Boulevard of Broken Dreams...

Gryffindor, member of MCRmy, Potterhead, companion of the Doctor, Hiddlestoner, member of the CumberCollective, Hunter, Galaxy Defender, Nerdfighter, amateur consulting detective, profiler in the BAU from the FBI, member of Torchwood, escaped con from Fox River State Penitentiary, dreamer. I post things that make me laugh, cry, think, remind me to be a better person & express how I feel. Enjoy & DFTBA :D

[gifcraft]

Darian Sperry 180 lb (81.65 kg) snatch

[chopstax]

Jesus christ <3

[nonespark-blog]

the dudes losing their shit in the background.

this gif makes me excited.

[vaultedmind-deactivated20160716]

^

[queerwoc]

Alexa|28|Lisbon

queeringstyle.tumblr.com

[queeringstyle]

I can do the ‘What?’ face. =P 

[luvinchris]

Chris Evans - GQ Photo shoot 2011

[shinyjpg]

It was so pink it didn’t even look real

[forassgard]

x

[marauders4evr]

“But this other person with a disability can _______ so why can’t you?”

*Goes up to the nearest abled person*

“Look, why the fuck haven’t you climbed Mount Everest yet!? Other people can do it so why can’t you!?”

[persephunee]

You are the blue in my eyes

[chrishemsworht]

hey, it’s a meme - [3/7 celebrity crushes] - Taron Egerton

“I don’t want to look back at my career and see a string of incredibly commercial projects that don’t have much heart. I’m looking for things that have soul.”

[batmansymbol]

one of the most important things to me about harry potter is its portrayal of happiness. in the harry potter world, happiness isn’t just a feeling—it’s a weapon. look at how harry and his friends fight: with riddikulus, laughter stymies a creature made of fear; with expecto patronum, the very memory of happiness beats back the grim forces of depression.

the weaponization of positivity stretches beyond that. fred and george weasley’s inventions, meant for laughter, turn into arms against umbridge’s regime. and after their departure from hogwarts, their joke shop becomes not only the single bright spot in diagon alley (literally & figuratively) but a hub of defensive magic. the whole weasleys’ wizard wheezes narrative serves as maybe the clearest example in the series that happiness can act as both shield and sword.

there is something deeply empowering in a depiction of happiness as something so tangible and usable. as a profoundly depressed person, i often feel myself scrounging for happy memories and clutching them close; i find myself grasping for laughter in the dark. the physicalization of expecto patronum is not a quantum leap from reality. the boggart’s laughter as combat fuel, the weasleys’ levity as not just a choice but a difficult and defiant one—it’s all familiar.

the series has its share of darkness, but it revels most in the light. it lets us believe that the act of joy is not small, trivial, or inconsequential. happiness is something not just to be lived—it is to be wielded, on your own behalf and the behalves of the people around you, to battle against the world’s heavier elements. harry potter teaches us this.

[toodrunktofindaurl]

Shut up Thompson, this is totally how season 2 is gonna start.

(”inspiration”: those damn spoilers)

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“beautiful things don’t ask for attention” ok but that’s just plain wrong since i, for one, am extremely attention-seeking

[darrensaronofsky]

[sourceofmybruises]

Secret Origins #6: Wonder Woman

[thefingerfuckingfemalefury]

Diana’s having none of your shit <3

[ayellowbirds]

Those last two lines are so important, though. 

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

Errors in Thinking that Create Anxiety

1. All-or-nothing thinking: Looking at things in black-or-white categories, with no middle ground (“If I fall short of perfection, I’m a total failure.”)

2. Overgeneralization: Generalizing from a single negative experience, expecting it to hold true forever (“I didn’t get hired for the job. I’ll never get any job.”)

3. The mental filter: Focusing on the negatives while filtering out all the positives. Noticing the one thing that went wrong, rather than all the things that went right.

4. Diminishing the positive: Coming up with reasons why positive events don’t count (“I did well on the presentation, but that was just dumb luck.”)

5. Jumping to conclusions: Making negative interpretations without actual evidence. You act like a mind reader (“I can tell she secretly hates me.”) or a fortune teller (“I just know something terrible is going to happen.”)

6. Catastrophizing: Expecting the worst-case scenario to happen (“The pilot said we’re in for some turbulence. The plane’s going to crash!”)

7. Emotional reasoning: Believing that the way you feel reflects reality (“I feel frightened right now. That must mean I’m in real physical danger.”)

8. ‘Shoulds’ and ‘should-nots’: Holding yourself to a strict list of what you should and shouldn’t do and beating yourself up if you break any of the rule

9. Labeling: Labeling yourself based on mistakes and perceived shortcomings (“I’m a failure; an idiot; a loser.”)

10. Personalization: Assuming responsibility for things that are outside your control (“It’s my fault my son got in an accident. I should have warned him to drive carefully in the rain.”)

Source: http://www.helpguide.org/mental/anxiety_self_help.htm

[sailingtowardslou]

“You’re like a song that I heard when I was a little kid but forgot I knew until I heard it again.” sketchbook watercolor of harry

x

[capandcarter-blog]

Agent Director Peggy Carter in the 21st century AU where she’s living in Avengers tower and ‘Oh look, Thor’s left his hammer on top of those files I need. Silly bugger.’

Thor and Steve walk into the room as she picks it up, retrieves her stack from the coffee table, nonchalantly places mjolnir back down. “What are you two gaping at!?” Thor shakes Steve’s hand and proceeds to parade her around the tower on his shoulders, loudly declaring her worthiness.

[shatterpath]

why is this not on my feed????

[septemberbells]

When they ask why she’s unruffled, she responds with “I know my value.”

[toodrunktofindaurl]

my hand slipped

[egg-rolls]

one time i got a sample from the tea store at the mall and as i walked away the guy said “tea you later” and then his coworker smacked him