my partner looks at me weird when im stimming or self regulating aaaaaaaggggggghhh

[namelessnow]

i think when talking about a topic its important to get everyone on the same page of what definition youre working with. unfortunately words are so messy so one being could say "I'm against [blank]!" and another is like "I'm for [blank]" and then you ask them to both describe the [blank], and it could not be more different. and maybe none of the definitions are particularly wrong because words end up having a lot of different meanings. (or maybe someone is genuinely working under an incorrect definition, at least with that, theres a place to start)

[namelessnow]

im tired, feeling stuck

[transdpd]

Transplushie

Identifying as a plushie in a trans way and/or wanting to transition into one.

[despazito]

[autistichalsin]

The test for allyship isn't how you treat an oppressed person who is your friend, family, spouse. It's how you treat an oppressed person you absolutely can't stand who is vile and loathsome in every way.

Do you gender trans people correctly even when they're being absolutely terrible people? Do you refuse to use the r-slur against someone who suicide baited you but is neurodivergent? Do you refuse to snark at a mentally ill person who is being genuinely unpleasant, "go take your meds!"

Do you allow members of marginalized groups to be terrible people without judging their entire demographic for it? One of the most invisible yet vital forms of privilege is the right to be terrible people as an individual rather than as a group. Do you acknowledge that there are bad people in every group, that it doesn't make their group less worth fighting for? Or do you shake your head if you happen to get mistreated by some who belong to a group and insist the entire group is awful and not worth your allyship?

Oppressed people can see how you treat those of us you like, but do you still treat the worst of us with the basic dignity you treat the worst of other groups with?