Dyzma (ze/zir)

21yo enby from slavic Europe

[polskieniebinie]

Beansexuality - a counterpart for berri and almond

Hello everyone! I've been searching whole internet trying to find a perfect label to me. I did stumble upon two terms, that we're identical and suited me - plumsexual and citrusexual.

Both of them are a counterpart to almond- and berrisexual - attraction to mainly nonbinary/neutral-aligned genders with slight and/or rare attraction towards women/fem-aligned and men/masc-aligned genders.

The problem is that authors of both terms had their accounts deleted and the terms along with definitions were in some way archived. I could still use one of them, that's true, but it did bother me a bit that both of them did resemble another flag in some way (plumsexual takes colors from nonbinary flag, but it also resembled AceApl flag and an enbyromantic flag I've found on Tumblr, citrusexual looks almost identical to AlloAro flag).

That's why I decided to coin a new term and recoin (reuse?) the definition to have a complementary label that would go well with berri and almondsexual.

I present to you all - Beansexual!

Beansexual - a sexual orientation under multisexual umbrella defining a person who's attracted mainly to non-binary/neutral-aligned/androgynous-aligned genders, but feels slight and/or rare attraction to women/feminine-aligned genders and men/masculine-aligned genders.

Shades of green going towards yellow-ish represent attraction to non-binary and neutral-aligned genders, green being a color grom agender flag and being good at representing genders other than feminine and masculine

White represents attraction not being exclusive to only non-binary/neutral-aligned genders and still being a part of multisexual umbrella

Shades of purple represent slight/rare attraction to women/fem-aligned and men/masc-aligned genders. I chose purple because it is a mix of blue and pink, which commonly represent women/fem-aligned people and men/masc-aligned people.

Why did I choose that name?

For starters - I did wonder about why were berri(es) and almond chosen for berri and almondsexuality. I could see the link between the name and colours of the flag, but didn't understand why specifically were they chosen. Then I looked at previously mentioned citrusexuality and plumsexuality. I could also see the resemblance in name and flag color. I decided to go with a name of food as well. Since almondsexual is named after nuts and berrisexual after fruits, I decided to pick a vegetable. I did want the colors in the flag to be suited, have a meaning but also to resemble the veggie it was named after. The first thinfg that came to my mind were peas and beans - they can be green, yellow or purple which suited the flag perfectly.

It was previously called peasexual but someone noticed that "pea" does sound like "pee". Ngl English is not my first language and I initially had beans in my head but was a bit too ashamed to change it after mistaking it for peas, so let me take the chance and quickly change the name to beansexual 😭😭

[rynndom-person]

Genuinely

I love labels

I love labels because you have this word you can point to and say "thats how I feel, there are others that feel like that, I'm not alone"

Labels are fucking cool

[wszechmistrz]

Shout out to non-binary people who do want to be seen as a third gender.

Shout out to non-binary people who seek any form of androgyny.

Shout out to non-binary people who have a strong sense of gender and are not completely "opting out" of gender.

Shout out to non-binary people who do want to belong in a certain box and care about labels.

Shout out to non-binary people who care about being misgendered and are not gender-apathetic.

Shout out to non-binary people who consider themselves cis, or neither cis nor trans for any reason.

Shout out to non-binary people who consider themselves cis, or neither cis nor trans due to being intersex.

Shout out to non-binary people whose identity has a reason.

Shout out to ALL nonbinary people who are considered "stereotypical", get little positivity, and every time their identity is mentioned, it's to remind other people they don't have to be like them.

"Nonbinary is not a third gender" for some people it is. "Nonbinary people don't owe you androgyny" but we're allowed to desire it. "Being nonbinary is a rebellion against gender roles" if it is for you, cool. But my gender is not a political movement and not everyone feels comfortable with statements like this.

Bonus: shout out to all alloaces, aroallos, and non-SAM aspecs. 99% of all content under asexual or aromantic tags is just aroace stuff

[theartofmadeline]

happy pride to the gay people in my computer <3

[thisis-aphobia]

I don't have a pride post planned but I was recently made aware of the new ace flag and wowie I really like it!

This flag was created by Ashabi, a queer Nigerian-American artist (she/they)!

I love how it explicitly includes the ace mircolabels, and how it highlights multiculturalism and intersectionality. While I do like the look of the old flag, it was odd that it highlighted allies and only represented 2 ace mircrolabels.

Plus, it's quite a nice color scheme! Reminds me of huckleberry lemonade.

[rainbowshade03]

Starry Mspec Wallpapers Part 2!

Stellian/Pastel

Cenelian/Pastel

Lunian/Pastel

[camspiel]

Couple where one person's go-to response to "what's your gender" is "no" and the other's is "yes"

[xxcalicofemmexx]

evenic wallpapers!

