got your whole life ahead of you, you’re only 19

💜radical feminist💜 ⭐️lesbian⭐️ 🐦‍⬛ravenclaw🐦‍⬛

[rainbowfishyfem]

Intro post

Hey :) I’m a radfem who likes stuffed animals and baking. I’m 19. Not sure what else to put.

Anyways, here’s a list of the tags I use :)

#radblr and #radical feminism = pretty much everything on my blog that’s not a personal post

#radical feminist community = the above, but specifically posts that discuss community, solidarity, and/or friendship between radical feminists

#radical feminist theory = the above, but specifically posts that contain quotes of radical feminist books and/or points of radical feminist theory (such as anti-porn, gender criticism, etc)

#fishy’s feelings :) = posts that I like, are about me, or relate to my interests

#fishy’s feelings :( = posts that pertain to me in a sad/negative way and/or consist of me venting

[friendlyfreakazoid]

it’s kinda funny in a sad way that there was that research paper years back that found that lesbians are most likely to be victims of homophobic abuse by the various people in their lives (such as their parents, relatives, friends, coworkers, etc) but everyone decided to interpret it as if it were saying that lesbians are the most likely to abuse each other and then used that false info as a way of furthering the homophobic abuse against us 🙃

[friendlyfreakazoid]

No way a straight woman just reblogged this post claiming I’m being “heterophobic” and a “class traitor” (not even sure which class I’m supposedly betraying lol) by pointing out what the results of this study actually found 😭😭😭😭 you people are CRAZY!!

[occasionaltmblrforafreehero]

the study wasn't even about intra relationship violence?? What???

I was grossly lied to. Where can we read the original study?

[friendlyfreakazoid]

Here’s the original study: The National Intimate Partner and Sexual Violence Survey: 2010 Findings on Victimization by Sexual Orientation

The study found that LGB women were more likely to be victimized by abuse than men, which most people took to mean that lesbians were more likely to abuse each other, but if you read the study you’ll find that the majority of the perpetrators of abuse of these LGB women were men, not fellow women.

And here’s a helpful article that breaks down the rumors/misinformation that have spread as a result of people purposefully misinterpreting this original study and other similar studies: DEBUNKING THE LESBIAN DOMESTIC VIOLENCE DATA. Useful to help understand the statistics and scientific language of the studies and provides a lot of sources and further reading.

Obviously abuse can occur in lesbian relationships, because anyone can be an abuser no matter what demographic they belong to, but to claim that lesbian couples have the highest rate of domestic violence is objectively and provably false.

[tra-archive]

TIF confirming gender identity is just stereotypes.

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

so what tf are butch lesbian mothers? chopped liver?

[enchantingcheesecakepersona]

”aligns with the expectations of the female sex” 🫥 What are those expectations? 🫥

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

social media is amazing because it allows you to virtually “eavesdrop” on conversations between other people. look at these two idiots. these two idiots are just conversing like the things they’re saying make any sense. gynsexual is an attraction to femininity, but don’t actually call yourself that term because it’s actually about genitals, and anything about genitals and attraction means you’re reducing people to their genitals, oh okay thanks for informing me of that fact which is a real fact and not made up bullshit mixed with your personal opinion! these people walk amongst us. the person next to you in the aisle at whole foods could genuinely be issuing Paul Revere style warnings in tiktok comments to not refer to oneself as gynesexual, because it reduces people to their genitals. the person next to you in line at the pharmacy could be genuinely and with earnest sincerity be replying to gynesexual Paul Revere “omg thank you so much for letting me know!”. wow. truly amazing. it’s like I’m watching a nature documentary and marveling at the behavior of wild animals. these people actually interact with other human people in the real world, they might even have jobs, though it’s doubtful, and friends, also doubtful, and hobbies, although also doubtful. I guess I’m just issuing a reminder that there are people soooo deep into this bullshit that they are having conversations like these, about the ethics of using the term gynesexual, which as far as I know was made up because lesbian was no longer allowed to mean female homosexuality, and gynesexual represented only being attracted to female people, but actually that’s offensive too because it reduces someone to their genitals. these people need urgent medical help: removal of head from ass surgery followed by an immediate personality transplant.

[paulfrankjuliusthemonkey]

anyway. onto better things

[sburbling]

onto better things thursday

[guillotinafem]

20 bucks this guy has a sexual assault charge under his belt

[drbased]

What bigger imbalance of power is there than being vulnerable to being forcibly impregnated and having the ability to forcibly impregnate

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

okay so let's go with what he's saying: alright buddy, you weren't born with the rapist organ, you were born into the group with the power, in this whole rapist power imbalance. does that make you feel better?

