Things I believe about Jaehaerys, Alysanne and their children (tw:mention of SA):
This is a super unpopular opinion, but to me Aemon and Baelon felt like they were secretly a couple, at least at some point of their lives. Maybe after getting married they were loyal to their partners, or have an open marriage, I don't really know. But while reading about them, it always felt kinda gay
Due to her upbringing and the fact her mom protected her so much as a child, Alysanne is painfully oblivious about a lot of stuff. Like, she not being aware of the First Night right still being practiced. She also does not know that people can be LGBTQ+ , to her everyone is straight. This explains why she did not know Rhaena is a lesbian or Vaegon is aroace. It never even crossed her mind the possibility of he could be gay, which I think it would be the first thing a mother would assume when she notices her son is not interested in women
Jaehaerys maritally raped Alysanne
Alysanne cheated on Jaehaerys with Alaric Stark
Jaehaerys constantly cheated on Alysanne with lots of women
Jaehaerys used the right of the First Night at least once
Alyssa was jealous of Vaegon, because she wanted to do things considered "for men" and she was not allowed to participate. Vaegon was a guy who could have done all the activities she could not, and yet he chose not to, which irked her
Jaehaerys molested at least 3 of his daughters: Saera, Viserra and Gael
After getting pregnant for the 10 time, something in Alysanne broke and this is why she is taking her frustrations on her daughters
Alysanne disliked Viserra and arranged her marriage out of spite. The reasons why Alysanne did not like her daughter may be: A-Out of jealousy. Like when some mothers instead of getting mad at their partners for sexually abusing their children, they take their side and then victim blame the children. B-Alysanne was projecting her relationship with Jae onto Baelor and Alyssa, so Viserra "getting in their way" made her a target of her mom's anger for "breaking the illusion". C-Alysanne had blue eyes and honey-blonde hair, meanwhile Viserra looked every bit Valyrian, with purple eyes, silver hair, white skin and she is described as "a grace that was somehow eerie and unsettling in one so young" , and she wanted to be a queen, so Alysanne did not like the idea of a "younger and more beautiful" girl taking her place, just like Cersei. D-Alysanne was taking out her frustrations on Saera in Viserra. Maybe it was a mix of all of them
Viserra was not planning on "having a last night of fun" the night she died, she was trying to escape
Furthermore, all the people who tried to help Viserra escape were silenced
The younger children did not have dragons because it was a way for Jaehaerys to exert control over them, especially the women, so they could not run away. Vaegon is the only man who has not dragon because he was brave enough to stand up to both of his parents in front of the court and he is also really intelligent. Jaehaerys probably did not feel comfortable giving him such a weapon, because if there was one of his sons who could become a threat to Jae, it would be Vaegon
Gael's baby's father was Jaehaerys
At the end of her life, Alysanne secretly regretted and resented her marriage with Jaehaerys
In his last months of life, Jaehaerys felt guilt over how he had treated his daughters
