Columbina is pro willo!

And you should be too

[pro-willo-columbina]

Hello! We decided to make this blog in hopes of spreading joy and positivity!

Our names are Juniper, Fallen, Melek, and Kice Manito, though we will also respond to Columbina! we use it/its and fell/fells pronouns, alongside preferring thou/thee/thy/thine as opposed to you/your when being addressed.

We are a mixed origin DID system that aligns more with our non-traumagenic side. If you’re confused about how this works or have any questions, feel free to ask!

This blog for all systems of all origins to exist together in a safe space and spread positivity, awareness, stories, ideas, and also a place to vent if need be

We will be making informative posts about non traumagenic systems, alongside polls, ask games, activities for systems to do, debating with antis, and answering all sorts of asks!

We do ask that if you are venting to include any warnings that may be applicable to the top of the post, to let us know if you do not want it posted, and to not name drop anyone for the sake of avoiding drama, please and thank you

Anyone can interact! We have no DNI, though we will make it known we are proship, pro para, heavily radqueer critical, pro good faith identities, and pro researched self diagnosis. Regardless, we do not mind if anyone who disagrees with those stances interacts in good faith and remains civil, we also do not mind anti willos/anti endos interacting if the conversation is kept civil, otherwise we will simply delete any ask that is rude or only looking to get a reaction out of us

Tagging system:

#columbina reblogs - reblogged posts

#columbina sings - text posts made by us

#order in the court - debates / civil arguments

#you have been heard - answered asks

#little dove - anonymous asks

#curious columbina - fun system specific questions or activities posts

#flock voting - poll posts

#all about the doves - ask games

#the moons weep - vent posts

#the moons align - informative posts

Anons:

[tba]

pearl dividers - @uzmacchiato

columbina top & bottom dividers - @moonkn1ghtz

pfp & banner - @dearestluka

[pro-willo-columbina]

wait i. i didn't realize that you're allowed to want to be plural. ive always felt a connection with it but never did anything because i was sure i was a singlet, and i was scared of wanting that being rude.

wanting to be plural isn’t rude at all. It’s typically anti endos saying that wanting to be plural is ableist because it’s wanting a disorder, but plurality isn’t inherently disordered, and wanting a disorder isn’t necessarily ableist and is actually commonly a sign that something is already wrong. But wanting to just be plural in general is completely okay and not too uncommon in plural spaces

[pro-willo-columbina]

I find it so peeving when anti endos ask for genuine resources, but when I provide many, I’m just constantly told they’re not going to all of that. Why would you ask and then not look through what I provide? Even when I give a smaller list, or even just one or two studies, it’s met with resistance and denial to read it. Why are you going to ask for proof and then completely ignore it and argue about it being fake if you don’t even look at it??

[pro-willo-columbina]

i dont really know where one of my alters (a fictive) came from and i dont really know much about endogenic/willo or whatever but im knda confused help me cuz everyone else is traumagenic aside from this guy who came outta no where for no reason

hes a sourcemate to me (im a fictionkin) and i found myself missing him and well, a couple weeks later he was in my head and im sure hes an alter and not me just making stuff up but nothing happened that would make me split so if you dont mind how do endo/willos work because im super confused rahhh

Well, endogenic is a very broad term that can mean literally anything that isn’t traumagenic. Willogenic is when one intentionally creates alters, so if your headmate was willogenic, he would had to have been intentionally created. If everyone is unsure of why he split and labels is something you find important, you could through -genic terms here on tumblr or pluralpedia.org has a good list of -genic terms. Otherwise, labeling the why or how isn’t necessarily required if just leaving it as “it is what it is” would be preferable

[pro-willo-columbina]

how do i use thou/thee/thine pronouns? ^^

Here are some simple explanations +examples!

