YourAverage Confused Kin

A demonkin/celestialkin/divinekin that's just trying to find their place in the world...I have made a Carrd by the way! https://otherkinteavibes.carrd.co

[stjoangerard]

glad gerard is still on his catholic imagery fixation

[mysillycomics]

[planetquest]

[mysteriousgirlatlibrary-deactiv]

[otherkinteavibes]

Okay but. Literally.

[toastbutteregg]

[pistolbythehand]

[tastefullyoffensive]

[otherkinteavibes]

Drink Idea!!

FIrst up, I’m so sorry - I absolutely suck at being active!!! Haha

Second... I had a really cool drink idea the other night. I was thinking, what if for like a ghoulish drink, you made like a lime soda or something and put bubble tea pearls in it. You could somehow maybe turn the pearls into little eyeballs and put that into the soda, with maybe a few other floating bits, and put edible fake blood around the rim of whatever glass you’re serving it in!

[otherkinteavibes]

Hi there, i've been having a dilemma recently. ever since a young age i've felt extremely connected to wolves and deer in a way i can't describe, like i am one? and i'm not sure if i'm a therian or just a furry.

Hello! ^^ Being extremely connected with something is different than being kin with it, though there is always the possibility of being that kintype. Especially if you feel like you are one of those animals. I, for example, have always been weirdly obsessed with demons and just happen to also be demonkin. Whether the obsession is because of that or not, I don’t know. If you feel like you are a wolf or a deer, then you are mostly likely a therian of one of those types. There are a few different ways (probably more than a few actually) that you can go about finding out your identity. This can include journalling your feelings, especially when you feel connected to those animals the strongest. You can meditate as well as journalling - there are some great guided meditations out there. On top of that you could do pendulum readings or tarot readings, maybe. Go look around the community and I’m sure you’ll find a few other ways to do things, but of course - take breaks when you need to. Don’t stress too much about it, and if you end up being a wolf and or deer therian - then cool! You know something about yourself!

[otherkinteavibes]

How do know your Kin type? or is just Kin? I'm curious

Many people would say: Introspection. (And yes it’s referred to as kintype ^^)

I, too, would say that haha This means journaling your thoughts and feelings (specifically if you think they might be related to a kintype), putting down feelings that might correlate to a specific kintype etc etc... There are some great blogs I’ve found for these sorts of things (If I can find them I’ll make a post lol)

Thankyou for asking though, and I hope this helps somewhat <3

[otherkinteavibes]

Oh-no guys I made a new discovery

I... my god. Recently kinfirmed myself as also being monsterkin... I mean it’s not surprising but you know...

[lambsprout]

“and the universe said…”

[otherkinteavibes]

so cute!!!

[3for3oliver3]

[otherkinteavibes]

<3

[ohcorny]

happy pride fuck the police

happy pride fuck the police

[jayray01]

happy pride fuck the police

[salemruinseverything]

happy pride fuck the police

[low-poly-yuri]

happy pride fuck the police

[ainosukes-sadism]

happy pride fuck the police

[shipsarebeautiful]

Happy pride frick the police

[tiredartkid69-deactivated202302]

Happy pride fuck the police

[this-mess-of-a-man]

Happy pride fuck the police

[bluevampirebaby]

happy pride fuck the police

[sticksmustdie]

happy pride fuck the police

[xiaoility-deactivated20210623]

happy pride fuck the police

[wheredidthepeepeego-mp3]

happy pride fuck the police

[u-p-t-h-e-w-o-l-v-e-s]

happy pride fuck the police

[wilbursasthma]

happy pride fuck the police

[theafterlifeofthepartyxx]

happy pride fuck the police

[boy-in-the-stars]

happy pride fuck the police

[otherkinteavibes]

happy pride <3 fuck the police

[queenjulia24]

HOLD UP HOW WAS I NOT AWARE OF THIS

[lichpire]

was gonna leave my comment in the tags but tbh i’m silent enough about this as it is.

seeing stuff like this is so upsetting because these terms were well known and widespread in the ace community but because of exclusionists many people stopped using terms like this because they felt uncomfortable and unsafe.

i loved these terms when i was in highschool, i loved the feeling of community, but i lost that because i didn’t feel comfortable openly and proudly calling myself asexual.

they’ve hurt so many people and damaged our community badly and i will never forgive them for that. we deserve to use our own terminology and feel safe within our community.

[atasteforsuicidal]

sometimes i notice i haven’t seen “grace” (grey-ace) in a while and consequently wonder if i made it up.

[slenders1ckn3ss]

I remember ppl - even other ace ppl - saying the card suit thing was “cringey” and “straight ppl aren’t gonna take us seriously” (sounds familiar?) So i guess the community wound up abandoning it. We were also having severe issues at the time with aces being stereotyped as “childish/immature” for associating things like cake, dragons, and space with asexuality, plus in general as most aces just don’t “get” allosexual things in media and irl. We were starting to be viewed as ignorant, virginal, childish, losers, etc. I haven’t seen an ace-cake thing in a good while now.

This was the infancy of exclusionary influence on us. I didn’t realize it did more damage than just closeting us. Whole symbols and terms have been lost. Community has been lost.

[cobraonthecob]

I remember three-four years ago I got myself into the ace community on Insta, and I came across these terms. People in these circles would talk about cake, space, dragons, and the black ring on the middle finger. Then, a year or two later, ace content fizzled out (I thought it was Insta’s algorithm figuring out that I knew all this and didn’t bring me the old stuff) and young aces had no idea what any of these were - including the black ring. Finding out young aces had no idea what the black ring meant nearly snapped my heart in two - I proudly wore the black ring, I drew characters with it, and it was my quiet way of communicating to others what my sexuality was. I was baffled at the lack of knowledge - and it turns out that exclusionists got their hands into our community and snuffed us out. 

Anyways, we need to bring this back. I thought the card suite thing was cool, it taught people the different ways people can experience attraction, I loved making jokes about preferring cake, I loved wearing the black ring and talking about it with my fellow queer people at my highschool QSA club. 

[kriss-watches-stuff]

I’m sorry, people don’t know about the cake or ring anymore? I remember being welcomed with spams of cake gifs, photos, and MS Paint drawings. I also distinctly remember that the block solo ring in the midle was meant as reference to the Ace of Spades (black, solo, middle of card). Only thing I didn’t know was that other aces could represent a more refined nuance. Let’s see if we can get this all rolling again.

Welcome to anyone who is interested in helping with the culture revival.

[otherkinteavibes]

I myself am not ace, but this sorta stuff is super important to me!!!

[predawnchloroform]

[raevenlywrites]

Not to be confused with Lawful Chaotic, which is creating as much chaos as possible by following the letter of the law, usually to ridiculous extremes.

[link-the-feral-anon]

They’re best friends too

[whataboutthefish]

just saying…

[otherkinteavibes]

Lawful Chaotic is just malicious compliance-

[foxysmoulder]

but really guys

tampons/pads marketed to young kids who just started getting their periods

should be a thing

wrappers with dinosaurs and planets and glitter and cats and sea creatures 

make kids feel comfortable about something natural that happens to their bodies. 

and for goodness sake

don’t sexualize it

[booknerd3108-deactivated2021073]

Say! It! Louder!

[otherkinteavibes]

I mean, why not just for... y’know... everyone? I would hella love cutesy hygiene products. But yes, LOUDER FOR THOSE IN THE BACK!