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(updated as of 2/12/2024)

Hello! This is a blog I've been running for about 7 years now (feels weird saying that) for the purpose of compiling identities and flags into one spot! I don't reblog all possible identities, and moreso reblog/post identities I think are cool, interesting, or are something I want to reference later.

~About Me~

I'm a 23 year old nonbinary trans guy that has been out and transitioning since I was 15. I use only he/him pronouns, and consider myself gay, demisexual/romantic, and greyplatonic. Queer identities has been a special interest of mine since I realized that I wasn't exactly binary and went down a huge rabbit hole to figure out what words fit me best (and took me until I was 21 to fully realize I could be both nonbinary and a trans guy lol). During that journey, I realized the knowledge I'd retained could be used to help others that have also struggled with their gender (and orientation) journey. Compiling identities into one space has helped me a lot with that!

"Why don't you have a lot of posts about xenogenders and (insert gender system here)?"

It's not because I don't think those terms are valid. They are and I'm happy when people find words that fit them and make them feel comfortable. For me, though, with identities like xenogenders, given as there's so many endless possibilities, this blog would essentially end up being "overrun" by those with less visibility to the ones I really want to reference later. There's lots of awesome xenogender blogs I heavily reccomend you follow if you're looking for that! This is a similar story for why I don't reblog a bunch of alternate or themed flags for terms/flags that already exist. I'm always happy to reblog *updated* flags and more visually friendly alternatives, but tbh this blog is pretty "basic". (Note that there may always be exceptions/something "random" here and there)

Do I accept requests/submissions/questions?

I don't really make flags anymore or edits, so I don't do those requests anymore. I don't mind submissions! But there's no guarantee I'll post them, feel free to if you want, though! Lastly, I am always happy to try and answer questions. I can't guarantee I'll always have an answer, and I may not be able to direct you to someone who can, but I'll always do my best and worst case scenario, I post the ask in hopes someone who comes across it can help better! Also! I cannot give an accurate timeline of when your ask will be answered. I'm not consistently on Tumblr and I can go from checking every few days to not thinking about it for a week or more.

One last note before I move on to my DNI

I'd like to note that this I've been running this blog for such a long time, since I was a teenager, I did once hold some exclusionary mindsets (I was confused about xenogenders for one example and wasn't kind about that.), and in some cases being "on the fence". I've posted about this before but basically, I've gone back pretty far and deleted as much as I could find, but I can't guarantee that some things didn't slip through the cracks. If you see something really old on this blog that is exclusionary, just know I don't hold those beliefs anymore.

DNI criteria:

Please do not interact if:

*tr/nsmed, T/RF, aphobic, ableist, racist, or any other form of bigotry.

*you're a purely NS/FW blog. I don't want younger followers seeing adult content blogs reblogging my flags, so please don't reblog to any blogs that are mature in content.

*you stigmatize any mental health disorders, I don't wanna see that

*Pro-ED blogs or any other blogs that encourage genuinely harmful behaviors (I'm not sure if this form of content goes by any other name now?)

*Post a lot of gore/blood. Just a personal thing, not me hating or judging!

*people who want to start discourse. I really don't want this blog to be related to discourse in any way.

aro-ace-chaos

Aspec Glossary: SAM

What is the Aspec Glossary?

The SAM (split-attraction model) is a model used in psychology and in aspec spaces that treats sexual and romantic orientation as two separate and distinct things. Under this model, while many people's sexual orientation and romantic attraction are aligned, not everyone's does.

Using the split-attraction model, someone could be:

aromantic asexual (aroace) - experiencing little to no romantic or sexual attraction

alloromantic asexual (alloace) - experiencing typical romantic attraction, but little to no sexual attraction

aromantic allosexual (aroallo) - experiencing little to no romantic attraction, but typical sexual attraction

Furthermore, someone could be panromantic and homosexual, or homosexual and biromantic, or any other combination of sexual and romantic orientation.

The split attraction model is primarily used by people who are on either the aromantic or asexual spectrum, but it is not exclusive to aspecs, and not all aspecs use the split attraction model.

For some people, their romantic and sexual orientation are interlinked, while for others they are distinct things.

