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hello! Charli 🤝 some may know me as the one & only record-breaking 30 fucking times (THIRTY. fucking. times) zucced meme admin on instashit, @fuckingstupidoklahomabitch is where u can find me for now *curtsy*🖕🏼🙄 (follow me 😉) hated and loved. clearly. 32. plutonian. ♋️☀️♉️🌙♏️⬆️ 33 life pather. 9th houser. astrologer. mama to my girls👯. musician. singer/songwriter. @moodringmusicofficial bookworm. just here to giggle and learn. repostin, stealin, creepin. this place is a dump. 🍿 here for the show tho amirite can I get a hell yea 🤠🥂 #hellyea let’s go blogging 💁🏼‍♀️🛒🛍️

[blackpyrefly]

astronomy: so basically the consensus is generally that pluto isn't a planet but rather a dwarf planet, which is a classification that fits better with its unique characteristics and reflects our current understanding of how stuff works

what people hear for some reason: pluto has been suddenly kicked out of the planets club by the other planets, who were its best friends up until they randomly decided they didn't love it anymore and they kicked it out of the house and put it in a wet cardboard box on the side of the road and it's starting to rain but they don't care at all because they hate poor pluto now and they want it to die of exposure. which it will

[plutochar]

as a plutonian, this is literally profoundly the story of my life

[waterbabym]

“In our desperate rush to become intimate, we may tell too much too soon. Sharing vulnerability is one way we feel close to each other, but sharing indiscriminately or prematurely has the opposite effect. We create a healthy boundary around the self by exercising some control over what we conceal from—or reveal to—others. When it comes to sharing vulnerability, it’s wise to take time to test whether the other person is worthy of hearing our stories and to assess our own level of safety and comfort in sharing sensitive material. We want to trust that the other person isn’t going to deny and minimize our pain, or alternatively, overfocus on our problem in an unhelpful way. We don’t want to be put down, pitied, or gossiped about, nor do we want to have sensitive information used against us. Not everyone finds solace in revealing the personal. People have different coping styles, and some individuals are more private than others.”

— Harriet Lerner, The Dance of Connection

[unicorn39]

It is not fear that stops you from doing the brave and true thing in your daily life. Rather, the problem is avoidance. You want to feel comfortable, so you avoid doing or saying the thing that will evoke fear and other difficult emotions. Avoidance will make you feel less vulnerable in the short run, but it will never make you less afraid.

[Dr. Harriet Lerner] The Dance of Fear

[anouchan-jpg]

What is your darkest kink?

This.

[wellconstructedsentences]

I hate to see anything lovely by myself.

A Manual for Cleaning Women by Lucia Berlin

[quotefeeling]

“People inspire you or they drain you. Pick them wisely.”

— Hans F. Hansen

[litandlifequotes]

The past is a life sentence, a blunt instrument aimed at tomorrow.

Citizen: An American Lyric by Claudia Rankine

[bluewillowmoon]

“Define loneliness? Yes. It’s what we can’t do for each other.”

— Claudia Rankine, from Don’t Let Me Be Lonely: An American Lyric (Graywolf Press, 2004)

[neorxnawangs]

babylonia, by costanza casati

[gennsoup]

"It is noble to be gentle, to save others from pain. But it is also dangerous. Sometimes you have to make life difficult for others before they make it impossible for you."

Costanza Casati, Clytemnetra

[saud23]

“Don’t fight your demons. Your demons are here to teach you lessons. Sit down with your demons and have a drink and a chat and learn their names and talk about the burns on their fingers and scratches on their ankles. Some of them are very nice.”

— Charles Bukowski

[know-the-self]

“Go deeply into this feeling of ‘I’. Be aware of it so strongly and so intensely that no other thoughts have the energy to arise and distract you. If you hold this feeling of ‘I’ long enough and strongly enough, the false ‘I’ wll vanish leaving only the unbroken awareness of the real, immanent ‘I’, Consciousness itself.”

~ Annamalai Swami

[stardust-seedling]

The simple words "I'm sorry" put out most fires painlessly. To win in life means to give up the obsession of 'who's at fault'. Graciousness is far more powerful than belligerance.

Dr David R. Hawkins

[cosmicobservist]

“If you are willing to look at another person’s behaviour toward you as a reflection of the state of their relationship with themselves rather than a statement about your value as a person. then you will, over a period of time, cease to react at all.”

— Harbhajan Singh Yogi (via stardust-seedling)

[cosmicobservist]

“Utilizing the mind in the attempt to achieve ultimate understanding is akin to hiring a thief to protect a house from burglars….”

— Wu Hsin (via cobotis)

[midnightmuses301]

"𝐈 𝐦𝐲𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐟 𝐚𝐦 𝐦𝐚𝐝𝐞 𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐲 𝐨𝐟 𝐟𝐥𝐚𝐰𝐬, 𝐬𝐭𝐢𝐭𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐝 𝐭𝐨𝐠𝐞𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐠𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐢𝐧𝐭𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬."

- 𝐀𝐮𝐠𝐮𝐬𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐁𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡𝐬, 𝐌𝐚𝐠𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐓𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠: 𝐓𝐫𝐮𝐞 𝐒𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐢𝐞𝐬

[rockstar-vamp]

This doesn’t even make any sense but I prefer paperback books because hardcovers make me feel like I am reading too professionally