Nothing too deep

Anxiety and Wisdom

[nothingtoodeep]

I want to watch movies with you And laugh at silly things And eat pizza And talk about books and philosophy And laugh some more at more silly stuff

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

playlist of feelings

the calming effect of a hot shower.

accidentally breathing some water into your nose. 

wanting to do art but avoiding it.

feeling like you’re not good enough. don’t know where to start.

seeing amazing art everywhere by people younger than you.

exams are coming up but having no motivation to study.

completely lost about the future.

crying from nostalgia when hearing a song you knew from when you were small and thinking about that memory.

frustrated at your brain for limiting your life.

a foggy feeling in your head. a mix of vagueness, calm dread, frustration, and quiet apathy.

[nothingtoodeep]

If you are a mother, never ever ever say ‘You need to watch your weight’ to your child, no matter what’s her age. There’s nothing more emotionally devastating than the person who gave you birth being unhappy with the way you look. If you are a mother, it’s your job to see that your child learns to love herself, it’s your job to see that your child forms a healthy perspective about the female body, it’s your job to see that she learns to not let people’s opinion about her body affect her, it’s your job to see that she learns to nourish and nurture her body, and most importantly, if you are a mother, it’s your job to learn to be proud of your own body and set an example for your child

Motherhood&Feminism (via nothingtoodeep)

[nothingtoodeep]

fuck wow how my brain constantly finds new reasons to be sad

[siirimaria]

[nothingtoodeep]

things i’m never going to be able to do-

not have anxiety

read all the books i want to read

speak that beautiful foreign language with native fluency

play that instrument well

write a Pulitzer-winning novel

direct an Oscar-winning film

make the person i’m in love with love me back

not die

[nothingtoodeep]

be kind?

be kind. not in a way that’s only passive and you try to help someone when they ask you for help. but be actively kind. the kind where you see a distress post and message that person ‘i care. you rock’. The kind where you try to talk to a friend less cuz you know your best friend has a crush on him. The kind where you lend your deathly hallows necklace to your friend after losing the intercollegiate HP quiz cuz you know she cared more about it than you did. The kind where you earnestly tell someone they look amazing when their face is filled with zits cuz it’s a big day for them and they’re worried about looking good. The kind where you are aware of someone else enough to send them an ‘is everything okay’message. the kind where you care enough about someone else than who you’rr directly benefitting from to send them a ‘you got this’ in the morning. the kind where you care about someone else’s anxieties, complexes, and internal conflicts so much that they don’t affect you, and you’re able to help the person in a way that is actually good for that person.

[nothingtoodeep]

do you ever feel that the person you’re in love with is never going to love you back

[nothingtoodeep]

i can't find things that make me happy anymore

anxiety

[cappuccinocake]

I WANT THAT PERSON TO TEXT ME ALL THE TIME. AND WANT ME AND LOOK AT ME. AND TALK TO ME ABOUT THEIR DAY

[nothingtoodeep]

if you’re finding yourself unhappy on a regular basis, quit all the things and people and spaces that are making you sad before you harm yourself

moving is scary and risky, but it’s safer than you harming yourself. get away from everything and everyone that’s stopping you from being happy with yourself. change your environment asap. nothing is more important than your well-being. i and many other people here care for you.

[nothingtoodeep]

Forgive them. Even if they're you.

late evening

[cappuccinocake]

“I’ll love you when you’re busy worrying about how no one does.”

[nothingtoodeep]

If it hurts you to be around them, get away. No matter how much you love them, no matter how much they love you, no matter if they consider you a friend, no matter what. Directly, indirectly, externally, internally, if it's hurting you in any way, keep distance. You owe that to yourself.

evening wisd

[nothingtoodeep]

Do you give advice on what to do about crushes etc?

I don't. But I could tho.

[nothingtoodeep]

You're always going to be the one to care more, to love with reckless abandon, to give more than you'll ever get. Learn to be okay with that. Come to terms with the way you love. Acceptance will make it hurt less.

afternoon wisd

[cappuccinocake]

An experiment to spread self-love in place of a post about self-hate.

Reblog and make yourself write things you like about yourself and finish your post with “i’m worthy af even without all those things. i like myself and i love myself”. And then tag your people. It may take efforts to actually make yourself think about what’s positive about you, but i urge you to do it. No matter how fake it sounds to you right now, type it out. Fake it! if you will.

[nothingtoodeep]

i can dance pretty well. i paint well sometimes. i like my smile. i’m worthy even without all thses things. i like myself and i love myself.