Welcome to my blog. This is a place for me to reblog my favorite posts, engage with people, and offer some of my own opinions. In the past I had certain thoughts about certain posts (especially some of the ones I loved, which I have bookmarked) but I didn’t have the time to respond or it wouldn’t look good for me to start reblogging from tHe hOrrIbLe eVIL TERVES. This place is a safe space for me to interact with that content, and I won’t out anyone who interacts with me. I don’t have any stalkers so I don’t think anyone I know will find me, but in the event that you do, please mind your own business or pretend you didn’t see this, lol. (Not that I’m doing anything bad at all by having opinions.) I’m refraining from putting too much identifiable content but anyway. I love women and always will.
Details on my stances below the cut:
Name: Panda bear (I picked this name ‘cuz I think pandas are cute)
Sex: Female
Sexuality: Lesbian (female homosexual, aka woman who loves and is attracted to other women EXCLUSIVELY)
Point one: I don’t think you have to be a lesbian to support other women or want them to be happy. I think there are actually very few lesbians in the world, which is fine (I can’t control anyone else’s sexuality and wouldn’t want anyone to control mine). Lesbians are not attracted to men and are the only sexuality that fully excludes them. This gives me an edge whenever I heavily criticize men (I can choose to cut them out of my life pretty easily), but I don’t think lesbians are superior to other women or anything. Lesbians are just female homosexuals; we exist like that. As such, I don’t believe in political lesbians
Point two: When I introduce myself to people, I almost never ever bring up my sexuality, but I do it here because just like being female means you have certain experiences and understand certain things, so does being a lesbian. I like other lesbians and love hearing from them. I’m definitely not the spokesperson for all lesbians at all, but I think I’d like to use my own voice (with my own unique experiences) and speak up about them. Me laying this out means you know where I’m coming from, as someone who has no attraction to men.
Point three: No bi lesbian nonsense. I support lesbians and I support bi people. I don’t support two identities being haphazardly smashed together to validate an attraction to men (or ”non-men”). Women are already expected to be attracted to men and I fought that heteronormativity and I won. Don’t undo other people’s work by undermining what it means to be a lesbian (by attaching qualifiers to it) and going Frankenstein’s monster on it. You either are the label or not: you don’t just identify as something to actually become it.
Point four: My sexuality is slightly more complicated than the typical lesbian (not in terms of emotional depth/connection but in terms of my actual attraction and when it manifests itself). Since this isn’t a dating site, I won’t go into this unless asked. Know that I sympathize with the A in LGTQIA though, even though my primary alignment is with LGB. (Please don’t call me queer.)
Age: in my early 20s
Political stances:
Pro-female. I am for radical feminism, women’s rights, female separatism, and so on. Women and girls are my top priority not only because I love them and am one, but because I genuinely want them to have a happy life, especially because most of them didn’t do anything wrong. “Leave no woman behind” is a good motto to me though. If it hurts women, it has to go
You’re probably wondering if I’m a “terf”. No, I am not. I am cis: I’ve never experienced dysphoria (embarrassment/discomfort/slight shame about my body, yes, but every woman experiences that), but I don’t think being trans is exactly bad. I’ve always thought that if you’re not hurting anyone, then who you are/how you choose to present is no one else’s business. This, however, disqualifies all the creeps who are BULLDOZING women’s rights (their language, ability to have female only spaces, and ability to speak about their own experiences among others who understand without outsiders or judgment/cries about exclusivity). Don’t even talk to me about the cotton ceiling and all the weird conversion therapy/shaming rhetoric. I’ll say this now so I don’t get asked: I do not like dick and I never will. Please do not try to force or guilt/shame me into doing anything I don’t like: that’s rape culture and that’s incredibly creepy, horrible, and evil. Do I believe trans women are women? Not really, that’s why they’re “trans”. That’s the point I think: that’s why you transitioned. I don’t have to be attracted to you or like you to want you to be respected/have a good life, so if you treat me with respect, I’ll do the same to you. Not being able to define “woman” is bad though, and I’m definitely not really interested in people who identify out of womanhood. Lack of interest doesn’t mean hate. I think gender non-conforming women are awesome and they can be however or whatever they want without needing to deny their own sex. Since I don’t understand dysphoria or trans people, though, I won’t throw anyone well-meaning under the bus. So that’s my stance on that. From what I’ve been seeing, I don’t know if there are any well-meaning trans people left who aren’t just caricaturing womanhood (or manhood?), but if you can prove me wrong, I won’t be upset about it.
My thoughts on men are I hate them. As a class, yes, but also all of them as people because you won’t see any humanity there. Maybe there are “good men” and “not all men” are raging misogynists, but that’s the bare minimum, and the patriarchy allows any average man to hurt any woman, quite often without consequences. Men have oppressed women for thousands of years and I won’t forgive them. Yes, the average guy isn’t responsible for what happened to women then and even now, but the oppressed are allowed to hate our oppressors, and women are already taught to be careful around any man because if he turns out to be bad, it was “her fault.” If you’re a man, therefore, that’s a red flag for me. The onus is on you to prove you’re not an asshole and I’ll interact with you civilly. But my biggest priority is women. You’ll have to accept a lot of things if you want to be welcomed here and radical feminism is about women, so don’t step out of your place. I’m completely serious: men have been doing this to women for a long time, so I’m not going to cheer for you or waste my energy on you at all. If I do, it’s for another human being who seems to be decent. I used to want everyone to be happy until I realized how truly evil the other sex is.
