nobodysyndrome

!!Minors, please DNI!! 18+ blog for random stuff and controversial topics I'm starting to or trying to understand

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Intro Post

This account is owned by multiple entities but one system/collective. We are not diagnosed with DID/OSDD nor do we claim to have them. We're a trauma/stressgenic collective. If you fakeclaim or harass us, we will block you.

All our blog members are adults and we are not comfortable with minors interacting with us.

We do not always label posts with differentiations of creators. Some posts were just not posted when drafted so it may look like there's a short time between different creators' posts but it does not necessarily mean we actually switched that fast.

Members:

🗡️ - (she/he) - 25-40 - protector

🚫- (he/it + ask for neopronouns) - 19 - host/former protector

🤎 - (any pronouns) - ageless - protector/regulator

🩵 - (they/it) - ageless - introject of illeism

💔- (she/they) - ageless - protector

[Other members did not want to be listed on here. There are more of us sharing this account.]

Note: Most of the men in our collective have transgender experiences because our body was socially imposed as female (past tense because the assignment was in the past) but not all of us identify as transgender. (This will probably be relevant to our future queer-related posts.) Edit: Not using AGAB language anymore because we were just informed that it was stolen from the intersex community.

Content Warnings: [None yet but we do plan on talking about some difficult parts of mental health and controversial topics that we want to understand more of. We will add to the list as we post more. We may teeter on sounding like we are taking a side sometimes when trying to understand certain opinions but it does not mean all of us agree with it.]

DNI List: Fakeclaimers (this includes anti-endos) Pro-contact paraphiles + supporters Harmful "debaters" (people use "debate" as an excuse to insult or harass others who they disagree with) Extremely religious people (especially the biggest religion - please do not harass us with going to hell threats ._. You do you. It just makes us uncomfortable how pushy people can be.) Minors/anyone under 18

Some of us have different opinions about various different topics from each other but these ones are the ones we solidly agree on.

Please do not interact if you're a minor.

BYI and if we apply to your DNI, block us, we are...

Mixed opinions so some of this doesn't apply to every member.

Proship/darkship "middle-ish" (not really neutral bcuz neutral = completely don't give a fuck to us) - this means that we don't really give a damn of what people consume for themselves. However, we do not tolerate harassment towards people who get triggered by such content. (We will probably have a post about this at some point.)

Pro-endo and mixed origins - What right do we have to dictate what others can or cannot experience? We are not in their minds so even if it's hard for us to understand it, we can still learn to exist.

Anti-fakeclaiming / anti-harassment / anti-bullying - Don't care how cringey you think someone is or if you think they're faking, bullying and harassing is evil, in our opinion. You are just a bad person at that point.

Pro-self-diagnose as long as you've done a lot of research - In most cases, self-diagnosis is done from lots of research. Self-diagnosed people can accept if they were wrong about their suspicions but dictating that yourself is holding a double standard.

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Hot take: You can support someone else's identity without understanding the experience or knowing how it's like. Just because you don't understand it, doesn't mean the other person is faking it.

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My favorite number

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I hate the fiction ≠ reality argument

Because there are some holes. It doesn't apply to everyone, and even if it is a general statement, it dismisses a whole lot of people which I have problems with because this argument is usually used without thinking of any exceptions or nuances. Generally, I do agree that fiction does not equal reality but fiction can hurt people and hurting people is very much part of reality.

Yes, fiction does not affect the general reality of life. Consuming certain content does not mean you necessarily support it. Like how slasher horror fans don't necessarily support serial killers or how dark romance fans don't necessarily support abusive relationships.

But I still think that this argument is very stupid because it is used to dismiss people triggered by generally triggering content. Yes, it's their responsibility to look for spoilers/warnings and if they still look at the content, they are the ones putting themselves into harm but unfortunately, a surprisingly lot of people don't think trigger warnings are necessary or even, think warning people is stupid so if the people who get triggered by this kind of content stumble across content made by these people, of course, they're going to be upset.

Yes, the creators probably do not support these heinous acts. But it does affect reality in the way that it affects others' emotions and can hurt them a lot, even if the creators or enjoyers of the content feel a completely different way about it like feel comforted by it.

I am not entirely anti-proship (I'm including all the sub-categories) though as I don't think people should be judged by the fictional content they consume, especially since I know that they are highly likely not going to be supporting the real thing. However, I also am against people making fun of people who are triggered by anything under the umbrella of proship content, even if they're actively anti-proship. But same goes for that side. I'm just completely anti-harassment and anti-bullying.

I don't consume that content though because healthy relationships with actual non-forced chemistry type content is something I find comfort in, and really enjoy (since it's a rare find from my experience).

Gimme some demisexual romance media please. /nay /nbh No sex scenes until around 2 seasons/books in.

-🚫 (he/it)

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We've decided to instead tag posts with #minors dni or #mdni because we've realized a lot of adults probably have the mature content filter blocked too and we intend to reach others through this blog.

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Being called they/them is not always better

If you call someone that goes only by it/its pronouns by they/them instead, you still are disrespecting them.

Please stop doing this.

Same with if someone only goes by she/her or someone only goes by he/him pronouns or only goes by neopronouns.

Please stop doing this.

It's okay to use they/them if you forget but don't use it purposely just because you think it's a better pronoun to use for the other person. It's still invalidating to not use the pronouns they prefer and it's not yours to decide what pronoun is better for them. Not everyone is okay with you calling them by they/them pronouns when they specifically have stated they prefer otherwise. Pay more attention please.

-🚫(he/it)

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We forgot that we were going to mark all our posts as mature to prevent less minors from interacting us. This is the only non-mature post, besides our intro post.

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Our collective has varying views

Some of these views is each others' stance on endogenics. While some of us feel some negativity towards endogenic systems, we all agree that the anti-endo community would shatter us even if some of us agree with them on some things. By shatter us, I mean mentally and emotionally. Also, we aren't diagnosed with DID or OSDD so most of them wouldn't accept us anyways.

I'm not taking system responsibility for this though. Most members of our collective are stubborn and it's really hard convincing them. However, they have promised not to be mean, bully, try to dox, or harass other people they disagree with... unlike certain people with similar views to them... Please be responsible with your opinions.

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Gender fluidity rant by an Agender Man

Being trans is inherently fluid. Gender is inherently fluid. It's not always literally fluid either. Gender fluidity doesn't only include gender-fluid identifying people. It encompasses anyone who does not fit the standards of the solid binary society who thinks of gender and sex as one, and both as static, never moving or changing, which includes the experience of your gender being different than the sex assigned to you at birth. Being a gender other than the sex that you were assigned with is changing. Perhaps, you were always the gender you feel most comfortable as but even so, you probably had to change in order to become more comfortable in your body. You are expected to not do that in society. As we learn more and more about genders, and different genders, most people who are not stubbornly fixed in their position of ignorance acknowledge that gender is inherently fluid. It's complex and for some people, it always changes. For some other people, it changes then stops and decides. For others, it stays fixed.

If you think gender fluidity is just a trend, you don't understand the complexities of individuality and expression, and of the diversity of people.