Noah

21 | they/them he/him

[nonbinarynoah]

Pride month is coming up, so here are a few reminders:

❤ It's okay to be out, proud and loud

🧡 It's also okay to silently celebrate pride from within the closet

💛 It's okay too to not care about pride and not celebrate

💚 It's okay to use multiple labels

💙 It's also okay to remain unlabeled

💜 It's okay to dress more "wildly" or "colourfully" than you usually would

💖 It's okay to celebrate pride as a cishet passing lgbtq+ person (and bring your partner)

However, it is NOT okay to judge, exclude or discriminate against someone for the way they decide to celebrate, or not celebrate, pride month! This month is about solidarity, being proud of who you are and celebrating and remembering those who made sure we are where we are today, where we have a pride month that we can celebrate. So, this month (and every month after of course) be kind to one another. Happy Pride Month!

[robynngaeblack-deactivated20240]

it's Ramadhan tomorrow!!!

Have a great one my fellow brother and sisters!

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

to lovely humans who were excluded from invitations, left behind when they tied their shoes, forced to walk in the grass when the sidewalk was full, spoken over when you tried to contribute, whispered about or laughed at, given the side eye when you tried to fit in... you are so worthy of love and I’m sorry people have convinced you otherwise. I promise that your people are out there - people who will see the side of you others ignore, people who share weird inside jokes with you, give you affectionate nicknames and go to museums or roadtrips with you and fulfil whatever idea of friendship you’ve always fantasized about. even if you feel like an empty shell of your former self because you’ve hidden yourself away due to shame, this exterior will melt when you accept yourself or let people in and you’ll realize there was nothing wrong with you all along. you have interesting things to say, you deserve new chances and beginnings, your heart is probably made of gold because you know what it’s like to be left out in the cold, and you have so much to give. you are so worthy and someone’s idea of a friend too, and I hope you receive lots of hugs in the future from yourself and others because you’re so lovable.

[spartalabouche]

letting ‘cis’ people play with pronouns is one of the ways a lot of my friends have realized theyre nonbinary but also for ACTUALLY cis people its a fun way to express yourself and it normalizes ‘weird’ pronouns and pronouns that dont ‘match’ someones gender. and also like that includes straight people too. u dont have to be any sort of lgbt to use whatever pronouns you like its just words you use to express yourself

[nonbinarynoah]

Today is International Women's Day! So here is some extra love and recognition for:

Queer women

Trans women

Intersex women

PoC women

Disabled women

Neurodivergent women

Mentally ill women

Homeless women

Infertile women

Single mothers

Young mothers

And many others that are often overlooked. You are doing amazing, keep it up!

[heartcoded-deactivated20210417]

bitches hate when nonbinary genders cant be described in relation to the gender binary like im not a woman im not a man im absolutely nowhere in between im not on the same scale, im not even in the same book i do have a gender no i dont yes i do and it sounds like teenage manic bubblegum pop beneath the train tracks

[nonbinarynoah]

If you are transgender/nonbinary and decided to change your name, what is your name and why did you choose this name?

If you are transgender/nonbinary and decided not to change your name, why did you decide not to do so?

[nonbinarynoah]

I want to wish every disabled, neurodivergent and mentally ill lgbtq+ person a week full of love, happiness and peace of mind. You are fantastic and deserving of all the goodness this world has to offer.

[nonbinarynoah]

Not using a transgender person's pronouns is transphobic, and I'm pretty sure most people are aware of this and agree with it. However, what many people sadly seem to ignore is, this includes neopronouns, like xe/xem or ze/zir. Neopronouns are pronouns as well, and they are just as valid as he, she and they. If someone uses neopronouns, that's the pronouns you use for them, you can't just say "oh, I'll just use they/them instead". No. That's not acceptable. It's totally okay if you are unfamiliar with someone's pronouns or are unsure how to use them, but if that's the case, please just ask how to use them. There is no excuse not to use someone's pronouns (unless they're actually offensive), this isn't just limited to the conventional pronouns he, she and they. If you refuse to use neopronouns, you're being transphobic. It's time we address this issue.

[nonbinarynoah]

Sometimes, life is just really hard and you cannot imagine a future for yourself, or you just do not know how to get there. That's okay. If you can't imagine yourself or your future a year, month or week from now, it is totally fine to just take it day by day. And if a day is too long, just take things hour by hour. When an hour feels too long, just take it minute by minute. If all you can do is breathe, just breathe. It might sometimes not feel like it, but these moments will pass. You have an amazing future laying ahead of you, please stay to live it. You are not alone, okay?

[nonbinarynoah]

[nonbinarynoah]

What's your gay score?

Finger guns +5

Can't sit properly +20

Owns Vans or Converse for every pair +5

Addicted to iced coffee +10

Can't do maths +15

Can't drive +10

Has dyed hair +10

Listens to Girl in Red, Troye Sivan and/or Cavetown +15

Owns flannels +10

Writes like this: "sdhfhjdgvf", no caps ever or with many typos +5

Walks very fast +5

Has pronouns in bio +20

Isn't straight +100000

[nonbinarynoah]

Autistic nblw are wonderful and lovely 🌱

Autistic nblm are fabulous and magical 🌿

Autistic bisexual enbies are amazing and precious 🍀

Autistic pansexual enbies are stunning and fantastic 🌾

Autistic aspec enbies are phenomenal and awesome 🌵

Autistic transgender enbies are breathtaking and incredible ☘

Autistic enbies are just *chef's kiss* 🍃

[nonbinarynoah]

Autistic lesbian girls are fabulous and amazing 🌼

Autistic bisexual girls are lovely and incredible 🌹

Autistic pansexual girls are awesome and fantastic 🌺

Autistic aspec girls are wonderful and gorgeous 🌸

Autistic transgender girls are beautiful and marvellous 🌻

All autistic LGBTQ+ girls are absolutely the best 🌷

[nonbinarynoah]

These next few days are going to be hard for a lot of people, whether Trump wins or not, so here are a few important reminders.

- Your feelings are valid.

- It is okay to take a break from (social) media, it can be very positive for your mental health.

- Please don't forget to take care of yourself: get out of bed, drink something, eat something, brush your teeth, take a shower/bath, (safely) go outside etc.

- It is okay to cut contact with people because of who they voted for/support, you don't have to feel guilty about it.

- If you're from the USA, make an emergency plan. Make sure you have enough food, meds etc, so you don't have to leave the house in case it's dangerous.

- Please check up on your friends and family, we are all struggling at the moment.

- Even though it might not seem like it, these bad days won't last, please don't give up.

- You are loved, please don't forget that.

[nonbinarynoah]

Aspec struggles: not being able to pinpoint your identity because your normal is not seen as "normal" by society and you don't know what "normal" is supposed to be like

[nonbinarynoah]

I'm here to remind you that anyone can own, cuddle and sleep with a stuffed animal. There is no age limit on them. They are not inherently gendered. Owning one is not something people should be shamed for. Stuffed animals bring peace and comfort when needed. Some people will find these in other things, some in stuffed animals. Both are completely valid. Owning a stuffed animal does not make you weird, weak, childish, stupid or whatever. You should not have to be ashamed of them. It's time that we normalize owning stuffed animals for everyone.