Manic? Never

[sugas6thtooth]

Remember Hind. Remember Reem. Remember all the little boys and girls who are more than mere numbers. They are dreams, humanity's innocence, and most importantly they are not to be forgotten.

[quixoticlyqueer]

I hate the summer. June, July, and August are nothing but misery and traumatic memories.

[pajamaslam-deactivated20190101]

my friend just sent me this and i am going to explode

[thebabbagepatch]

[screamtrain]

Pretty much, yeah

[theperplexedpoet]

Yup

[quixoticlyqueer]

Back on tumblr for the first time in maybe three months and what greets me? How perfect.

[rabbitglitter-deactivated201906]

What do I need to do to have more energy? I sleep on a schedule now and I thought that was the root cause of my low motivation.

B12? Talk to me, people.

[quixoticlyqueer]

For me, depression is a massive loss of energy & cause of fatigue. Amphetamine helped.

[advicefromsurvivors]

Being abused can seriously affect your ability to distinguish between “not obviously pleased” and “obviously displeased” because abusers go from Neutral to Hostile for absolutely no discernible reason, and eventually you start worrying that everyone is going to be like that and you start feeling this urge to make absolutely sure that the people you actually care about aren’t mad or upset, because to you, “there’s no evidence that they’re not angry” is the same as “there’s evidence that they are angry”

[kiriamaya]

!!! this thing! this thing right here!

[quixoticlyqueer]

things for people to know

[061119920735]

Okay so, re: that ‘biggest lie is fighting is a part of a healthy relationship’ post

I think this is a dangerous post to circulate bc: young people are not given the tools to distinguish between conflict (which is naturally going to be present in every relationship and has the ability to be resolved in a healthy manner) and unhealthy fighting and aggression that serves no purpose.

Especially if a person has been previously exposed to unhealthy relationships, they may lack the tools to handle situations in an assertive (which is what we use to define healthy) rather than an aggressive or accommodating manner. I know SO many people, women especially, who actually think it’s healthy to repress their feelings or concerns because they don’t want to start a fight. And doing so further restricts their ability to develop these skills– and they do need devlopment, handling disagreements is not something that we all just innately know.

Responding in a maladaptive way can exacerbate unhealthy behaviors from a partner, putting that person at further risk and making them feel that their aggressive or accommodating behavior is more and more necessary and never presenting them with the opportunity to respond in in a healthy way and have that also received in a healthy manner.

We don’t focus enough on this skills-building part of relationships. It’s something I’m seeing again and again in the literature as I’m building this dating violence and healthy relationships training. So, given all that, I think that circulating a post that just says, “fighting is unhealthy” without any further context is a kinda reckless thing to do.

[drumaster802-deactivated2019051]

So I’m at Disney World

and the fam is asleep, what is there to do?

[quixoticlyqueer]

It's Florida, so Oxytocin and/or heroin tbqh. (sad self-indulgent drug policy activist jokes, yo!)

[micdotcom]

Watch: Jessica Williams also explained how the message has been in Beyoncé’s music all along.

[quixoticlyqueer]

I'm

[unamusedsloth]

Cats can be bros sometimes.

[zellah7]

bye i love this

[landunderthewave]

Man: Siri, what is 1 trillion to the tenth power? Siri: Calculation. The answer is one zero zero zero zero zero [continuing] Man: *starts beatboxing to the rhythm. Woman 1: *joins in* Woman 2: *starts singing to the rhythm*

[queeringfeministreality]

WHAT. THIS IS THE QUALITY CONTENT IM HERE FOR.

[sufferingsappho-deactivated2017]

I just love this vine so much.

[bored-no-more]

[pelvicsorcery90]

heard you were—fuck

heard you—agh

heard you w—jesus gimme a sec—argh

heard you were talking shit

[bored-no-more]

[pelvicsorcery90]

heard you were—fuck

heard you—agh

heard you w—jesus gimme a sec—argh

heard you were talking shit

[saddestbpd]

when you feel so much younger than you are because you have spent your entire adolescence trying not to kill yourself instead of growing up

and now you are still alive but you don’t know how to take care of yourself and no one understands why it is so hard for you

[brokeassfeminist]

When you simultaneously feel so old because all the coping you’ve done has skewed your perspective of time, turning the minutes into hours into days, and you feel like you should’ve died years ago.

[kit-icarus]

When you don’t know how to make and complete long term goals because you figured you’d be dead by now anyway

[shorm]

When people ask you what you wanted to be when you grow up, and you aren’t sure because you weren’t expecting to survive high school

[hotlocalwizards]

i work as a barista & people tell me all the time that The Drinks Got Gender. Thats A Lady Coffee, people try to say

its fucking bean water

[nm-qttps-old]

can’t believe i can’t just reply to this but: maybe they’re actually telling you that this coffee has an important status. Lady Coffee

[hotlocalwizards]

oh shit i was in the presence of bean water royalty oh fuck i must have looked like such a rube. such a fool.

[hommedog]

what the fuck does this post mean ive been trying to decipher its hieroglyphic encrypted message but i cant

[hotlocalwizards]

“From a deconstructionist stand point, I have to disagree with a large portion of the customers that I, a humble barista tend to each day. The assertion that certain coffee drinks are more suitable for one gender or another is folly. For as we know: 1. gender is a social construct, & 2. coffee of any type is simply hot water strained through roasted beans, & has no greater affect on either culturally assigned sex.”

“What ho, kind friend! Is it not unfortunate that I cannot simply reply to this post, & most reblog it? What a farce, this blue website! Ah, but I digress: what if perhaps your customers were not asserting not the suitability of the drink for a given gender, but rather indicating some matter of status? Perhaps the coffee is possessing of a high rank in society. This is of course my purely grammatical viewpoint on the subject.”

“Oh, damnation! This does in fact seem much more likely than my own ludicrous assumptions, & I was no doubt in the presence of roasted bean royalty! Some emissary from foreign soil! Curses! What a country bumpkin I’ve made myself out to be!!”

[quixoticlyqueer]

quality tumblr today. quality.

[archiveofourpwn]

I can’t decide who is uglier, Ted Cruz or Benedict Cumberbatch.

[alfonsopoopoofattylll]

Ted Cruz. He looks like he’s wearing someone else’s face.

[archiveofourpwn]

Yes! He does! And he always has this weird expression on that I can’t quite decide.

But to be fair… Benedict Cumberbatch doesn’t even look like a human.

[cherryseltzer]

benedict cumberbatch looks like the being that’s underneath ted cruz’s human face mask

[quixoticlyqueer]

my sides have entered orbit

[starsberrisnunicorns]

MCU: Chronological Watch Order

This is so important.

[kallanda-lee]

This is actually useful