you don’t have to have sex with anyone for the sake of ideology. Sex isn’t activism. it isn’t charity, a favor, or a duty. nobody “deserves” sex, nobody can be “owed” sex, and nobody requires sex to live. a lack of sex will not kill anyone.
“No” is a complete sentence. You don’t have to explain your reasons, and there is never, ever a bad or inadequate reason to say no. Saying no will never make you a bad person. Saying no is not evil. Saying no to sex is not an act of violence.