[gnomebutch]

women are half of everyoneeee wdym the other half oppressed and subjugated us throughout all of history and still do in most places of the world. it’s half of everyone .

[lusciouslusciousliz]

it's utterly fascinating how many so-called allies believe both "not telling someone you're trans before sleeping with them is rape by deception" and "rapists deserve the death penalty/vigilante justice" at once. literally recreating the gay panic defense from first principles. and by fascinating I mean fucking sickening

[doingitatmybirthdaydinner]

so what part exactly do you disagree with? do you disagree with the concept that intentionally outright lying to someone about your sex in order to get them to sleep with you because you know they have a sexual orientation that excludes you is rape by deception, or do you disagree with the concept that all rapists should die?

what an interesting dichotomy to be against the gay panic defense because of it's obvious homophobia, but okay with transgender people lying to homosexuals with strict sexual boundaries in order to violate those boundaries and sleep with them under false pretenses. are you pro-gay or pro-sexually-violating-gays? hard to tell

[lesbofuturism]

The answer “Anyone who identifies as one” to the question “What is a woman?” is so dumb. What is a vegan? Anyone who identifies as one. What is an engineer? Anyone who identifies as one. What does it mean to be disabled? It means to identify as disabled. Like what kinda logic is that 😭

[radfemme-rage]

[anomalys-bane]

STOP! 🛑🤚 Before you claim a woman on the internet is policing your/anyone else's behavior, please consider the following.

-> Does she control government entities around us that can legally enforce her ideology? Can she actually suppress opinions or reduce people's freedom of expression?

-> Does she control your social position? Can she alienate you from your existing group on a whim?

-> Do her views/actions actually mirror the popular, widely accepted one in the contexts you frequent? Or is she an outlier?

-> Are you a member of a majority that she cannot control or escape?

-> Does she control your internet access or what you can post? Can she force you to read and follow her ideology?

-> Can she physically remove or suppress the media you/your group enjoy? Can she stop the production of such media? Does she occupy a powerful position in group that affects the existence of such media?

-> Can she actually physically, legally force you to stop whatever you are doing?

-> Does her opinion or criticism carry enough weight to directly, materially affect your life and wellbeing?

Chances are this is not the case. And chances are you have no idea what policing actually is. dumbasses

[tortellinigirl]

men really be like “well this woman has studied this subject her whole life, and i am a man, so we have equal knowledge on this”

[hcrzallerliebst-a-deactivated20]

it’s ok you could have just said “i hate men”

[tortellinigirl]

okay, i hate men

[1dietcokeinacan]

[prettyeyeslies]

Trans ideology be like “sex and gender are different” ok so why trans women want to join in female sports? You compete with your body not your pronouns

[iwanttolisten]

actually straight up i'm just gonna make my own post here. This is just a 2016-esque anti-"feminazi" take and nothing about what this person is complaining about even makes sense to construe as targeting trans women if they consider themselves female? These women venting through art about misogyny didn't even make any mention of penis or any kind of male anatomy?

Literally might as well say "don't make art about hating men, you might scare people if you don't consider people other than yourself in your personal art, and not all men are bad"

[zk-j]

“Where are the trans men in history?” See. When you're born a gender that was forcefully married off, who had to live most of their life indoors, when you had to raise children, and had a lobotomy if your family thought you were a tad too odd, it's kinda hard to come out as a trans man now ain't it.

[teefiesworld]

forever my lineage would use his wrong pronouns but not me

[niiwa-angel]

Soooo, none of you think that the women pretending to be men actually were women, they just lived in a time where women aren't even seen as people so they pretended to be men to avoid being harmed? Do you think every other woman at the time was just fine being married off, having no future or purpose in life beyond wife/mother? Do you think no other women in the past had ambitions? You don't think women would disguise themselves to avoid being harmed??

You people have such a deficit of critical thinking skills it's actually disgusting.

[lesbofuturism]

transwomen don’t even see themselves as women because when a feminist talks about women’s issues, they riot because THEY assume it’s excluding them 💀

[hurupasyt]

The only thing this Paris Mwendwa discourse has taught me is that trans women really believe that they are synonymous with black women. Like they truly believe that white women are the default women and the rest of us are some type of woman, but not really women. The idea that racism and gender criticism are even close to being the same thing really proves to me that they don't know what oppression is. But we really can't expect much from people who think not being allowed to be feminine is the same level of harm as girls having their genitals cut off.