...and run far away

41, queer, mama bear to three. She/they. Multi-fandom, pro-shipping, kink- and sex-positive. 18+, see pinned post for more about me.

[pleasetakethis]

About Bri

Hi. I’m Bri / rearranged, 41, queer mama bear to three, multiple sclerosis. She/they. Resource for LGBTQ+ youth: It Gets Better

I try to love life. Fandom, sillies, my posts, random stuff I like–it’s all here. I write fanfic. My adult life is a mishmash amalgamation of all my hobbies and interests, so welcome to fandom!Bri and some real life!Bri, too. Sometimes I ramble in my tags. My icon is Leo from That 70’s Show. I strongly support the decriminalization and legalization of marijuana. Music is a huge part of my life, even though you don’t see that much here. NIN & DMB are my all time favorites, but I listen to e v e r y t h i n g.

18+. Multi- & pro-shipper. Kink- & sex-positive. Fandoms you’ll probably see: Supernatural, Marvel, Star Trek (new! hyperfixation in progress), Our Flag Means Death, Rick and Morty, South Park, Hannibal, occasionally Transformers, and more!

I try to tag everything so you can filter what you don’t like. I’m a fan of blocking & moving on, fandom is an escape from the real world. I’ve been in fandom since I was 11 (if you count the fanfic I wrote in middle school before I knew what fanfic was, 13-14 for online fandom), I’ve seen a lot of weird shit, I like a lot of weird shit, and I’m not going to argue about it. No hard feelings if you unfollow, even if I still follow you.

If I have liked or reblogged something and you have DNIs, sorry--I don’t click on individual blogs as I browse, only the posts. Feel free to block me. Hate will be ignored because I’m an adult who enjoys fandom as an escape. Fandom is not activism and purity culture is toxic. The founders of AO3 are proship. Research queer history, fandom history, and the definition of KINKTOMATO. ✌️

AO3: rearranged (her_ghost) dreamwidth: rearranged pillowfort: rearranged

Tags of interest: about bri bri rambles bri writes bri creates bri answers ask games (it’s never too late to jump in on old ask games imo) trick or treat (2023)

Side blogs: pleasetakethisfic (my fic reblogs) pleasetakethisrec (my rec reblogs)

Fic Masterlist (in progress) MCU Kink Bingo (Open Round) Card & Masterlist

I update this randomly. Current as of 17 Mar 2026.

[tetrafelino]

non-usians rb this and recommend me music (artist/album/song/etc) from your country

usians rb this and recommend me music that's NOT from your country

extra points either way for music that's not in english

[pleasetakethis]

[pleasetakethis]

Project Hail Mary was unbelievably good. Hit all the right spots for me, and omfg that ending was beautiful.

[kisskisscantfallinlove]

the more rickorty incest moments and jokes the writers put in this show, the more i think about toxic rick and how our rick saw his love for morty as something he should get rid of...

[yesornopolls]

Would you consider the hate for AI at the moment “excessive”?

Would you consider the hate for AI at the moment “excessive”?

Yes

No

Voting ended onJun 7

[avatarmerida]

Happy pride month to the tiny cowboy and tiny Trojan man from Night at the Museum

[futurakid]

[leg-stealing-bee]

[closetedguyy]

[knitordeath]

This hands down the best comment in the notes, I will not be taking criticism.

[song-of-sea-and-sky]

happy pride month 2021 I ain’t quittin’ you…

[msue0027]

[maxstarfall]

[gengaritez]

[pumpkin--rabbit]

[minyicho]

[pleasetakethis]

SQUEE

That's all I've got. Omg. That episode was fantastic, loved the back-and-forth, loved Rick just going along with it until his Morty got involved, loved the jealousy. A++ classic Rick and Morty BS.

There was something off about the animation style that I really didn't like, and I'm unsure if it was tied in with the classic cartoon callback halfway through that fight scene (ugh, unthank) or unrelated. Can't pinpoint it, it'll either fade away upon rewatches or stand out more. Fingers crossed it doesn't carry through the entire season.

[teashoesandhair]

OK lads but. Why is the r slur coming back. It's 2026. Why am I hearing so many of The Youth use this word liberally and at whim. Do you need me to ground you. Do I need to sit you on the naughty step. Do you need me to strap you into the Learning Chair and deliver a 4 hour lecture about the history of the r slur, ableism, and why using that word is neither big nor cool. Or do you just need me to punch you in the mouth.