[pro-willo-columbina]

hi! 🐾 anon again!

we did a good amount of talking and thinking and doing general system vibe checks and, also taking thine advice, we decided we were gonna go through with it!

i mean i have my doubts on how accurate it is to say we're like, 100% willo'ing hxm in because we went with someone our brain had already latched onto so it may be a fragment of sorts that we're kind of shaping but? either way we're setting up a new headmate now and we are super excited about it!!

we just wanted to update thee because it was thine thoughts on the matter that tipped the scales. if thou would like, we'd love to keep thee posted on our progress with hxm :D no pressure though, we do not want to bother thee.

(also bonus - 1. said character is a mixtive but is almost all a genshin character! and 2. our headmate that speaks mostly in early-modern english is having a lot of fun with the fact that thou use thou/thee/thine :3 )

- 🐾 anon!

I would love to hear about y’all’s progress if you are comfortable sharing such. It also definitely helps to have others there for you when you first start, as it can be confusing and sometimes a little daunting creating new alters oneself. And if you ever wish, our DMs are open as well, we really do not mind and even encourage people to reach out to us. Aha, we have a running joke that Genshin is a system magnet

And how nice! We’re very glad that someone seems to be able to speak as they normally would without issue

[pro-willo-columbina]

hello! i'm sorry if this is a weird ask at all but i figured a pro-willo blog would be able to assist with this?

so lately, one of us (at least i believe it is just one?) has been fairly into the idea of saying "we should introject [xyz character]". i can't tell if she's serious or not? maybe 50/50?

i really don't think a new person would have a good time if we did that? like i do not mind gaining new headmates at all. but i'm not sure i'm prepared for another person and i'm certainly not sure how all of that would work. plus our lockhost is a mess of a guy for whatever reason (the brain likes putting its weakest soldier on the front lines i guess?) and i wouldn't want more people to have to babysit it lol (it's me i'm the mess of a lockhost. send help.)

at the same time though, these are characters we like, and as a skeleton crew of very tired people an extra set of hands or two would be appreciated. plus, more friends!

i don't know. on the one paw i kind of want to, but on the other that sounds very impulsive and rash. and we will of course discuss it all together at some point, but i wanted an outside opinion - and we are also quite blurry at the moment due to stress so it's a little? difficult? to communicate as properly as we'll need to.

ugh. tl;dr help? is willo'ing in some people a good idea, or should we wait for the brain to decide when our headcount increases? is it a much better idea to wait until we're more stable to try it, or is it possible that we could cope better with an additional person?

note we are traumagenic and formed primarily due to loneliness and exclusion (as far as i know anyway) so more head friends genuinely might help. or... something. and we're all fictives ourselves so no worries about us having certain expectations about how they would act.

sorry, that was longer than i intended. there's no need to answer if thou dost not desire to. we can also answer any other questions in a follow-up ask :)

- 🐾 anon (to find this later)

Hello anon, I will start this with it is entirely subjective and in the end, up to you. We were very nervous and hesitant before we willo’d any headmates and even for a bit after, however now after willo’ing quite a few, we find it fun and incredibly helpful.

It could absolutely be beneficial to you. If you do decide to willo anyone, I would recommend trying to do so with little to no distractions in as calm as a state of mind as you can get. We usually try to meditate while we willo headmates to increase the chance of our headmates being more developed and closer to how we desire them to be.

I will say there is always a risk that they could turn out nothing like you wanted or thought they would, and there is a chance they may not front much at all. Though, even with that in mind, I still believe it would be worth a shot.

If you do decide to, it’s best to help introduce them to things, give them a basic rundown of yourself, how you present yourself, your relationships to people, any school and/or work, and needed facts about your life and let them figure out who they are fully after being made. It can take a bit to adjust, but we personally have had a lot of self improvement from willo’ing alters.

[emo-orerats]

To all endogenic/non traumagenic systems :

I'm sorry that your existance is boiled down to a stance. You are more than a topic of debate, theres more to you than just your system origins. It's disgusting that so much of the community, sometimes even on the pro endo side boils your entire existance down to if you're real or not.

