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agott in glasses :] lets match with papa
backlog part 3…
sorrrrrrta fell off the hsr bandwagon but here are some guys i drew anyway ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
and that concludes the hoyo backlog excursion
sneaking away from the party.. 🌙💗
The strongest
'love is the most twisted curse of them all'
google // the song of achilles, madeline miller// heavy, the marías // jujutsu kaisen, gege akutami // achilles come down, gang of youth // jujutsu kaisen, gege akutami // the song of achilles, madeline miller // jujutsu kaisen, gege akutami // the song of achilles, madeline miller // jujutsu kaisen, gege akutami // the song of achilles, madeline miller // jujutsu kaisen, gege akutami // the carnivorous lamb, augustin gomez-arcos // herakles, euripides // jujutsu kaisen, gege akutami // sleeping with lights on, searows // i loved you in all the ways I could, sue zhao
This fucks me up in ways I can't even explain dude
I fully understand this isn’t everyone, but love the sect of m/m shippers who don’t want to be inserted into the relationship at all. dont want to fuck them, don’t want x/reader. this isn’t about me it’s about my boys being in situations and then fucking about it. I’m barely a fly on the wall im not even here.
What writers misunderstand about stimming.
Okay, so one of the biggest problems that I have seen with a lot of neurotypical writers who have stories involving autistic characters is that they really misunderstand and simplify why and how they stim.
The most common reason you'll come across is that autistic people end up engaging in self-stimulatory behavior as a coping mechanism for when they're stressed or anxious, which is not untrue but it is often propped up as if it were the only reason why we do it.
Which is definitely not true, autistic people can and do stim for a number of reasons including but not limited to:
Excitement/happiness to express our joy and fascination with something.
A method of concentration to help ground us in the present moment or a way of focusing our thoughts.
To help process and sort through information.
To help regulate sensory processing and overload.
Unconsciously, because of how naturally it comes to us and we don't even realize we're doing it and not for any specific reason at all other than we like it and it's comforting.
It can also even help to reduce pain!
Also not every single kind of stim is an obvious or 'disruptive' one, they're are about six categories regarding stimming.
Visual (Staring at moving objects, bright colors, lights, fixating on lamps or screens, rapid blinking or eye fluttering, flipping switches and clicking buttons, lining up objects, counting things)
Auditory (Repetitive listening to any kind of music or song as white noise, humming or making vocal sounds, tapping on objects or ears)
Tactile (Rubbing skin or objects between fingers, hand movements, finger tapping)
Taste/Oral (Chewing or mouthing objects, licking, biting, comfort foods, seeking out specific flavors/tastes, playing with food and different textures like crunchy or squishy sensations)
Smell/Olfactory (Sniffing or smelling different things, scented candles, wax melts, perfume, even everyday smells like book pages and coffee)
Vestibular (Rocking back and forth, hand flapping, spinning or swinging, jumping, pacing or walking on tiptoes)
Also a few not so obvious stims: Rewatching media like movies or tv shows, playing with jewelry or hair, doodling, joint cracking, playing with clothing or fabrics, etc.
The problem with the common portrayal of stimming isn't that it's 'wrong' or even entirely inaccurate per se but it lacks diversity and nuance, and every autistic person is unique and won't have all of the same stims or comfort behaviors as another and when you portray one type or way of stimming as if it were the default you help to perpetuate the belief that all other forms of stimming is somehow unnatural and less valid in comparison, and the other issue is that when they do describe stimming they always portray it as a way of highlighting how disruptive and 'troubling' it can be for the people around them to witness while never bothering to show any way of how to simultaneously meet the needs of the autistic person without 'fixing' them somehow or demonizing them and their behavior.
You can't just hold the hand of an autistic person to stop their fidgeting and expect it to solve everything! It's unrealistic, Especially if you hold their hand without permission which would probably make them wanna stim more out of discomfort! I'm tired of seeing this disrespectful and ableistic kind of representation in the media and fanfic I consume, I don't know if others realize it or not but it's actually really harmful to the image we have of ourselves because it makes us out to believe that these unconscious behaviors we have are wrong and need to be discouraged cause it's harmful to the people around us.
It's one thing, if for example it is a stim like picking at or scratching skin which does actively harm them but if it is a stim that doesn't harm themselves or other people then there is no excuse to have our way of being in the world be used as nothing but a moral example to 'adjust' our behavior in order to align with more normalized habits because that's dehumanizing (Flapping our hands in public or fidgeting with items quietly to ourselves is not disruptive!). I personally would love to see more stories with stimming being normalized instead of as a bad habit that needs to always be 'corrected' by those around them and hope there will be more ones like that in the future because it is normal for us and that needs to be acknowledged.
Jokes aside the only thing I didn't like about ep4 of hazbin hotel is alastor watching vox and val do the horizontal tango yk
Screw queerplatonic relationships I want whatever alastor and vox have (queerplatonic hateship)
people who learned about greek mythology due reasons that DONT involve having read percy jackson at 12 freak me out, like what the FUCK was going on in your life that you found out that zeus turned into a pigeon to woo his wife like HOW
My grandma used the Odyssey as a bedtime story
A Queer Platonic Relationship is whatever Joan and Sherlock had going on in Elementary. Hope this helps.
we are living through house md renaissance but we all deserve elementary renaissance
what if geto suguru was a butch lesbian. end tweet
Biblical 🫵🏻
Y'all know the stereotype of butch/masc and femme/fem relationships where the first only drinks beer and the second only cocktails?
Well me and my QPR (she's a lesbian, I'm lesbian oriented aroace spec) do the opposite every time
She's very fem and only orders beer while I'm masc and only drink cocktails (especially pink ones)
i love them
It JUST occurred to me that if Hobie left Gwen the watch in her universe that means he went there and met her dad
The implications of this are SO interesting
Hobie had to go there, find Gwen’s dad, explain who he is and how he knows Gwen, then ask him to give her the watch
He even describes Hobie as a piece of work!!
I’m so curious -
Did Hobie have some choice words with Gwen’s dad? Did he say that he’s the person that housed her when she was homeless?
Hobie met Gwen’s cop dad and gave him the watch WHAT DID HE SAY WHAT WAS THAT CONVERSATION
WHAT DID HOBIE SAY TO GWENS COP DAD