little lamb

27/No Minors

[r0pesandr0ses]

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☆ 27 ~ she/they

☆ 21+ to follow / interact; No Minors

☆Rope switch; I tie & get tied (I prefer to be tied)

☆I'm not looking for play partners

☆This blog is themed around kink, this is your warning

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[mikheevanora-deactivated2025062]

[onelittlekingdom]

Red Flags 101

Much Older Men

This one is rough for me to write about, because I am personally someone who has had some large age-gap relationships. In my recent history blogging here, I have a regrettable exchange where I pushed back against the idea that this should be a red flag, because I took it too personally at first.

There is an inherent power imbalance already embedded in all age gap relationships. Years of wisdom can be weaponized by someone with the wrong intentions. If you are a young sub in this community, be very cautious when someone dramatically older is pursuing you. Question if they are married. Question if you are the only young sub they are talking to. Take your time to glean their serious interest in you personally, and their good intentions. Make sure they aren’t just another dick following boy in a grown man’s body.

[freshpickle]

james mccrae

[hippie-babysitter-deactivated20]

[caluanthes]

THE PRINCESS BRIDE (1987), dir Rob Reiner

[queerandkinkier]

Aftercare

I’ve organized some of the things I need from aftercare (in person or long distance) into 4 components, and thought it could be helpful for others too! I’ve put some examples for each, but it will of course look different for everyone.

1. Physical Care/Needs -

Wiping away tears

Helping up from floor

Getting a warm towel

Soothing bruises

Getting a glass of water

2. Physical Comfort/Affection -

Gentle kisses and hugs

Holding eachother tight

Breathing with eachother

Cuddling and/or napping together

Brushing fingers through hair

3. Scene Validation -

“That was so fun/sexy”

“That felt so good when you ____”

“You were such a good ____ for me”

“I love the bruises/marks you gave me”

“Thank you for (carrying out some fantasy) with me”

4. Human Affirmations -

“I love you; I care about you”

“I’m so grateful to have you in my life”

“I always have a great time when I’m with you”

“You’re a wonderful/kind/etc person”

Mentioning a non-sexual part of your relationship that you like, or reiterating that you value eachother as more than just a sub/dom(me)

I think that this can work whether you have a deeper connection or a more casual play partner! I always feel best when all of these components are covered during aftercare.

These things can obv be done in person, and I think it’s also really important to give this kind of care when you’re long distance, even if it’s just through words after sexting… for example-

“When we were done, I would help you up and wipe away your tears, bring you a warm towel and make sure you’re ok. Then I’d love to cuddle, with your head on my chest, and give you forehead kisses while telling you how good you made me feel and how wonderful of a person I think you are.”

Thanks for reading! Be safe everyone 💕💕

[mutant-what-not]

[how2forgive]

what if I just decided to live without shame. what then

[californiagoddess]

[tornandwretched-deactivated2024]

it's October, so that means gently stroking her clit and fingering her while spooning her with my arm wrapped around her and her lazily grinding against me while we are watching a horror movie

[sadkoiz]

[fuckysuckybrigade]

boys go to Jupiter to get. On the compupiter :)

[noelle-ism]

girls go massachusetts to see some massivehugetits.

[pinnyy]

the world is so big and beautiful I just have to meow at it

[purplehazeplaysoffasamsung]

the world is not scary plus im strong as hell

[papayajuan2019]

[eunreal]

Me after putting on my mascara

[reptilianspecies]

[mrspider-deactivated20221213]

dating someone who knocks the fuck out as soon as they hit the sheets but you have had chronic insomnia since you were 7 but you both get sad if you guys dont hug to sleep is

[mrspider-deactivated20221213]

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