Someone whose romantic and sexual orientations align is perioriented (ex. panromantic pansexual). Someone whose romantic and sexual orientations differ is varioriented (ex. biromantic homosexual).

#aro #ace #aroace #aromantic #asexual #aromantic asexual #aromanticism #asexuality #aspec #SAM #acespec #arospec #split attraction model #aspec glossary #terms #flags

beyond-mogai-pride-flags

Juvelic Flag

Juvelic: a category of orientations that are defined based on one's gender(s) and the gender(s) that one is attracted to. Juvelic orientations can be exclusive (lacking attraction to genders not mentioned in an orientation's definition) or non-exclusive.

The rainbow colors of the flag represent the spectrum of genders and attraction types that juvelic orientations refer to. The seven stripes are meant to be an analogue to the seven-stripe lesbian and gay flags. The green, yellow, and orange squares also represent gemstones and jewels, the namesake of juvelic.

Although I coined the term years ago, this is the first flag I've made for the term. Others have made flags since my coining post.

Term coined in 2018 by myself (Mod Light), flag made 2026-05-28.

#juvelic #orientation #sexuality #lgbtq #lgbtqia

normystical

Aspengirl

Female in a rugged way, or otherwise a type of feminine gender that, unlike most other feminine genders, is associated with qualities that most may associate with masculinity. This does not necessarily mean that every aspengirl must present in a rugged manner; rather, it is more comparable to how the average rosboy has an internal gender identity associated with ruggedness, despite behaving, thinking, and presenting in a more delicate manner on the contrary. For an aspengirl, rugged traits are deeply feminine in nature on their own, and have nothing to do with masculine gender nor even masculinity.

Mollenboy

Male in a delicate way, or otherwise a type of masculine gender that, unlike most other masculine genders, is associated with qualities that most may associate with femininity. This does not necessarily mean that every mollenboy must present in a delicate manner; rather, it is more comparable to how the average azurgirl has an internal gender identity associated with delicateness, despite behaving, thinking, and presenting in a more rugged manner on the contrary. For a mollenboy, delicate traits are deeply masculine in nature on their own, and have nothing to do with feminine gender nor even femininity.

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The "aspen" in aspengirl is a butchering of the root "asper-" meaning "rough." The "mollen" in "mollenboy" is a combination of the root "moll-" meaning "soft" and "leni-" meaning "gentle."

An individual can be both an aspengirl and a mollenboy at once, just as the same logic applies to traditional binary male and female. (Admittedly, this coining was inspired by me seeing multiple genderfluid artists with a gentle male persona and a rowdy female persona.)

roadkillwitchcraft

hey so i created a “femme non binary witches” pride flag. use it if you’d like. i just wanted to do it for fun

luxiomahariel

@radiomogai

#fem #femme #nonbinary #nonbinary witch #fem nonbinary witch #genderqueer

genderaverse

vesindifference

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an agender/genderless spectrum term underneath vesidentity(link) for when there is indifference in place of where your gender would be or in the absence of your gender.

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@radiomogai @io-archival @vampitsm @missilia-mogai @bloodifang @acronym-chaos @emailmeurheart @angelomour @rabidbatboy

#pride flag #nonbinary #agender #agender spectrum #vesindifference #genderqueer

storyshift-mogai

Introducing Obsessick.

[pt: Introducing Obessick.]

This term is called Obsessick, as in [Obsess]ion + Sick. I made this term as an alternative to other terms out there, like yandere or lovesick, because I either didn't like the term or just didn't feel like they described me properly.

Obsessick is about obsessive love that makes you or others feel sick. It's about having (consensual) relationships that would make others call you sick. It's about obsession, adoration and love in a twisted, loving bundle.

I don't expect others to use this term, though if others do, I welcome it. This is a part of myself I am putting out here incase others like me find that no other word just fits right. This term encompasses all love that makes you feel such ways, not just romantic love.

If there's questions, please ask.

flagtism

an alternative crossdresser flag.

flags for crossdressing enben, crossdressing men, & crossdressing women respectively.

symbol from here.

flags by us. for cam. tagging @radiomogai.

beyond-mogai-pride-flags

Xenoexpressive Pride Flag

Xenoexpressive: Where one expresses in a way that feels connected to their Xenogender. (So for example someone who is Sungender may wear clothes with Sun Aethistics if said person feels that feels connected to their gender)

Softboymoding Pride Flag

Softboymoder (softboy+boymoder): Where someone expresses in a boyish way, but the person does not feel said expression is strongly masculine.

