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there are too many movies. lets start by getting rid of christopher nolan
where to upgrade social battery. where to buy larger social battery. how to attach multiple social batteries. how to hang out with all your friends without getting tired. how to hang out with everyone you wanna hang out with without burning out. infinite social energy hack. nap tips
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don't shave your legs this summer HOLD THE FUCKING LINE
the hair literally makes you less sticky
if you're about to reblog this post seeking approval for shaving your legs, please close the tab containing this post and go watch a gillette ad or smth cause you're not gonna get it from me
What's a book written by a woman that changed your life or that you consider a classic? Any genre, any language.
I think that ancient peoples had trampolines and razor scooters but they were extremely reserved and somewhat shy about them
It really says something that a lot of monogamous people consider polyamorous and aromantic to be "opposites" but every polyam person I know took one look at aromantics and said "they're just like me for real"
Poly folks x aro folks in the sense that "alloromantic heterosexual monogamous people view love and sex as an entirely different entity than me, and that makes life kinda strange"
official aro-polyam solidarity post
also there are plenty of aromantic people in polyamorous relationships anyway, because polyamory doesn't demand romantic love (or sex), there are so many kinds of love and like
Higgledy-piggledy unparliamentary green parrots quarrel outside in the trees
Squawking out epithets uncomplimentary Squads of unmannerly Oversized peas.
“Do dishes” and “take out trash” both require the use of a spell slot, vs “use phone” is a cantrip, and brother, I am a level one wizard
perks of writing:
its fun
i can do literally whatever I want
cons of writing
i just forgot the word "passenger" and had to search for "cargo synonym referring to a person"
we need a ritual where you can climb into a hole in the ground for roughly 24 hours and just close your eyes and not do anything, and nobody is allowed to look for you or speak your name, and whenever you want to reemerge then you can climb back out and people are forbidden from commenting on your absence. can someone get on this.
I need my weird alone time or I will explode
Ideal work schedule:
I show up and am given a list of cognitively engaging but achievable tasks
I complete the list
I leave immedietly
Something that annoys me is the constant whining about "more queer spaces, more queer communities" but then they're immediately like "yeah! And we need ones that don't cost money or require a purchase!"
Girl that's exactly why they close down after a year. You NEED money to keep these places open. There's no magic Gay Money Pot with endless cash to keep these places open. It requires YOU to put your money where your values are!!
Like there was a queer coffee shop in my city. Owned and operated by a bunch of LGBT people. Not a cishet on the schedule. Tons of young people raved about it.
And it made it about 2 years before shutting down completely. Because all those young people who begged for a place exactly like this would just show up, not buy a single thing, and leave. You cannot build a community without putting your money into it. This isn't about capitalism, this is just reality. You can't open a restaurant where no one buys your food. You can't have a gay bar that only serves 5% of the population and actively excludes everyone else. This is what I mean when I say people confuse "community" and "friend group." You're not obligated to spend money when hanging out with your friend group. But if you want a lasting community centered space, you need to open up that wallet.
...it kind of is about capitalism though and how capitalism killed third spaces. Yes bars and coffee shops and clubs need money, and there is a difference between friend groups and community; but also there used to be places that were not a business to go.
If capitalism didn't make it so the only option was "spend money at a business or don't exist in public" then a ton of people who don't have money to spend would have other places to go and be able to organize meet ups for free at those spaces.
People need third spaces and they don't exist anymore, as a result of capitalism, and acting like everyone is just being entitled brats, instead of the queer community having poor economic outcomes across the board, and facing large amounts of hostility in many public spaces combined with a lack of third spaces overall making a ton of people treat the very few non hostile areas as third spaces (something that's common in every community, cis hetro folks treat startbucks as a third space too) is ignoring pretty much every driving factor of the problem.
Idk how to tell you this, but "third spaces" have always needed money and resources and this fact pre-dates the invention of capitalism.
Churches run on tithes, because they need money to maintain the building and services.
Ye olde pub still needed to sell drinks and food to stay open. This is true in 2026, and it was true in 1600.
To a lesser extent, public parks still need tax money. You don't pay at point of service, but the resources have to come from SOMEWHERE. Someone has to maintain the grass and walking trails and playground equipment.
People keep trying to "WELL ACTUALLY ☝️" this basic and irrefutable fact. These spaces need resources, aka money. You can have fun fantasizing about a future post-money utopia, but we don't live in that world so can we please keep it focused here.