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Is it a headmate? Is it a fragment? Is it a facet? Is it a persona? Am I subconsciously masking? Am I subconsciously/involuntarily otherlinking/copinglinking? Is it a kinshift? Is it a ’flicker? Is it age regression? Is it a mood? Is it impulsivity? Is it an intrusive thought that I’m reacting to? Is it genderfluidity? Is it pronoun/namefluidity?

Who knows! Who cares! I don’t need to stress about this, it doesn’t matter! It’s a mode that the “I” is in, the way I feel in that moment! And I will make a pluralkit/tupperbox/simplyplural for it so I can express myself and decide the rest later! Or never! These labels are a construct! Personhood itself is a construct! I don’t need to box myselves! I can just live!

In case you need them, here are some gentle reminders:

Your trauma is valid, no matter how "minor" others think it is.

Your origins are all valid; trauma isn't the only cause for a system's existence.

Persecutors are allowed to exist.

Protectors are allowed to make mistakes.

Caregivers are allowed to take breaks.

Littles are allowed to swear.

Hosts are allowed to step back.

It's okay for the smart sysmates to not know something.

It's okay for the tough ones to cry.

It's okay for the nice ones to stand up for themselves.

It's okay for the persecutors forgive.

It's okay for the protectors to let down their guard.

Anxiety holders are allowed to be calm.

Depression holders are allowed to feel happiness.

Mood boosters are allowed to be sad.

Anger holders are allowed to be happy

All of you are loved.

All of you are accepted on this page.

All of you deserve nice things.

All of you deserve to have good days.

You matter.

We love you. (platonically)

If you want to be a system you can be, this is your sign to become plural.

System roles are like a lot of labels, they're useful as self-descriptors to help both yourself and others better understand you but, when applied as rigid, prescriptive boxes that all must fit neatly into, they become unhelpful at best and often harmful and restrictive.

We keep seeing anti endos and willos. If you're pro endo or pro willo please interact - Host

𓎢𓎟𓎡 𓈒 System Positivity! ࿐

You are valid if:

You have Headmates/Alters/Roommates/Any other terms you use of any problematic source

You are Willogenic

You are Endogenic

You don’t know your origin

You are Traumagenic

You are Multi Origin

You are any other origin I have not listed

You are diagnosed

You are not diagnosed

You have Factives

You are Fictive heavy / Fictive only

You have little to no Fictives

You love your system

You are indifferent or unsure about your system

You have a low count or high count

You have a headspace or not

You are a singlet interested in plurality

You are valid even if you aren’t on this list! <3

“dni endogenic ‘systems’ (most of you are toxic anyways)”

can you show me. can you show me examples of most of the endo community being toxic. what exactly do we do that makes “most of us” toxic?

and what’s so.. nontoxic, about denying people’s lived experiences? what’s so nontoxic about making someone’s identity a debate point? what’s so nontoxic about treating endo systems like theyre less than, because you dont like them? what’s so nontoxic about using science to determine if someone’s identity is valid? what’s so nontoxic about tags like “endos die,” “endos aren’t real,” “endos are ableist,” “endos are an invasive species”

“(pro) endos are the toxic ones!!” meanwhile you guys are telling people to kill themselves and saying they aren’t real

Okay okay LISTEN UP everyone who might be reading this. If you're plural, you're VALID. If you have headmates, they're REAL. No fakeclaiming allowed because that's mean and invalidating. We don't do that here in my perfect plural world kk.

All plurals are beautiful and amazing! Traumagenic? Endogenic? Willogenic? Something else? Doesn't matter as long as it works for YOU AND YOURRR HEADMATES!!!!!

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-🃏🃏🃏 yes this is Teme's account I don't have one