Softgirlmoding Pride Flag

Softgirlmoder (softgirl - girlmoder) Where someone expresses in a girly way, but the person does not feel said expression is strongly feminine.

Labels coined by Neotendo. source

mogaitubby

☆!! Demitrans Labels !!☆

Demitransmasc | Demitransfem

Demitransneu | Demitransmascfem

When someone is partially trans and partially sometihing else!

Pronounced: ( deh - me - trans - mask/fem/new/maskfem )

○ Originally posted to mogai-skeleton

#demitrans #demitransmasc #demitransfem #demitransneu #demitransmascfem #gender #nonbinary #transgender

givemecoins

Viawoman/Viagirl | Viaman/Viaboy

Viawoman/Viagirl: relating to having an experience similar to a binary womanhood, while not being 100% a binary woman. Ex: Juxera, Xirl, Paragirl, etc.

Viaman/Viaboy: relating to having an experience similar to a binary manhood, while not being 100% a binary man. Ex: Proxvir, Xoy, Paraboy, etc.

See Viabinary.

I don't know if there are already flags for these identities, but I wanted to make some for myself. The symbolism of the circles is to represent this relationship of proximity to binary genders, while being their own thing.

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@radiomogai

#viawoman #viagirl #viaman #viaboy #viabinary #nonbinary

jaidenrose

Demetic attraction flag

attraction to everyone except for masculine male-aligned people

the terms for forms of attraction would be Demetisexual, Demetiromantic, etc.

tbh idk whether this flag should serve as a blanket for all forms of demetic attraction but i guess it will until someone makes ones for the others

What the lines mean:

1: Hot pink (Attraction to Feminine female-aligned people)

2: Pink (Attraction to Feminine nonbinary-aligned people)

3: Light pink (Attraction to Feminine male-aligned people)

4: Almost white but still pink (Attraction to Masculine female-aligned people)

5: Light orange (Attraction to Masculine nonbinary-aligned people)

6: Lighter red (Attraction to Androgynous masculine-aligned people)

7: Light red (Attraction to Androgynous nonbinary-aligned people)

8: Red (Attraction to Androgynous female-aligned people)

jaidenrose

by the way! the copyright info!

#demetic #msepc #multisexual #multiromantic #polysexual #orientation

scarfflag

Motic

An orientation where one is attracted to everyone except masculine men & feminine women. This can also be defined as being attracted to GNC (gender-nonconforming) individuals.

This mainly includes masculine & androgynous/neutral women; feminine & androgynous/neutral men; and any sort of non-binary/genderqueer/etc. person.

A motic individual may or may not consider an androgynous/neutral non-binary person to be GNC, so they may or may not include them in their orientation.

Derived from the terms "tomboy" and "mollygirl", and is inspired by the word "mottle".

May or may not describe exclusive attraction. Can be considered a preference within a bi/omni orientation.

Can be shortened to "moti-" for terms like motisexual and motiromantic.

#motic #mspec #multisexual #multiromantic #polysexual #poly-

vtubergender

✦⠀⠀⠀⠀┈⠀⠀⠀⠀﹙Deloattractional｡﹚

(pt: Deloattractional) (tagging: @radiomogai)

Recoin 3.0 of Deloattractional, coined by me on my oldest account (boygirlkangel), it is defined as experiencing no attraction aside from one single type, so for example experiencing 0 attraction types aside from Sexual attraction, this could also be connected with other orientation labels. (ex: lesbian deloattractional, cupiosexual deloattractional.)

io-archival

@radiomogai

#Deloattractional #delloattractional #delo #orientation #aspec

themogaidragon

Delloaroace

PT: Delloaroace /end PT

ID: A flag with four horizontal stripes of different sizes. Their colors are, from top to bottom, white, orange, blue and black. The two lines in the center are way smaller than the other ones. There is a grey chevron on the left side of the flag. End ID

Delloaroace: experiencing attraction to multiple genders and experiencing allosexual and alloromantic attraction to some genders, but demisexual and demiromantic one towards other genders.