My bullet points turned into paragraphs, but that’s all, I think! If anything else comes up, feel free to ask me. I’m always open to learning more (that’s why I made this blog: to interact with people instead of keeping everything to myself) and I believe in fairness/justice a lot, so if anything I say or do doesn’t seem just or fair, let me know. If you think me being anti-male/a misandrist is bad, though, then just look at the other side and you’ll see why, lmao. As someone who loves women, how can I not hate those who hurt them, especially the way men do?
TLDR;
for: abortion, female rights, female autonomy, kindness, fairness, anti-discrimination, gay rights (obviously), higher wages for people, the rich to stop screwing poor people over by giving up their riches, social justice
against: racism, misogyny, the patriarchy, anything male (male language like “guys”, the male body, hearing their male opinions on female issues), rape or rape culture, conversion therapy, cringe culture, cancel culture, anything that hurts women
The way this works is I’ll probably be writing a lot in the tags (sometimes in posts), and if I receive any asks (not death threats hopefully), I’ll answer them. I’m quite new to this and I’m still young, so I’m mostly here to learn, but if there’s anything I can do for you, let me know and I’ll happily do it (if I can). Perhaps I’ll write about my personal experiences and thoughts (especially on being a lesbian because that’s the most important thing to me). I like hearing other people’s stories and thoughts too.
Since this is a sideblog, I can’t really follow you back (easily), but I think you’ll be able to tell it’s me (maybe), and I do take notice if you follow me if I agree with you/think you’re cool.
Not sure if anyone actually read all of this, but thanks for stopping by! Hope you have a lovely day. ^^
Did y’all know that octopuses can remember individual faces? There have been studies conducted showing that octopuses have a preference for keepers depending on how nice they are to them.
Not surprisingly, it showed that octopuses (both male and female) preferred the female caretakers because the male caretakers were not as kind and gentle with the octopuses. This is reflected in almost every job or career that involves caring for animals, especially endangered and vulnerable animals.
This isn’t radfem related necessarily, but I just thought it was nice to share. Also goes to show that women are in fact better than men in every aspect, especially when it comes to caring for and being in the presence of non human animals.
the right treats rape and pedophilia as something caused by immigrant men.
the left treats rape and pedophilia as something caused by “rich, evil white men”.
yet in virtually every single fucking society globally, it’s *men* who commit 90%+ (i’m being generous here) of rape and pedophilia.
rich men, poor men. brown men. black men. white men. immigrants. non-immigrants. religious men. atheists. straight men. bi men. gay men. trans-identified men. BOYS.
Me when if the world had primarily women leaders we would be nearing a utopian world by now but instead thanks to male leaders we're always a few days away from going back to the stone age
i think fundamentally i'm gender-critical because i'm an athiest. i don't believe in souls. "i was Meant to be the opposite gender" wdym 'meant'? by whose design? gender theory is a set of beliefs i don't believe in. and that's why it's so frustrating that it's framed as being hateful and spiteful because like. no i just don't believe you are who you say you are. i don't believe you have a "woman soul" or whatever because i don't believe that's a thing. and in my mind, what you're doing is hateful, as my oppressor pretending to be a member of the oppressed class. i refuse to play by the rules of your ideology, just like i don't follow the bible because i'm not christian, or i don't follow a jain diet because i'm not jain, or i don't pray or fast on muslim holidays because i'm not muslim. and if you do believe in woman souls in male bodies, i don't think you should be thrown in jail for a thought crime or whatever, but i do think you're a misogynist, just like members of any other patriarchal religion
We need to get serious and follow in the footsteps of feminists in Korea!!
Stop talking to men!! Stop dating men!! Stop marrying men!! Stop giving birth!! Stop giving them your time!! Let them rot alone and amongst each other!! Disable any access to you!!
Yes, this includes gay men!!
Let the birth rate go down enough to send them into a frenzy.
Hello gyns! I’m posting to boost and support a fellow radfem @stuckonhellonearth . She has Thoracic Outlet Syndrome, a rare congenital disorder restricting blood flow and nerve function in the shoulder.
All proceeds will go towards groceries, car maintenance, treatment, and other basic expenses. (explained in the GFM, per visit is around a 3.5 hr drive).
Lily’s body has collapsed and still has 6~ months of treatment to be physically stable.
Without this treatment, Lily could become fully disabled and die.
Help out a chronically ill radfem in need! I’ll be donating once I get paid. In the meantime, please boost as much as possible!
There is nothing less sexy to me than the "lesbian" nsft posts on this website. like even if we ignore the strapons, the calling your masculine partner he/him and just the focus on penis/phallic objects etc, it is all so cringe and fundamentally unsexy. like there's no way the fakebians who post this shit are having any sex at all lmao.
