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the impulse to hide what I'm doing at my computer still sits so deep even tho I'm literally never looking at anything objectionable , the door will open and I'll hurry to close the page like oh fuck no one can know I'm looking at the Wikipedia page for the Balkans
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to people checking my following --
no, i will not state my opinions on politics or any kind of discourse publicly.
however, you should know i often follow people i disagree with just for exposure to different opinions, to keep myself informed on the latest tense topics, or sometimes just to laugh to myself at things i find stupid.
i don't like starting fights or drama but let me have that. think before you block me for following someone. i might not like 'em either.
me, coming out: hey i have DID and we switch all the time whilst people around us are entirely unaware - we all act as one person to blend as much as possible - so you wouldn’t know we’re any different unless we introduced ourselves individually to you ^^; *hoping they’ll be okay with us introducing ourselves individually eventually*
someone, trying to be supportive and accepting and ‘looking past the disorder’ but missing the point: i don’t see you as any different! you’re all the same to me! :)
questions for systems who have jobs:
do your coworkers know you’re a system? if so, how did you tell them–and how did they react? if not, how do you cope with having to present as a singlet (especially if you’re an overt system)? and regardless, how does being multiple affect how you work?
I have DID, and I am relatively overt, but none of my co-workers know I have DID. I am particularly concerned about discrimination so I keep my diagnosis to myself. However, for some things that are relevant to work, I’ll tell my coworkers/supervisors that I have a disability that effects my memory. A few of my co-workers have PTSD and/or ADHD and that can be similar.
Usually people will make their own reasonings for you acting inconsistently. A lot of the time it’s way more obvious to people who know you better than it is to people who don’t, like coworkers. I don’t have issue acting like myself and don’t pretend to be anything I’m not.
Despite there being laws in place that are supposed to prevent discrimination based on disability, unfortunately it still happens, so I would be hesitant to let supervisors etc know that I have a very stigmatized disorder, especially if my income depends on them thinking I’m reliable.
While we’re currently unemployed, we’re rather over as well. Accents, different ways of dressing, radically differing opinions… All of it.
When we did have a job, we… Didn’t hide anything. Now, to be clear, we also didn’t mention that we had DID. Discrimination is enough of an issue without bringing that into it.
However, people really are less likely to notice than you’d think. Once you’re aware of something, you start looking for it. But, if someone seems more aggressive/easily upset for no reason, you don’t jump to “oh it’s another person” but instead “oh they’re upset because they had a bad day, or woke up wrong, i shouldn’t pry”. It’s a different set of circumstances.
The accents, if you have them, can usually be explained away easily as well. “Sorry, I spent all day yesterday binge watching sherlock / listening to british podcasts” is an example that most people immediately just… accept. Which is hilarious because you can extend that to any accent, including new ones, and just say you pick them up easily and got stuck in that one because you listened to it for too long.
Currently, we’re unemployed, but work on commissions. Friends know we have DID, as do people who find us from this account, but if you looked at our DA, FA, Twitch, etc, you’d find it remarkably empty of any mention of DID as well. It’s just not worth the hassle, for us. But, trying to present as a single person is also too much hassle, and honestly, it tends to give the opposite result of people finding you strange at minor changes. That’s just our experience, however.
We have DID, and we’re decently covert except for accents. We’ve worked several different jobs and have a current job, and only ever told one manager. We were having an extremely hard time with a persecutor and had no way to explain it away with how exhausted we were, and we were at the point of crying so we just told her. We asked how much she knew about DID first, and she said she had just learned a lot about it. We told her. She didn’t treat us like separate people or a threat or an interesting project afterwards, just saying she hoped things got better for us and that if we needed anything she was there for us. We were closer to her after than we have been any manager and keep in touch. I don’t expect this is the average reaction. We’ve never told any other coworker. As for managing as a singlet, it’s easier than expected. DID is just not on most people’s raidar. When we forget task we were taught how to do they assume we’re pretty new and they just never taught us. We have an accent suddenly? We’re being silly and they should join in because it’s fun. We have a dress code so there’s no chance to dress differently. Even very heavy dissociation was explained with “I’m a bit slow today” which was met with “mood”. We have even referred to ourself as we on accident while people were watching and they figured we meant “we” the company we work for or “we” as in us and the person standing next to us. Just keep in mind, they’re probably not expecting a system or looking for it.
i have a job, and did pre-fusion as well. i was covert and still (while i am currently a one-person system i guess) am pretty covert in that it's not at all apparent i'm an animal alter. the fact that i have adhd is common knowledge among my coworkers and it's easily acceptable, so no one ever questioned my memory issues. the differences between the alters existing pre-fusion were very apparent if you knew me well but you wouldn't really see anything if you weren't looking for it. just "calmer" days and "wilder" days. i coped with the memory blackouts by using pluralkit and the journal channel on my private system discord server.
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favorite show is definitely Psych, i love shawn spencer so much and relate to him on a hella deep level
You wanna find out some personal shit?