For example, a delloaroace person may require a close emotional bond with a woman before experiencing any attraction, but they do not need such a connection in order to be attracted to a man.

Delloaroace can be a orientation on its own or can be combined with other orientations.

For example, one could be delloaroace and polysexual, dellopolyaroace.

Term coined by @themogaidragon.

scarfflag

Coining more Neutrois Centrigenders

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Centrigender Flag Designs

Gynx , Androgyne , Androx

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Tangi , Neutrangi , Neutraisse

⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻⸻

scarfflag

made a better chart to illustrate this

queerflagswithbenton

This is cool! Love the chart

thatpridedesigngeek

Protective/Docile Attraction Labels & Flags

First, I will define these for anyone not caught up to speed

Protective attraction: also known as tutelary or dominant attraction, a tertiary attraction describing a desire to provide for, care for, protect and guide someone or an animal, e.g. a child, pet, friend, family member or partner. Flags

Docile attraction: also known as submissive or cedural attraction, a tertiary attraction describing a desire to provide for, care for, protect and guide someone or an animal, e.g. a child, pet, friend, family member or partner. Flags

Docile attraction, to me, sounds more familiar to most people, plus doesn't sound too similar to D/s terminology (submissive). I will still include alternative names with the -submissive & -dominant suffixes if you prefer to use them. I felt "docile" more complimented protective than cedural or submissive.

In this post, I will use docile/cedural and tutelary/protective attraction interchangeably.

The shortening from -docile to -dove is inspired by the peaceful nature of doves, including needing a lot of gentle love and care to be happy: Source 1 Source 2

Notes:

These are not the same as BDSM D/s dynamics because tutelary and cedural attraction are emotional attraction subtypes (source). Like other emotional attraction subtypes, protective and docile attraction can develop into coexisting with sexual or romantic attraction later.

You don't need to be involved in BDSM, kink or be sexually or romantically attracted to experience either attraction. You can be both a D/s and protective &/or docile attraction, as well.

You can absolutely be aromantic, asexual or aroace and experience protective and/or docile attraction, as they are tertiary attractions (or attractions outside of sexual and romantic).

Now onto the new terms

Demiprotective (left): Only having tutelary attraction after a deep, emotional bond has been formed. Can also be called demidominant or demitutelary. Shortened to Demipro.

Demidocile (right): Only having cedural attraction after a deep, emotional bond has been formed. Can also be called demicedural or demisubmissive. Shortened to Demidove.

Frayprotective (left): The opposite of demiprotective, or only expericing tutelary attraction with people or animals they don't have a deep, emotional bond with. When they develop an emotional bond, the attraction fades away. Can also be called Fraydominant or Frayprotective. Shortened to Fraypro.

Fraydocile (right): The opposite of demidocile, or only expericing cedural attraction with people or animals they don't have a deep, emotional bond with. When they develop an emotional bond, the attraction fades away. Can also be called Fraysubmissive or fraycedural. Shortened to Fraydove.

Greyprotective (left): Having tutelary attraction rarely or only under certain circumstances. Can also be Greytutelary or Greydominant. Shortened to greypro.

Greydocile (right): Having cedural attraction rarely or only under certain circumstances. Can also be called Greysubmissive or Greycedural. Shortenend to Greydove

Aprotective (left): someone who does not experience tutelary attraction. Can also be called adominant or atutelary. Shortened to Apro.

Adocile (right): someone who does not experience cedural attraction. Can also be called Acedural or asubmissive. Shortened to Adove.

Tucerian (top left): someone who experiences both tutelary/protective and cedural/docile attraction, whether at the same time or not.

combination of tutelary + cedural

Demitucerian (top right): someone who does not experiences both tutelary and cedural attraction until they have a deep, emotional bond.

Fraytucerian (bottom left): someone whose tutelary and cedural attractions fade away as they develop an emotional bond with the person or animal; opposite of demitucerian.

Graytucerian (bottom middle): someone who experiences both tutelary and cedural attraction rarely or only in certain circumstances.

Atucerian (bottom right): someone who does not experience neither tutelary nor cedural attraction.

flagtism

@radiomogai

radiomogai

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