You are real beings, with real lives. You are more than just "non traumagenic." I wish more people could see that

[pro-willo-columbina]

answering the question (´▽`ʃ♡ƪ)

when we were heavily dissociated and chilling with our pets, one alter (who wasn't new but had never seen our dogs before) blatantly looked at the one we were petting and said "This isn't my dog." ?????????

Ha, we’ve had similar encounters with our pets. Or alternatively, alters who have been dormant coming back and asking where our dogs are (unfortunately our dogs are not around anymore, but we do have a snake and a cat)

[pro-willo-columbina]

Confession time!

What is one of the funniest things someone in your system has said out loud?

[pro-willo-columbina]

I really want to make a pro-willo character blog because I’m done with doomscrolling the anti character blogs. We were crying last night. About something.

The problem is that we are (I think? Most likely?) traumagenic. And the character that first comes to mind, that all of us are obsessed with, that we would want to be for that, is a canon CDD system.

And I personally am more than a little scared about backlash for doing that. From the anti-endo crowd.

We already regularly get called a traitor as it is.

Apologies for replying so late anon, I was dealing with some issues. I will say that you either do it or you don’t. Backlash is inevitable, it happens, while I haven’t yet experienced any on this blog yet, I have experienced backlash on other blogs and on other social media platforms. It’s best to just ignore it and delete it if possible, the block button is your best friend. The less of a reaction you give, the more people will leave you alone. If you want to try and avoid a lot of backlash, try and go with a less popular character

[pro-willo-columbina]

tw lil vent about feeling like we’re faking our plurality

(feel free to delete if you need to)

basically we feel like we’re faking cause we don’t fully switch - is more like I’m stuck constantly in front but others come in from time to time (either in cocon or cofront)

so yeah we’re feel like we’re faking from time to time and it sucks :(

-🌸 (host)

Apologies for the late reply anon. Unfortunately that is a very common feeling to have in this situation, we used to feel the same and we know many others who also used to or still do. I can assure you that you are not faking as faking is a conscious decision. There is always a possibility of being wrong, but that doesn’t mean you can’t be plural, and I doubt you aren’t currently plural. Your experiences are your own, and only you get to say what’s going on with yourself.

[pro-willo-columbina]

Art thou actually a columbina fictive / dost thou havest one? We have one, and she's been kinda lonely so we were curious! If not, that's okay! She'll probably be better once we finish nod krai and know the lore.

Ah, no, we do not have a Columbina fictive, we just really like her character and relate to her. We do have other Genshin fictives (two Venti’s, Hu Tao, Baizhu, Furina, and Paimon), but we do wish to try and willo a Columbina

[pro-willo-columbina]

genuinely don’t understand hate against non-traumagenics :(

As something who used to be very anti endo, I can say from personal experience and being in those communities that is a lot of misinformation, refusing to understand another point of view, and a big chunk of misdirected anger. It is extremely unfortunate and I do hope that everyone will be able to learn and grow

[pro-willo-columbina]

It is entirely okay to want to be plural. It is okay to want to be more plural. There is no moral failing over the desire to become [more] plural. You are not faking a disorder. You are not ableist. You are not doing anything wrong. You are allowed to want to be [more] plural. You are allowed to look into becoming [more] plural. It is not bad. It is not gross. It is not evil. You are not evil. You are allowed to feel the way you do.

[pro-willo-columbina]

thank you for your latest post we really needed it :] /gen

Of course, everyone needs a reminder sometimes

[pro-willo-columbina]

You are real. With the amount of antis on social media, especially tiktok, and the amount of antis who always say any system not formed from osddid (or pdid or udd) is not real or impossible or faking, and the amount of antis who always put quotations and say “system” when they mean system, it’s important to remember that you are real. Others cannot dictate how you live. Others cannot dictate who you are. Antis are misinformed and ignorant, just ignore them and move on. You know yourself better than they do. There are others who believe in you. There are spaces for you. Even when it seems like there is nothing but hate everywhere, I promise that there is still love somewhere