[teashoesandhair]

And I'm being so for real right now: most people I see using this are self-described progressives who would literally cry themselves to the point of atomic dissolution if they were accused in the online town square of being Not That Woke Actually, so like, maybe stop using the ableist slur to try and seem edgy and cool and acerbic, because it's super fucking weird to see you all post your pithy little paragraphs of Marxist commentary to your blog called Capitalism Kills or Postfeminist Rants or whatever, and then tie it all up with a nice big fuck you to disabled people.

There are so many better words and phrases you could be using to describe your nemeses that don't carry the weight of centuries of eugenics. For example: you're all acting like a bunch of crusty teatowels and you need to do better, else I shall be forced to unplug your WiFi and put your phone in the microwave.

[teashoesandhair]

#it's coming back for the same reasons as the OG rise of modern eugenics #authoritarian politics + financial downturn + pandemic + national orientation toward total war #= the need for the elimination of the 'burdensome' disabled other and superstructural justification for it (via librarycards)

[steveandthesea]

My (I feel reasonable) guess on why this is happening is that we're currently raising generations who are learning about the world in a way that is - for the first time ever - almost entirely detached from the generations before them. To the point where things we learned only a few years ago are lost to a sea of vertical video and memes that washes out a plethora of actually useful and important information. Like I know I'm being very Old-Man-Yells-at-Cloud-Based-Platforms right now but the generational division that social media creates feels massively overlooked from here.

We millennials learned at some point that dropping the R bomb is totally not ok. I feel we also grew up in a time where we had a lot more contact with people outside of our own bubbles through the people we knew, the TV shows we watched, even the less-algorithmic social media we used. We grew up with an internet that opened up opportunities for underrepresented voices to be heard.

Now the youth are growing up with a Very Online culture which is simultaneously so intelligent with its algorithms that it completely isolates people from anyone outside their bubble, yet allows for polar opposite ideas to spread untraceable across spaces. So the left leaning youth are more likely to come into contact with ideas and memes and slang from literal fascists than they are from older millennials, or even people with disabilities and learning differences in their own generation, who they could maybe learn a thing or two from.

And the result is that the R word becomes regular slang for even the most progressive of fellow kids before they even get to hear anyone telling them why that's not ok. The result is that "Woke" becomes a look or a feeling or a style, something that's just edgy and fun, without any actual substance or work or education.

I dunno maybe I'm just rambling but it feels like it's harder to get important messages through to a generation that lives in a bubble of impenetrable noise. And if anything the other side of the political spectrum even benefits from this bonkers free reign "it's just a prank bro" comedy show that is The Internet, and any efforts to curb it and "spoil the fun" from the PC brigade.

[pleasetakethis]

I dunno maybe I'm just rambling but it feels like it's harder to get important messages through to a generation that lives in a bubble of impenetrable noise. And if anything the other side of the political spectrum even benefits from this bonkers free reign "it's just a prank bro" comedy show that is The Internet, and any efforts to curb it and "spoil the fun" from the PC brigade.

[anisecandy]

Wanna see a super rough storyboard of a radiostatic WIP animatic I may or may not make one of those days? Why am I even asking, of course you do

I'd like to do an animatic for the whole song! This is just what finally found the time to put together today

[taragreenfield]

It's always funny to watch people who took upon themselves the role of the fandom moral police exaggerating their importance.

"We won't be friends if you ship [fictional ship]" Nobody asked for the honor.

"You can like [fictional character] if you acknowledge that what they did was wrong!" You are not in a position to hand out permissions and set conditions for liking things.

"It says a lot about you as a person if you support [fictional concept]" I'm sure I'll recover if a rando on the Internet thinks I'm a bad person.

Nobody asked for your sermons. Nobody owes you an apology for enjoying fictional concepts. Nobody is obligated to justify themselves to you. Nobody needs your absolution. Get over yourself.

[teashoesandhair]

OK lads but. Why is the r slur coming back. It's 2026. Why am I hearing so many of The Youth use this word liberally and at whim. Do you need me to ground you. Do I need to sit you on the naughty step. Do you need me to strap you into the Learning Chair and deliver a 4 hour lecture about the history of the r slur, ableism, and why using that word is neither big nor cool. Or do you just need me to punch you in the mouth.

[pleasetakethis]

Yall know what shitty endings mean, right?

FIX-IT FANFIC!!!

[kamruna]

one of those chain reactions in my heart! 🧨

[youre-only-gay-once]

eric when i Get You....

[iero]

HEATED RIVALRY 1.06: The Cottage

[possuminnit]

cant do the mutual first memory rb game because i genuinely cant remember anything. i dont know you were all my mutuals at birth. we were joined by the stars and by blogging

[possuminnit]

m,y first memory is that I Loved You and do still

[doona-baes]

#mood today