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no one to cry to ~ no place to call home ~
top 3 hobbies for young adults:
1. borrowing misery from future
2. carrying grief of the past
3. agonizing over the present
The hypocrisy of the fandom becomes very apparent when it comes to the Mary/Mulciber and James/Severus situations.
The facts are:
Mulciber attempted something on Mary that involved Dark Magic.
He DID NOT commit sexual assault. That's not Canon.
But the fandom invented sexual assault on his part in order to portray Mulciber (and, by being his friend, Severus) as evil.
James, on the other hand, DID assault Severus.
It was sexual assault.
He actually did it.
But the fandom does not care, because the victim is Severus and the perpetrator is James.
clois + foreshadowing
How can someone watch Smallville, a show about the start of the life of Superman mind you, and think even for a second Clark wasn't going to end up with Lois Lane the second she was introduced in season 4 episode 1 ????? Like it's a show about Clark Kent. He HAS to end up with Lois. As long as Clark Kent is destined to become Superman, he is also destined to love Lois, no matter who he loved in the past, he will always end up with her. Plus his relationship with Lana was boring and toxic. And I will die on this hill they both loved the version of the other they created in their mind, not the real person.
Like how did you watch the show and still ship Clana ? How do you still think that Clark loved Lana more than he loved Lois when he quite litteraly lost his humanity when she left him. When he saw Lois loving someone else in an alternative universe and said to her that it would never happen to them because he couldn't LIVE in a world where she didn't love him. He loved Lana but what he felt for Lois was way beyond love. She was his heart, his soul, his humanity.
And I'm convinced they loved each other since the very beginning but Clark was too obsessed with Lana to realize it and Lois just never said anything to save face. Clark discovered what it was to feel normal, to feel human, through his love for Lois, how could you think it was going to end up in any other way ???
And to conclude I will say that Erica Durance as Lois was PERFECT. Her Lois was gorgeous, strong, smart, and loved Clark so much. Nobody in this show loved him like she did, so fiercely, with so much devotion, having absolute trust in him. And Clark loved her just as much. Once he realized what he felt for her there was no going back, it was her and only her until the end of time.
So yeah OBVIOUSLY Clark Kent and Lois Lane were endgame. It's the whole point of their love story, they are endgame in every universe.
PS: lana and clark had negative chemistry, they gave absolutly nothing as a couple.
BUT Lois and Clark ???? Perfect, gorgeous, you could see the love and adoration in their eyes, in their touch and in their way of caring for each other.
#Snape
what are your headcanons on Severus as head of house? How do u think he acts towards snakes
I think there’s a very specific cognitive dissonance going on with Severus and Slytherin, because despite the fact that most Slytherin students come from wealthy pure-blood families and privileged social environments, I genuinely think Severus internalised the stigma against Slytherin as something deeply personal. Not just because of other students bullying him, but because authority figures —teachers included— repeatedly stood by and allowed that bullying to happen.
So I think in his mind, being a Slytherin became inseparable from being socially condemned, mistrusted and left unprotected. And yes, objectively speaking, a huge factor in why he suffered so much was poverty, social isolation and lack of protection or support systems. But trauma is not always rational. Trauma simplifies things emotionally. So I think Severus ends up associating a lot of that pain specifically with the identity of being a Slytherin. Which is why I think he becomes intensely protective of Slytherin students later in life. Not because he necessarily agrees with every single thing they do, but because in his mind they are children who, from the age of eleven, are already going to walk into Hogwarts with a target on their backs and assumptions made about them before they even open their mouths.
And unlike Slughorn, who desperately wanted approval from wealthy elites and influential families, Severus genuinely does not give a shit about social acceptance. He doesn’t care about being liked. He doesn’t care about networking. He doesn’t care about pleasing people. So I think part of his mentality becomes: “No one protected me. Fine. I’ll protect them.” And I think that’s also why his resentment toward Gryffindor runs so deep specifically. Because we never really see Ravenclaw or Hufflepuff students having personal issues with Snape. The hostility is overwhelmingly tied to Gryffindor, the house associated with the people who abused him and the institutional bias that protected them.
