Incomprehensible Winter

Welcome, this blog contains tons of stuff I thought was either funny, artistically pleasing or interesting. I hope you enjoy your stay.

[girlnephew]

[env0]

[dalishious]

Sorry but this is immediately where my mind went alskdjfsjfds

[bamsara]

same shit, different fandom

[maggins]

[localvoidcat]

i can't be trusted with sour gummies i'm guzzling this shit down like a hog that's tasted blood

[assdevourer]

[shounenchild]

This is how anime characters dance in the end credits after somebody they care about brutally dies

[midnightwinterhawk]

Tags: Slow burn

Word count: 2k

Me:

[catchymemes]

[cannibalchicken]

[horsedestruction]

[coolxatu]

fuck myer briggs fuck astrology

if you ask someone who their top 3 favorite homestuck characters were you literally know everything about them

[coolxatu]

if they dont know what homestuck is then you know theyre a normal human being

[hipstercanada]

everyone put ur top 3 homestuck characters in the tags

[crawlingrats]

Please please PLEASE watch this Christmas spot we got in Spain

[dduane]

I don’t often cry at the end of a commercial. But this one did the trick.

[tkingfisher]

I bawled, and I haven’t cried at a commercial in twenty years.

[ahordeofwasps]

What the past couple days have felt like

[notoriousmasc]

character customization screens are like “you can alter your character’s body type!” and then it looks like this

[viking-archer-official]

video game companies be like “we offer a diverse array of skin tones for a wide array of character types”

[quietsphere]

“we also offer a wide range of unisex haircuts”

[omghotmemes]

At a conveyer belt sushi restaurant.

[supreme-leader-stoat]

The appropriate response.

[birdblogwhichisforbirds-deactiv]

I cannot emphasize enough how much of a life hack it is to exclusively be friends with, date and marry people who are not constantly mean assholes to you.

[angstmonsterwrites]

This may seem like basic common sense, but one interesting (and kind of terrifying) thing I recently read was that some individuals who grew up in an emotionally abusive environment find that their anxiety level actually decreases in the presence of those who are mean or overly critical of them because it's familiar. Their nervous systems are hard wired to react to that kind of treatment as "normal" in the sense that it knows what to do with it--what defense mechanisms to employ when, etc.

Meanwhile, kinder, more peaceful, and healthier relationships are quite a dramatic adjustment, and ironically feel less predictable because of all the threats that are absent and never materialize. It feels suspicious or too good to be true, which in turn ratchets up hypervigilance and hyper-arousal. Instead of knowing what BS is coming because it always does, there's the nebulous sense that the other shoe is just waiting to drop. Safety and respect can feel the most unsafe for a while, because as far as the traumatized nervous system is concerned, those things don't exist, or if they do in any form, there must be a million unseen strings attached.

This is part of what traps a lot of people in abusive relationships, consistently draws them to want to please assholes, or keeps them moving from one unhealthy environment to the next--a highly toxic comfort of familiarity where being on the receiving end of cruelty feels like "home".

[caitmayart]

I’ve been meaning to draw some Xhorhasian clothing and then…… I had too much fun ♥

Also -  I am so upset that we’ve been denied the flirtatious warfare between these two it would have been G L O R I O U S

[titkoks]

[loth-catgirl]

Charlie Chaplin'd his ass out of there after that punchline

[wellthatsjustprime2]

Backpack but it's just the part where Cesare gives Steve the backpack

[wellthatsjustprime2]

amazing context