1. Any scars?
2. Self harmed?
3. Crush?
4. Kissed anyone?
5. Coke or Pepsi?
6. Someone you hate?
7. Best Friends?
8. Have you ever done alcohol or drugs?
9. What’s your dream job?
10. Ever been in love?
11. Last time you cried?
12. Favorite color?
13. Height?
14. Birthday?
15. Eye color?
16. Hair color?
17. What do you love?
18. Obsession?
19. If you had one wish, what would it be?
20. Do you love someone?
21. Kiss or hug?
22. Nicknames people call you?
23. Favorite song?
24. Favorite band?
25. Worst thing that has ever happened to you?
26. Best thing that has ever happened to you?
27. Something you would change about yourself?
28. Ever dated someone?
29. Worst mistake?
30. Watch the movie or read the book?
31. Ever had a heartbreak?
32. Favorite show?
33. Best day of your life?
34. Any talents?
35. Do you wish you could ever start over?
36. Any bad habits?
37. Ever had a near death experience?
38. Someone I can tell anything to?
39. Ever lost a loved one?
40. Do you believe in love?
41. Someone you hate/Dislike?
42. Are you okay?
43. Relationship status?
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To newly discovered systems who are still questioning everything:
(Here's basically everything we wish we knew up front).
- However many alters your system has is fine. You don't have too many. You'll probably realize you have more than you originally thought as time goes on.
- It's really normal to have nonhuman alters.
- It's really normal to have fictives.
- Not every alter needs to fit into a specific obvious role. A lot of alters will probably fill more than one role in your system.
- Being the host doesn't mean you're the "real" person and they're YOUR alters.
- Being an alter doesn't mean you're not the "real" person. Everyone, even the host, is an alter too.
- Persecutors aren't evil and if you treat them like that, they'll just get more problematic.
- However often you switch is normal. If you switch multiple times an hour, great. If you don't switch for weeks on end, also great. That's how your system works and it's fine.
- Age is weird in systems. You can have adult alters who lack the maturity and ability to function like other adults. You can have littles who are able to make complex decisions. Don't assume what an alter is capable of based on their age without actually getting to know them.
- 99% of the time there's no benefit in having a formal diagnosis beyond validating YOU. A trauma and dissociation oriented therapist can help treat your symptoms without making a formal dx. In fact, you might be better off without having that dx on paper.
- You don't owe anyone proof that you're not faking it.
- Thinking that you're faking it is extremely common. If you have to worry about that, you're not faking it. You'd have to make the intentional, conscious decision to fake it.
- Not knowing who you are is common. Blurring together/ passive influence is really common.
- You can split again simply out of necessity; you don't always have to go through a new traumatic event to split.
- CSA isn't the only type of trauma that can result in DID. Any type of ongoing trauma in childhood can cause DID.
- "Is it normal if _____?" Probably. The experience of being/ having a system is incredible subjective and varied.
- There's a good chance your inner world is more or less a vivid daydream. It doesn't have to be like a literal place you "go" when you're not fronting. If it is, cool, but it doesn't have to be.
- Some systems have to intentionally create their inner world to aid in communication. Not everybody just has one automatically.
- At the end of the day, you are one person. In the long run it'll benefit you to remember that and not over-focus on all your differences because that can increase dissociative barriers among other things.
- You are collectively responsible for each other's actions and need to learn to work as a team, as much as you can.
- Yes switching during dreams is a thing.
- In-system relationships between alters is a thing and it's not weird. It's common.
- If you can't track down when and how everyone in your system split that's normal.
- You don't all have to be super distinct to be valid. It's normal for alters to have a lot in common/ to have overlapping traits. Again, you're all part of the same person.
- Alters having a different accent internally but not using it externally is a thing.
- Substances will affect switching and internal communication.
- If you all just use your physical birthday and don't celebrate individually that's fine. If some or all of you celebrate different birthdays/ significant dates that's fine.
- Sharing a romantic/ sexual relationship with a partner is fine and normal, but you also don't have to. However, you should work towards everyone in the system having some kind of positive relationship with your partner because it'll make things way easier.
- You don't owe it to anyone to tell who's fronting.
- If you don't even know who's fronting that's fine. It's normal to not always know.
- If your switches aren't obvious to anyone outside of you and you don't all act super different, that's normal. It's a covert disorder.
- Alters intentionally doing things to give themselves a sense of individuality is normal. Sometimes it's a coping mechanism. If you do things like develop your own handwriting on purpose, that doesn't mean you're faking.
- Dissociative amnesia can happen without switching. Sometimes it's all 100% you and your memory can still be crap.
ALSO FOR THE LOVE OF ALL THAT IS GOOD YOU DO NOT NEED TO FILL OUT A DETAILED CARRD AND TELL STRANGERS ALL OF YOUR PERSONAL INFO.
This is actually pretty quality really.
Also for the love of all that is good, if you DO make a caard, you DO NOT need to tell strangers each alter’s specific triggers. That is not information that needs to be told to strangers.
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