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Having a traumatic childhood means you cannot talk even objectively about your basic foundational experiences without it being "venting", even if you're not actually venting. You just straight up have a huge chunk of your life you can't talk about, full stop, without it being trauma dumping.

And it not being socially acceptable to talk about your own childhood is super alienating. Sometimes people want to know why, and any answer you can give them is going to be off putting.

It's to the point I get irritated when something I said is framed as venting when I'm literally just talking about my life experiences, doing my best to keep emotion out of it.

savouryduck

when I was in high school, I overheard two older students talking about a friend of theirs.

One of them said something like, "it doesn't bother me that [Friend] was in residential mental health treatment, I just wish they wouldn't talk about it ALL the time".

The other replied, "Well, that was all of last year for them. So when they say 'when I was in treatment,' it's like when you say 'last year'."

I try to remember that any time someone says something that sounds Shocking to me. sometimes one person's scary special crisis is another person's last year.

wherethewildcatsare

If you want to be accepting of mental illness, you need to accept the fact that some people's everyday lives are going to be terrifying to you. That doesn't mean they don't get to talk about it. Stop forcing hurt, isolated people to become even MORE hurt and isolated because you can't fathom toughening up a bit.

#I feel really bad when a lot of conversations with my friends end up with me talking about The Traum TM #but its also just my life that I have lived #some of the stuff my friends are horrified at are sometimes just ripple effects of the real traumatizing stuff #so far removed from the actual events that I dont see them as traumatic anymore just as sucky in comparison #but my sucky sometimes is a different reality to the lives my friends have lived #and I am very grateful they dont mind me talking about it #even when I try to not bring it up in every conversation

auspex

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possessable

i miss my OCs (is actively working on said OCs)

mother-meri-deactivated20260530

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vreaalite

thick thighs and pretty eyes

healrosie

i am not a religious person…….. but if you’re out there, giant rat that makes all of the rules,

tokkibean

writing and posting niche fics knowing very well that the only people reading them will be 2 strangers and a sea cucumber. of the three the sea cucumber is probably the most likely to leave a comment. i love my life

#me with the original writing project and 3 people reading #working on atleast gitting 3 more to read it out of pity/hj #ily my friends that indulge me

romanceyourdemons

animated fantasy films just don’t make fucked up evil castles like they used to

romanceyourdemons

[ID: king haggard’s castle from the last unicorn (1982), the horned king’s castle from the black cauldron (1985), and maleficent’s castle from sleeping beauty (1959) /end ID]

moviesludge

aesthetic of the day is fucked up evil castles

legrange-5

Wizards (1977)

kropotkindersurprise

an-atlas-or-other

Soccer players are the horses of men’s sports. They run around in fields for hours on end. They stub their toe and they die. They fall and they die. They run into each other and

why are there so many cool names around

#like I love my chosen name #but sometimes I do see some names that FUCK #naming OCs has never been so easy #maybe it's just that those names are new and shiny and novel while my choosen name has been around for a while #recency biase and all