Especially considering that Dumbledore himself was a Gryffindor, McGonagall was a Gryffindor, the school culture clearly favoured Gryffindor students in many ways, and the Marauders were essentially treated like mischievous golden boys despite repeatedly crossing lines that would absolutely be considered abusive. So from Severus’s perspective, Gryffindor represents not bravery or heroism, but a system that rewarded charismatic cruelty while dismissing his suffering. And I think that deeply shaped how he approached teaching.
Honestly, I think Severus was emotionally distant but structurally protective. I do not think he was the kind of teacher students went to crying about personal drama. I think that would make him deeply uncomfortable. He’s emotionally repressed, highly guarded and extremely rigid with boundaries. Especially because he started teaching so young —the age gap between him and some students was tiny at first— so I think he intentionally built very thick professional walls from the beginning. There is always a line: He is Professor Snape first, everything else second. But at the same time, I absolutely think his students knew that if they were genuinely being treated unfairly, he would go to war for them. Not in a warm or nurturing way. Not in a soft, emotionally available way. But in a very harsh, almost paternalistic way rooted in trauma.
Like the type of parent who publicly defends their child with their life, then privately tears them apart afterward for behaving like an idiot. That’s exactly the energy Snape gives me. Publicly? “My students did nothing wrong.” Privately in the common room? “You absolute morons, do you have any idea how stupid that was?”
And honestly, I think he valued effort more than likability. Outside of obvious exceptions like Harry and his immediate circle —because Harry was psychologically triggering to him in ways that completely compromised his objectivity— I actually think Severus was relatively fair academically. Demanding? Absolutely. Strict? Definitely. Harsh? Constantly. But I think he respected intelligence, discipline, talent and hard work. If a student genuinely applied themselves, I think he respected that regardless of whether he liked them personally.
And that’s why I think his students probably experienced him as emotionally inaccessible but fundamentally reliable. Not someone you cry to, not someone you seek comfort from, but someone you know will stand between you and injustice if it really matters.
procrastinator and perfectionist call that uh… suicidal
Being sick at the thought of doing something that is not perfect while believing perfection cannot be achieved but still expecting it from myself in everything that I do, which lead to procrasting because I know it will never be perfect but then having to do it last minute and rushing and doing a shit job (in my unreasonable standard) ? Yeah, I have never known peace
The only thing I understand is that if you want to win a war, you need Severus Snape on your side. You can be winning and then fuck things up with him so badly that he turns against you, and suddenly —boom— you’ve lost. If you don’t have him, you’re screwed.
Remember when Theo said Scott "he's sixteen and in love, first love, do you remember what that's like?"
Yeah, may i remember you that Theo probably does not remember first love, or being in love, or being sixteen, or fifteen or ten even?
May I remember you that Theo only remember manipulation, torture and pain?
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Tbh my sudden weird attachment to Snape shoudn't have felt that strange and coming out of nowhere to me considering I grew up loving (and I'm mean LOVING like I would die defending them) Sasuke Uchiha, Theo Raeken and Zuko.
Like at this point give me anyone with a shitty childhood, irredeemable sins and some kind of redemption arc and let me love them in peace because that's visibly the only thing I'm drawn too.
Plus it's not even like it's their fault most of the time. They are just doomed by the narrative from the start. They just need a little bit of love and help that's it really.
feeling like an academic flop will have you randomly thinking shit like You’ve Betrayed And Destroyed Yourself For Nothing and it’s like Ok girl tone it down it’s not that serious
Meet the Young Marauders!
James "Don't make me hex you, Evans" Potter
Sirius "I wish it was a full moon" Black
Peter *cheerleader for absolutely no reason* Pettigrew
Remus *ignores/avoids his prefect responsibilities* Lupin
And they're queer feminists who fight Dark Arts!!
the pure of heart do not require a "car" and "driver's license" to travel
how dare you assume that i hate harry james potter because i hate his dad. No bitch i hate JAMES POTTER not HARRY james POTTER.
My sweet summer child has always been way better than his dickwad dad i won his custody over james potter he is my son don't you dare come at my boy.
In this household we love Harry (and his two cute besties) they are my children i birthed them myself
“Snape would have sexually harassed Harry if he was a girl!” Now where did you get this shit from? Did the voices tell you this?
They want to villainize him so bad that they start hallucinating.
If Harry had been a girl with red hair, Snape would have avoided her like the plague. Like the guy wouldn't have been able to look at her without trying to kill himself on the spot. That's obvious, I don't understand how anyone can come to a different conclusion.