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-TRIGGER WARNING- Hey all, this is my safe place to vent and express my inner most thoughts...I hope that I can help at least one person out there! Xx ❤️ Do you need some help?

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i wish life was a little better •

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I am in love with someone. No matter how hard I try, I cannot get over him. But he is deeply in love with someone else. They are not together, but he has never felt the way he feels about her with anyone else. I am always there for him, and give him relationship advice, but it breaks my heart. I already told him that I liked him a long time ago, but because he didn't feel the same way, I played off that I got over him. But I feel like I am decaying inside.

I was in this same situation when I caught feelings for a close friend of mine. I’d never felt what I was feeling before so I thought it was to be so I told them and that’s when it came crumbling down. What I thought was my perfect dream was not so much theirs and it took me a little while to realise this and eventually I had to severe myself from the situation with them or it was going to destroy me.

So my advice to you is that people can say oh you just need to forget about him but In reality you know that isn’t so easy to do. But it needs to be done in order for you to be able to repair yourself again and to move on successfully.

If you ever need to talk about this further, message me off anon and I would be more than happy to be there for you. Xx

All my love ❤

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so recently I was sick and had to take break from everything for about a month but when I came back I felt out of place/sync like cheer used to make me so happy but now I get nothing out of it and I want to quit. I don't even enjoy the fandoms I'm in anymore and fandoms are usually my safe haven. I don't know what to do.

It’s okay to feel out of place after you’ve had an upset to your normal routine and until your mind readjusts back to this it might be a bit different. It’s a good idea to try and keep yourself occupied with things, so maybe try a new hobby or find a book you like a read it front to back. Pick a project and set a goal to finish it and this way your mind can refocus itself.

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I've been inactive awhile and thought I should try and get back into a regular pattern again. I had to take a break to get myself together, and I know you will all understand, howeverI do apologise for just vanishing but I'm back now. Feel free to message me with any of your questions or concerns a snap I will do my absolute best to help you out xx All my love ❤

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So I was really self conscious until a little while ago, and I found this guy and omg does he make me feel good. But I'm scared he'll break me. Help??

Don’t be scared of something that may never happen! Enjoy the moments that you have been blessed with that so mamy people long for and allow yourself to get every little thing out of them possible. Xx

Sending my love

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i'm a lesbian. my family is very supportive. i'm not out at school, but i'm already getting bullied about it at school. i believe no one should be ashamed of who they are but i don't know how i'm going to do it at school. i'm tired of being called a faggot and a dyke every day but i know i am receiving a high quality education. any advice?

Just be you and nothing else should matter. Don't allow outsiders to hinder your inside feelings. Please never feel like you have to change just to fit in because you don't! Sending my love Xx (Sorry I've been inactive things have been a little hard for me lately but I'm gonna try and help as many of you as I can)

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I feel really self conscious about myself, the way I look, the way I speak ect, do you have any advice on loosing weight easy, I can't do much exercise because I've got bulging dics in my back but any ideas on how !?

tbh I’m not the person to ask about how to lose weight I am the most self conscious person you will ever find and my weight is a big factor into that Although I don’t see myself as being dangerously overweight, I’m not thin and I never liked the fact that I wasn’t thin

However I came to terms with the fact that I was never going to be thin and that was okay because I was my own kind of beautiful and that’s all I needed to be

As long as you aren’t dangerously overweight then you don’t need to lose weight just to look like something that you don’t need toWeight doesn’t define beauty Beauty doesn’t define a person

Listen to your heart hunny not your eyes X

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So I'm involved in a lot of activities at school and stuff. At first I did it cause just cause I liked it, and I still do! But now I realize I don't know what I would do without them. I would just sit at home and want to scream all the time. It seems like I never want to do anything now, but when I have any free time I just think and get sad. How do I figure out who I am aside from the activities? Without losing everything I've worked so hard for?

Being involved in activities is a good thing!

I went through a stage where I was in many activities and then got really sad and withdrew myself from all of them and this was a bad move because I never got the motivation to get back into them

What you need to do is continue to do your activities and it is good for you physical and mental health; you are being stimulated.

Always do what is best for you and what makes you happy and if that is doing the activities then don’t question yourself. The only person who always knows best is you!

Sending my love Xx

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i'm lesbian, i love my friend but she isn't like me. Nobody knows that, I'm so alone

You are never alone X

Your feelings are normal and your sexuality is a way of life and if you have feelings for your friend the only things you can do is either chase them or not. You will never know unless you try…

Good luck and sending you all my love Xx

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i want to die but i'm holding onto myself for my sister and boyfriend. i know it will kill them if i do it. last December i tried and almost died and it killed everyone. then i met my boyfriend and when i'm with him i feel safe but i feel so lonely all the fucking time. i just need someone to talk to that isn't close to me

Never feel like you’re alone there is always someone who is willing to talk may it be a family member or professional Please reach out and get the help that you need and deserve because nobody deserves to feel the way that you do, nobody…

I give you all my love hun never stop living X

Why did you start following me?

Do it on anon or not. I’m really curious about why you started following my blog.

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last year i tried to kill myself on December 15. i spend 2 days in an icu and then 11 days and 12 nights in a psych ward. and i fell hopelessly in love while i was there. he left before i did and then we talked here and there. now we've been dating for the past two months and i want to say i love you but i don't want to be rejected if he doesn't feel the same way since we've only really been together for two months. what do you think i should do ?

Just go for it…you will never know the answer if you don’t try.

What you need to do is tell him that you don’t want your relationship to be hurt by the conversation and if he is a true friend he will understand X

I wish you luck and hope everything turns out well for you now X

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How do I get over the thought that everyone is going to leave me and that I will never be anyone's first choice? I have friends and they are all wonderful but I can't ignore this feeling that no one ever picks me they just deal with me. Any advice?

What you need to do is surround yourself with positive things that will allow you to feel welcome Xx I had the same problem where I was always the last person on there mind and sometimes this can be a good thing and a lot of the times it just makes you feel like crap. But what you need to do is make the decision that is right for you…either stay surrounded by friends who put you last, or find people who put you first!

I did this and I have never been better, and I have the utmost faith that you can do it as well!

Good luck and never feel like you are alone because I am always here X

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I'm so quiet, people forget my existence.

Me too..

You can always message me when you’re down, I’m always up for a chat Xx