fantasy is not a crime

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[paraparaphernalia]

a blog for general paraphilia support and discussion

chrono-adult, chrono-minors please do not follow.

NO-ACT supporter, blog banner is the paraqueer flag

[dark--friction]

Some NO-ACT blinkies I made! I plan on making more, but I felt like posting these ones on their own :3 The first one is a PNG on purpose lol.

[dark--friction]

NO-ACT MAP flag!

A stance on minophilia/minor attracted adults that is anti-sexual/romantic contact with minors. Read more about NO-ACT here.

This stance is against non-consensual contact of any form, and believes in expressing oneself safely through fiction, kink, and/or roleplay with a consenting, bodily adult partner. In cases of plurality, alterhumanity, age regression, etc. consent varies on a case-by-case basis on the individual's ability to understand and consent to sex/romance. This stance emphasizes RACK (risk aware consensual kink), communication, and bodily autonomy -- and is against sex or roleplay that hasn't been consented to prior, isn't properly negotiated between partners, or that infringes on the bodily autonomy of one or more partners.

Symbol and blank flag below the cut.

[idlebrains]

Bored as fuck, go my transage + vore flag nyan cats (stole the idea from @\necrofoxfang)

[gimppaws]

HAPPY PRIDE TO THE FREAKS HAPPY PRIDE TO THE KINKSTERS HAPPY PRIDE TO THE NONHUMANS

HAPPY PRIDE TO ALL!

[pulpfanfiction]

bro you cant be calling it csam its literally cartoons

[unspeakablearchives]

I like loli-shota stuff because I’m a pedophile and obviously I can’t act out with a real kid or with csam so I have to settle for drawings

Sorry if people wanted a better reason but I’m not going to feel ashamed over doing the right thing

You know, you have to admire the honesty. Fair play.

[unspeakablearchives]

if it’s okay, i’d like to ask through your blog what the appeal of loli’s/shota’s is (are?). sending this out for potential responses from enthusiasts of this subject

Great question.

So who here wants to explain why you like lolis and/or shotas?

Also, I like this concept!

🚨 ANNOUNCEMENT 🚨 Anyone can send me an Ask if they'd like me to just post it as an open question for my followers.

Go ahead, get really weird with it idc

[paraparaphernalia]

i tend to perceive myself as much younger than i currently am chronologically - i'm an age sliding alter in a system, and felt as though i never grew up due to disability and trauma. i'm also on the aro/ace spectrums, and i find i mostly feel attraction to fictional characters. when i feel much younger, i feel attracted to characters who are around my internal age as well.

aside from that, there's an aspect of self inserting with it for a lot of people - they may not necessarily be attracted to the younger characters, but they project themselves onto them. iirc, lots of men who are into shotacon are specifically into oneeshota, or older woman x younger boy content, because it's easy for them to project onto the shota. and, of course, some people are attracted to cute and small things and want to fuck something that's cute and small. it's not necessarily about the subject being a child or even childlike, though it's perfectly fine if that is the reason. fantasy isn't a crime.

my self inserting ties into the age dysphoria as well. i went through non contact CSA (grooming and being shown porn by others) and have had the thought that if it was physical, it would have been taken seriously. projecting onto young characters, or just putting my self inserts into those scenarios, is a way of giving myself agency over that uncontrollable thought. enjoying it makes up for some the pain it's caused me in reality.

[paraparaphernalia]

eh maybe i won't keep that up. one day i will write something about little alters having sex but right now i'm paranoid, lol.

[paraparaphernalia]

[image id: two button pins. the one on the left is the blue white and pink zoo flag. the one on the right is the transage flag. end id]

i didn't have enough mylar sheets to make more than these. once i get more i will probably make the autoMAP and paraqueer flags.

[max1461]

Disgust has absolutely no ethical weight. If you are basing your ethical positions on the emotion of disgust you should stop, it is entirely unjustified and leads to a huge amount of harm.

[word-for-today]

Word for today: wisdom of repugnance

The logical fallacy that because something disgusts you it must be bad

[obscenicon-deactivated20231123]

this is probably the funniest example of a tumblr user simply not reading the post theyre reblogging at all

[steelblue8]

Reblog if you are a freak who is justifying their gross actions

[colliecreates]

uhh para graphics or something !!

necro

zoo

biasto (apologies dark ver looks weird.. idfk what to do ‘bout it..)

map

aam

if u use these cred is appreciated but not rq! no dni either

[paraparaphernalia]

if i had minimal risk of being exposed for it, i would love to go sticker tagging with para symbols and links to support sites.

were i in a safe area, i'd cover my face and find my most plain clothing and put up zoo flags and qr codes that link to virped and B4Uact... i'd like for people to know they aren't alone.

[rotfilleddog]

Whoa,it’s that thing I’ve been procrastinating finishing for months!! New flag coining. This one’s the alt Necrozoophile flag.

I added some with the zoo and necro codes (and @necrofoxfangs coffin paw symbol just because I really like it :] I bleached it onto some pants too,we’ll post it later.)

Anyways anyways the flag stance is anti-harmful contact. I’ll make some dividers for this one later,I’ll edit the post when I do. If anyone has a specific symbol they want on the flag instead I can put that on there too,but feel free to make shit with it yourself if you want ^^ (TAG ME IF YOU DO I LOVE TO SEE IT /nf)

[unspeakablearchives]

(Source: Sen the donkey)

[paraparaphernalia]

random thought: there should be one of those spiral symbols that indicates being an automap. not sure what it would be called though. could just be auto-childlove. idk

[paraparaphernalia]

[image id: sketch concepts for an automap symbol. in the left corner is a spiraling symbol shaped like a gear with an arrow on the end of its outer line. next to it are different versions of the same symbol; one is drawn in a rounder style and is labeled "little", and one is drawn in a spikier style and is labeled "teen". beneath the first symbol are smaller versions of it; one has a heart on the inside and is labeled "fem", and one has a triangle on the inside and is labeled "masc". /end id]

concepts... color isn't set in stone, i was just using something that stood out against my default canvas color

the symbols i see most for autophilia are the gear and the open heart. the gear had a more unique shape so i went with that, but kept the pointy end of the open heart symbol as well.

[123gocat]

fun fact, self expression of paraphilias is literally a thing they teach you during recovery!

it's called Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) and Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT)

don't believe me?

https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2020-16775-009

https://reachlink.com/advice/psychotherapy/understanding-paraphilia-exploring-sexual-diversity-with-empathy/#:~:text=Acceptance%20and%20commitment%20therapy%20(ACT),while%20working%20through%20internalized%20stigma.

being anti-self expression for harmful (and nonharmful) paraphilias is quite literally anti-recovery.

make those flags!! preach ur heart!! love yourself for the sake of yourself!!