Evenic: Someone who is on the boundary of two different identities. They may feel both as a combined or fluid identity, they may experience it as two parts of a whole, or they may connect with each identity individually. These are usually identities that "contradict," or do not typically "go together," but this is not a rule. Coined as a more inclusive alternative to cusper, which refers exclusively to someone on the boundary of gnc cis and trans. Meanwhile evenic can describe someone who is on the boundary of any two labels.

[hopefulwand]

vectorized / upscaled (5000x2813) image of the Sunrise Progress Flag by @luxiomahariel

downloads below

SVG & PSD , CREDIT LUXIOMAHARIEL, I SIMPLY VECTORIZED.

[bloomcoining]

[Image descriptions in alt text]

Gay — A term for people who experience attraction to their own gender, genders similar to their own, and/or otherwise experience queerly gendered attraction. This attraction is often exclusive, but does not necessarily have to be.

Etymology, flag symbolism, and further info is below the cut.

Etymology — it's complicated

Flag Symbolism — This flag is intended to be gender inclusive. It encompasses gay people of all genders, regardless of which gender(s) they are gay for. The stripe layout was inspired by the sunset lesbian and ocean gay flags.

White represents inclusion, and was chosen due to it being the combination of all light. Beyond this, the flag is divided into two sections: cool colors and warm colors. Cool colors are placed at the top, with warm colors placed at the bottom, to make it more distinct from other flags. Each stripe has its own meaning assigned to it.

The cool stripes have the following symbolism:

Purple represents community. The color was chosen because it is similar to lavender, and is visually appealing. Lavender represents diversity. The color was chosen due to its association with queerness. It also coincidentally represents diversity in the final pride flag Gilbert Baker made. Sky blue represents progress, and the idea that the sky is the limit.

The warm stripes have the following symbolism:

Yellow represents joy. The color was chosen because it is a “bright and happy” color, like the sun. Grapefruit represents strength and survival, even through hardship. The color was chosen because I felt that it conveyed this idea well. Pink represents love and/or attraction. This color was chosen due to pink’s cultural associations with these things. The warm colors have a somewhat pink tint, due to the association pink has with the LGBTQ+ community.

To distinguish my flag from other gay flags, it can be referred to as the "candy gay flag" based on its bright, candy-like colors.

Term coined by — no specific coiner

Flag made by — bloomcoining (September 23, 2022)

Tags — @radiomogai @liom-archive @liomarchive @imoga-pride @imoga-archive

[imoga-pride]

Peraverique Flag

Péraverique (pérarique/perarique or peraverique): a monolexic aingender (abinary/abin apora- in nature) resulted from the combination of both maverique and péra (or pera); being completely beyond the gender trinary of male/female/none, while at the same time, with an autonomy and inner conviction regarding a sense of self that is entirely independent of masculinity, femininity or anything which derives from the two while still being neither without gender nor of a neutral gender.

The two first colors come from demipéra flag (purple/violet and teal), white presented in both flags and last two colours from maverique flag.

[shapeshifter-of-constellation]

@butchspace I loooooove your orange butch flag. and i thought it’d be cool to splice together the lipstick lesbian & orange butch flag. as well as add the More Color More Pride stripes.

and mod T from butchspace suggested a great idea of having the white stripe symbolize those who dont ID as femme or butch.

 i think this combo would be a great flag for the general lesbian community. i always see the lipstick femme flag used as the default for the lesbian community on tumblr. which is an act that treats femininity as the default, and makes butches feel left out and ignored.

[pvpmogai]

mspec celarsian | bi celarsian | pan celarsian

omni celarsian | ply celarsian | abro celarsian

mspec celarsian flags!

@radiomogai

[wtchgrrl]

shoutout to anyone who can’t look up shit about their identity without finding discourse posts we’ll get through this together

[status-quo-hater]

This version of the progress flag legitimately looks so nice

Gilbert baker rainbow, huge intersex circle, the design is cluttered but in a good way 10/10

[ID: A version of the progress pride flag with a large purple intersex ring outlined in gold, looping through pink, blue, brown, and black chevrons on the side, which have a base of white. The horizontal stripes are: pink, red, orange, yellow, green, light blue, dark blue, and purple. End ID.]

[imoga-pride]

Peraverique Flag

Péraverique (pérarique/perarique or peraverique): a monolexic aingender (abinary/abin apora- in nature) resulted from the combination of both maverique and péra (or pera); being completely beyond the gender trinary of male/female/none, while at the same time, with an autonomy and inner conviction regarding a sense of self that is entirely independent of masculinity, femininity or anything which derives from the two while still being neither without gender nor of a neutral gender.

The two first colors come from demipéra flag (purple/violet and teal), white presented in both flags and last two colours from maverique flag.

[skysthelimit57]

Non-binary people can't use they/them because they're only one person. Non-binary people can't use it/its because it's dehumanizing. Non-binary people can't use neopronouns because they're too confusing. Non-binary people can't use he/him and/or she/her because that's not gender neutral. Non-binary people can't use no pronouns because that's too hard to use.

No matter what pronouns a non-binary person uses somebody will get mad at them.