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He/They and more than just a lil gay

[nikobiko-reblogs]

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[twospiritstooprideful]

clocking in to my shift at the yearning factory

[valeriapryanikova]

perseverance cut short

[canondivergencemylove]

@kola-without-the-coke @wysthilde Hikaru visions/j

[nikobiko-reblogs]

GIGGLING

Different universe where he runs into an electric fence while distracted instead 🥀

[knifearo]

are people under the impression that aromantic people never want to have close personal relationships with the people in their lives. "oh i wish i was aro it would save me all this drama!" actually human relationships are always deep and complicated and messy and have the potential to hurt and help and change your life and being romantic is just one possible aspect of that. aromantic people want to be close to the people around them just like anyone else. and i know the real issue is that people think romantic relationships are the only way to be truly close to someone else but it's weird and off-putting to constantly hear the implication that aros are somehow fundamentally incapable of forming relationships that would impact their lives negatively cause they don't wanna go on dates with people. not even mentioning the aros who do

[knifearo]

wow what a great perspective that i had never considered before! i've never heard anyone say this! man! i really have to reevaluate my post now! It Has Become Clear To Me That People Don't Know How To Read And Parse Information From The Words In Front Of Them. So Instead I Would Like You To Devote Your Time To Learning The Invaluable Art Of Shutting The Fuck Up

[knifearo]

hell of a way to start a comment on a post about how people consistently misrepresent and don't go to the effort to understand aro people. who asked cause it sure wasn't me

[platoniromantic-feelings]

Why does every alloromantic feel like they have to explain alloromantic problems, as though we are not all living in a world saturated with their problems? Do they think that a-spectrum people live on a planet where amatonormativity isn't being shoved down our throats at every turn? The constant attitude of "Well, actually, our problems are harder than yours even though we rule the world and you are severely marginalised; lonely little aros don't understand how lonely it is to be alloromantic" is infuriating.

[nikobiko-reblogs]

Also what a slap in the face to aro/a-spec people who ALSO date and want that kinda connection

You know how hard that shit is, how isolating and confusing that can be when you don't experience what everyone else around you seems to but you want it so badly

[c0riiander]

my wife

[canondivergencemylove]

@kola-without-the-coke My wife

[eldr1tch-cr0w]

number one rule! never believe ur thoughts after 10 pm . unless its about The Character then believe all of your thoughts wholeheartedly

[nikobiko-reblogs]

@burnout-offical what plays in my mind when I spiral now cause of you

[audible-smiles]

the worst part of summer is that people get sooo comfortable expressing their disgust at having to see other people’s bodies. they’re always complaining about wrinkly old men at the nude hot springs or fat women in bikinis at the beach. I hate that shit. if you’re not capable of being normal about bodies you personally don’t find attractive, just turn your head to look at something else! and if you’re not smart enough to do that, then at least do the rest of us the courtesy of suffering in silence, because we don’t wanna hear your weird comments. thanks.

[ottoillustrates]

today i just (remembers to maintain privacy online) did something really cool. you have to trust me

[nikobiko-reblogs]

@canondivergencemylove

[canondivergencemylove]

NDBQBFWBFEGRUC

Fuck you/aff you know I do that TT

[loveridden1999]

[nikobiko-reblogs]

Giggling but also @canondivergencemylove

[ottoillustrates]

today i just (remembers to maintain privacy online) did something really cool. you have to trust me

[nikobiko-reblogs]

@canondivergencemylove

[sycamorality]

op disabled reblogs but i really wanted this post on my blog again

[did-sm1-say-catfish]

my favorite ship dynamic is when absolutely nothing changes when they finally get together. they just occasionally have sex and kiss or whatever.

[nikobiko-reblogs]

@canondivergencemylove I love tagging you in anything that reminds me of us

[selfproclaimedl]

a partner who leaves me hickeys out of habit and comfort, not lust. who nibbles and gnaws at my flesh because it eases their stress, because it makes them feel safe and at home. who finds comfort in knowing my body is theirs, and that im not leaving no matter how much they bite and chew.

[nikobiko-reblogs]

@canondivergencemylove me when I fuckin get you

[unifemme-deactivated20260407]

non sexual dominance is the best kind 😵‍💫😵‍💫 placing a hand on my back, holding my hand to guide me through crowds, telling me to eat/sleep, taking charge just ehehahr will melt every time

[selfproclaimedl]

a partner who leaves me hickeys out of habit and comfort, not lust. who nibbles and gnaws at my flesh because it eases their stress, because it makes them feel safe and at home. who finds comfort in knowing my body is theirs, and that im not leaving no matter how much they bite and chew.

[nikobiko-reblogs]

@canondivergencemylove me when I fuckin get you

[dizzy-pops]

“People who claim to be endogenic are misinformed about the nature of systemhood, have most likely buried their traumatic childhood memories, and are usually not just faking” AND “I don’t want endos or their supporters anywhere fucking near me,” are statements that CAN and DO coexist, btw

[sandersstudies]

Sick list of symptoms bro. Now try humanizing your behavior instead of pathologizing it.

[sandersstudies]

Pathologizing: Hey sorry I yelled at you. I have this ADHD symptom called RSD that makes me really sensitive.

Humanizing: Hey, I’m sorry that I blew up like that earlier. In the moment I felt really attacked and overwhelmed and I reacted badly, but I know you didn’t mean to offend me with what you said, so that behavior is on me.

[queer-asinfuckyou]

Because I just saw a post bitching about this one, I want to add: this post is saying that you need to take accountability for the way you hurt other people, even if it happens because of a symptom of your disability/illness. It's also saying that using terms (especially acronyms) that aren't common knowledge isn't a helpful way to explain yourself. It is NOT saying that you need to let people walk all over you because "your disability isn't an excuse."

If you're diabetic, you don't have to eat the honey glazed ham that will send you into a coma (their example). But you also can't yell at the person offering it and accuse them of trying to kill you. You can just say "thanks, but my body can't handle that kind of sugar intake, so I'll pass"

[ayin-me-yesh]

If you run over someone's foot with your wheelchair you still apologise