#mixed origin safe

[theredstargalaxy]

In case you need them, here are some gentle reminders:

Your trauma is valid, no matter how "minor" others think it is.

Your origins are all valid; trauma isn't the only cause for a system's existence.

Persecutors are allowed to exist.

Protectors are allowed to make mistakes.

Caregivers are allowed to take breaks.

Littles are allowed to swear.

Hosts are allowed to step back.

It's okay for the smart sysmates to not know something.

It's okay for the tough ones to cry.

It's okay for the nice ones to stand up for themselves.

It's okay for the persecutors forgive.

It's okay for the protectors to let down their guard.

Anxiety holders are allowed to be calm.

Depression holders are allowed to feel happiness.

Mood boosters are allowed to be sad.

Anger holders are allowed to be happy

All of you are loved.

All of you are accepted on this page.

All of you deserve nice things.

All of you deserve to have good days.

You matter.

We love you. (platonically)

[thethreeofusalone]

“Haha, what do you mean not everyone forgets huge chunks of the day?” <- voice of a kid who doesn’t realize he shares custody of the brain

[skulkofroses]

System roles are like a lot of labels, they're useful as self-descriptors to help both yourself and others better understand you but, when applied as rigid, prescriptive boxes that all must fit neatly into, they become unhelpful at best and often harmful and restrictive.

[moved2mindwrms]

shout out to plurals who have little to no distinction between alters!

shout out to plurals who cant communicate internally!

shout out to plurals who have only a few alters in their sys!

shout out to plurals who dont have obvious switches, or noticeable differences when anyone is fronting!

shout out to plurals who have doubt or think their “faking”!

shout out to plurals who dont feel like their “plural enough”!

shout out to plurals who have a front stuck alter and hardly ever see or hear from anyone else in the system!

shout out to plurals whos parts are just them!

shout out to plurals who cant tell where they end and someone else begins!

none of these things make you not plural or any less plural than anyone else! you ARE plural, and just because your plurality doesn’t look exactly like everyone else’s doesn’t make your plurality “wrong”! your experience as a plural being is valid! your plurality is really and dont let anyone (including yourself) tell you any different!

[believeinthe-enemy]

the abrosexual and genderfluid to plural pipeline is real as hell

[nekomochimoe]

anti endos, dni. NOW.

"endos are so icky and gross and even if they're not faking they probably just have hidden trauma or BPD!!" shut up. ACTUALLY shut the fuck up. you use our inclusive resources and call it reclaiming. you dehumanize the people. the tens to hundreds to thousands of people in our heads. because you don't think we exist. you attack us. yell at us. throw us onto the ground. put the bad ones at the front of the line and but the good ones in the back. you desensitize and dehumanize and call us 'an invasive species'. AN INVASIVE SPECIES. way to go!! good job!! good job bullying people, attacking others and kicking back at your own community. making people turn themselves inside out. to try and find trauma they weren't ready for to feel validated. try to traumatize themselves so at least some of their alters will have an excuse. how disgusting of a person do you have to be? to think this way? to chew every endo up? and spit them out like gum? why do you act this way, i wonder? then you pretend you need safe spaces away from the minority. pretend that its a necessity? when it really isn't? you all disgust me.

[abyss-coalition]

Anti-endos get the fuck out of plural tags.

Plurality is such a broad spectrum, and the tags are supposed to be inclusive to anyone experiencing any form of plurality. Anti-endos and sysmeds should not be using plural tags because they are so set on plurality being only traumagenic, only disordered, this hyperspecific criteria that puts the rest of us at risk of at best hate, and at worst threats or suicide.

It's really not that hard to accept different experiences from your own. You wouldn't do this shit to people of a different sexuality or gender or race or disability, hopefully at least, so why do it to plurals? Autism and other disorders and disabilities exist on a spectrum, everything does. Why can you acknowledge that, but not when it applies to plurality?

There is no one set experience all humans—not just humans, but nonhumans, alterhumans, kins, and therians as well—are supposed to live by. It would be bullshit to assume that or try to force it onto anyone.

If you are anti-endo and/or sysmed, get the fuck out of plural tags. And please, tag your posts as anti-endo if you are one so the rest of us don't accidentally like your content or follow you and then find out you'd wish harm on any of us or say we're fake.

[thisisparamisia]

Okay, so, let's make something clear.

Anti-endogenics are ableist. I do not welcome ableists on my account.

[ID: Anti-endogenics are ableist. I do not welcome ableists on my account.]

I am a mixed origin system. Specifically protogenic-traumagenic-stressgenic, meaning we were plural for as long as we can remember, far before any trauma happened, and when trauma did occur our plurality skyrocketed and dissociation grew worse.

And before y'all come here saying "oh so you're faking" - I'm literally diagnosed with DID.

Being endogenic =/= not having a dissociative disorder, and being traumagenic =/= having a dissociative disorder.

Even the DSM agrees (and although I don't think the DSM should be considered gospel, many of you anti-endos use it like one.) See my breakdown of that here [link.]

I am so disappointed if you felt comfortable coming onto my account while believing I'm not real. My headmates existence are not a "debate." We are not a fucking "stance point." You're either for our existence or you're not.

Why is it that every dissociative disorder can occur without trauma except for plural dissociation in y'all's minds?

DPDR can occur without trauma. Maladaptive daydreaming disorder can occur without trauma. Dissociation is not trauma exclusive and never has been.

Fuck right off with that total bullshit, and fuck right off with the idea of plurality being inherently dissociative anyways.

My account is not safe for ableists.