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people are allowed to leave you. people are allowed to break up with you. people are allowed to love you but not want to be with you. people are allowed to not want to talk to you. people are allowed to put their happiness before yours and do what makes them happy even if it does not include you. people are allowed to move on from you. people are allowed to fall in love with someone else. people are allowed to not want you in their life. people are allowed to do whatever they want to better themselves and become the version of themselves they are trying so hard to love. don’t be bitter towards someone who is only trying to be happy.

stilljewelss

I feel like this POV does not get enough voice.

earthlingmag-blog

quotemadness

“I think about you. But I don’t say it anymore.”

— Marguerite Duras

bnmxfld

“I just want you to know there will be a piece of you in me, always.”

— Spike Jonze / Her (via bnmxfld)

nothing-good-after2am

Maybe life is giving little pieces of ourselves away and replacing them with bits of the people we’ve loved

quotemadness

“It’s a frightening thought, that in one fraction of a moment you can fall in the kind of love that takes a lifetime to get over.”

— Beau Taplin

Fun flashback to when I was 22 and still adjusting to being gay and didn’t realize the level of problematic it was the my best friend who was married would come sleep in my bed so we could spoon even though she had her own bed and we would hold hands/thighs in the car.

Idk how it wasn’t blantently obvious that this was not Friend Behavior but anyway RIP to that friendship and also my innocence cause if I’d had the level of confidence I do now things would have gotten much messier

#looking back everyone probably thought we were fucking #which is awkward because we werent even #tho 10/10 still would if she werent married to a man #mine

One tattoo closer to achieving my full fledged homosexual form

#face #me #tattoo #girls with tattoos #if youre my ex i feel bad for you girl

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shushtaouk

The more we’re advancing in this timeline the less fucks AOC is giving and I’m endlessly here for it

snommelp

So, I’ve been pulled over a few times in my life. Not many, but a few. And I’ve also been in a couple of cars that got pulled over. And let me tell you, if you were actually doing something wrong, the officer doesn’t make any small talk, just straight into “I clocked you doing 70 in a 55.” The only time I’ve ever gotten the “do you know why I pulled you over?” was the time when I wasn’t doing anything wrong, and I got let go even though he insisted to the end that I was doing 87 in a 70 (white privilege at work).

“Do you know why I pulled you over?” is a trap. It means there’s a good chance the officer doesn’t actually have a good reason to ticket you, and is trying to get you to waive your 5th Amendment rights and incriminate yourself. If you make a guess, that’s a confession of guilt.

But there’s another trap, that I’ve heard of but haven’t yet experienced. It’s “do you know how fast you were going?” With that one, they’re hoping you’ll say no, because then they can name whatever speed they want – you just said you didn’t know how fast you were going, if you deny the speed they name then you’re lying to them.

themightytej

Oh, I’ve had that one. Go with “yes.” Don’t give them a number, just say “Yes.” Then they still have to offer a number and you can deny it without contradicting yourself. They could just ask you, at that point, but that’s suspiciously similar to saying they don’t know, and they tend to avoid doing that.

fattyatomicmutant-deactivated20

Reblog to save a life

suspiciouslysharklike-deactivat

if you scroll past this just because it doesn’t affect you personally, i see you.

dovewithscales

Also, you can always go to court and contest a ticket, and a lot of times you’ll win. Or if the cop thinks you’ll win they won’t even show up and you’ll win by default.

They like to target out of state plates because anyone who would be majorly inconvenienced by a court date two months away is a lot more likely to just pay it.